Ok. Asked question before. There's a psych prof at my school who seems to show interest. I ran into him at coffee shop one day, and he remember my face after I took one class from him 7 years ago. I'm back at school so when I see him, he wants to talk or otherwise makes sure to say hi as I pass him buy. If I'm sitting at cafeteria and he walks by, he stares at me until I look up. He only seems to want to talk to me. I was with friend who had his class last semester and he totally ignores her and only talks to me. She says he has a crush on me.
One night I ran into him and he standing close, making heavy-duty eye contact it actually made me nervous. Also, I hear he's married but wears no wedding ring. He never mentions wife when he talks about weekend/travel plans.
I want to get his advice about internships in pysch and he's invited me to his office to talk to give advice. He has great connections. I don't know if this is wise move...but maybe I'm reading too much into it
2007-02-10 12:42:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and he seems to remember every little detail I tell about me. He even knew something about me I don't remember telling him...making me think he looked up this info.
I'm confused because I'm a black girl...he's white. I can't really tell when white guys actually like me.
2007-02-10 12:43:41 · update #1
If he's married I won't pursue him. If he is single, maybe.
2007-02-10 12:49:22 · update #2
uh...i'm iffy about it...you should take a friend with you if you go to talk to him about it..dont be alone with him
2007-02-10 12:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by angelbabytrc07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a fatal attraction to me.Better watch out for him and try to stay away.He isn't supposed to show any personal interest in you at all as you are a student.This could turn into a real nightmare if you should become personally involved with him.Think about it,he is probably married,is most likely way older than you,works in a position of trust which he is obviously violating and is acting like a lecherous animal.He is in full predatory mode and you are his prey so watch out.And whatever you do avoid being alone with him,you can always get advice you need from a more credible source.And when he does his heavy duty eye contact tell him to take a picture it will last longer and if not then keep your eyes to yourself.
2007-02-10 21:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl sleep with that white man get that experience. Girl, if you need a good grade suck that cock. I forgot Psychology is easy if it was Human Anatomy ; I would be on that thang.LOL LOL LOL LOL I wouldn't talk to him because he is married. If he wasn't; maybe I would think about it. He probably wants more than just to sleep with you; he probably want a relationship with you. On the real don't do it; it could cost a lot of controversial if it ever gets out.
2007-02-10 20:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married and he will probably try to rape you if you go to his office alone. Have someone waiting outside and wear a sweat suit. Put your hair in cornrows or something and wear a lot of rings in case you have to knock his *** out. Tell him you like girls. Start coughing and tell him you have mono. Talk about your period or something I don't know. Just keep him at a distance.
2007-02-10 20:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by ihateidiots 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, he wants something from you and it aint homework! if you believe there is any truth to the hearsay on this teacher, i would stay away from any situations that may put you in a comprimising place. this man must do this on a regular basis and hes trying to make you his next victim. dont let him. always keep your contact with him on a professional level and work through him that way to his "great connections." remember though, if your an attractive person there's no harm in him looking as long as he doesnt touch.
2007-02-10 21:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I'm hearing that (1) he's married, and (2) he's in a teacher-student relationship, or a professional relationship with you already. He sounds like bad news for those two reasons alone. I wouldn't head into this.
2007-02-10 20:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm ODD... seems like there is a sexual tension he gives off. if you do go to his office either bring a tape recorder or a friend. take control of the situtation. ask some of his collegues about his odd behavior. maybe he just trying to psych you out....pun intended sorry
2007-02-10 20:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone. He sounds like a major creep, and I would bet that he is married. Ive known of guys like him before and they were all bad news. Good Luck !!!
2007-02-10 20:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep isn't the word that comes to my mind. The word I'm thinking of does have an S in it though.
2007-02-10 20:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sleeping with a proffesser , bad move he could get into trouble. plus if he is married, u could ruin the mariage
2007-02-10 20:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋