i dont even think he have aprreciated all the things i have done for him...
2007-02-10 12:37:53 · 4 answers · asked by fjane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same exact situation as you are and let me tell you it is hard because I still love him. I managed to not take his calls not go anywhere he will be or answer my door. When you start to move on, he will definitely be back because he is not used to you not being there. He is going to tell you the he misses you and all sorts of things just to get you back into his life. He may evn love you but you have to move on and try please try to ignore him at all costs. That's where I made the mistake and answere the phone and now we are talking again. I will definitely have a life and continue to go out with my girlfriends and see other guys. I just won't be so available to him anymore. That is the key word, make yourself "UNAVAILABLE" to him and watch the tables turn. I know already because I am going through it right now.
2007-02-12 08:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation as you...but i feel a little bit empowered about it now that ive had some time to think and reanalyze my situation...honestly you just need to keep busy, and hang out with the girls..thats the best medicine for a break up..and 2nd..you need to think about how your feeling..how is it going to help your situation if you cry, stay sad, and think about him all the time...because that won't bring him back..and your not helping yourself either..its a lose lose situation....you need to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are worthy of someone that is worth your appreciation and all you have to offer..dont ever forget the value of your own self worth...its soooo his loss and TRUST ME he WILL get what he deserves...but until then..you concentrate on yourself..i have an idea..how bout you care about you and start appreciating yourself for a change....its a start and it will benefit you in the long run..hope that helped hun...good luck!
2007-02-10 20:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant force your self to move on
you have to let it take its toll
but dont hurt yourself(cut)
cuz i did
i liked this guy for 3 years
and cut his unitals in my skin
with a heart around it
and now that iv moved on..........
the scar remains
good luck
2007-02-10 20:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by urluvmakesmeweak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need him out of your life
second u need to keep yourself busy as much as possible
third u need to make yourself happy
fourth u need to start looking for someone else
and last fifth u need to let time do its work, just be patient. it takes time. good luck
2007-02-10 20:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋