Singles & Dating - 10 February 2007

Dearest Sexy,

I have a proposition for u. I have been thinking about this 4 many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do.

Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where u would stay after you move here? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it 4 awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind.

I think u would be a good roommate, when u move to here. If u take this offer, u would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask 4 that as a flat rate each month. U would have ur own room, baby and I would share a room (the bigger of the 2, currently my office).

Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best.

Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure u could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything ur heart desires.

Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and u could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured u are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house.

It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner.

U would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when baby is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about.

The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if u take this offer.

U will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time.

Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important.

If you'd like to do this, let me know. U do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision.

I hope u have a deliciously wonderful day!

Yours always,

Pumpkin

2007-02-10 22:57:23 · 17 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

i was told that guys have a piece of skin that is ripped the first time they have sex.Therefor,it is possible to tell if a guy is still a vigin...
is that true?if so,how does it look like?

2007-02-10 22:56:01 · 13 answers · asked by poisongirl877 1

Hi, I’m a guy who’s 24 years old, and still a virgin. Now the reason why I’m still a virgin is by choice, because I have strong beliefs in abstaining from sex till marriage. The problem is that I’m scarred of getting into a relationship because of this, because I’m afraid that the girl I’m with may not be strong enough to wait with me. If that situation did happen where she did have an affair what should I do, more importantly how can I get over my insecurities about this, and learn to trust women?

2007-02-10 22:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by X 1

2007-02-10 22:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see her lying in despair
Her face is hidden, by her hair
With teardrops flowing from her eyes
I feel her sorrow, as she cries

Her pain is pounding, deep inside
She wipes those tears, she tries to hide
Her life is coming to an end
Her broken heart, she can not mend

He told me that I was his life
And that soon, I’d be his wife
What kind of man could be that way
To just leave me, in disarray

I don’t know what, I could have done
He told me now, I was no fun
He said the years have been great
But lately, I’ve gained too much weight

I told her that, if she would stand
I would gladly take her by the hand
I’ll show you what this man can do
To help you thru, and be brand new

I’ll help you, to move along
And day by day, you will be strong
And in the end, I found a way
Together twenty years, since that day

2007-02-10 22:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1

Actually, it is easy to find someone, but it's not easy to find the one you really want...

2007-02-10 22:52:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

of a great relationship, but he tells you he wants to talk to you about something and he wants to be honest with you, caught between scared if he tells you you will leave him or should he not tell you and keep his secret that tears him apart day after day, As scared as he is to tell the one he loves with all his heart, he knows he has to be honest - so he tells you that since age 13 he is a CrossDresser, mostly at home in private and scared shi*less of being caught, still at age 38 he is as unsure of that realm of life as he was the day it started, hes not gay, hes not bi-, and he worships the ground you walk on, Do you stay and try to understand with him and no matter what love him as he is and he does love you as you are as well _or are you narrowminded and tell him you never want to see him again while suggesting he seek help ?

2007-02-10 22:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy is called 'handsome', a girl is called '......'
What's the equivalent way of saying that but for women?

2007-02-10 22:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just say theres a woman you work with who is a fair bit younger than you.She likes you and you get the general idea.She talks to you a bit and goes red around you.Is sometimes nervous around you. Would you flirt back if there was no feeling on your part.By flirt i mean smile,still talk to her,laugh at her jokes,try to make her laugh,tell her about your friends,tell her you've been thinking of her and give her eye contact from across the room or just when the two of you are talking in general.Would you even try to get her attention physically. This guy knows i like him and still flirts but then sometimes he doesn't flirt. But i still see him looking at me.would you men do all of this if you weren't interested in her ?aswell?

2007-02-10 22:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by debra 2

Is Valentines Day a chance to show the person you care about how you feel or has it become something else. I think it should be called Girlfriend Day or Wife Day because guys never ask each other, "What are you hoping to get?" We ask, "What are you getting your girl?".

2007-02-10 22:45:02 · 12 answers · asked by jax0817 3

As i already said, i was planning to ask this guy to coffee yesterday, but by the time i got the courage he had finished his shift...therefore my friend decided to go up to 2 of his coleagues and ask them where we could find him and if he was still in the store and they replied that we might be able to catch up with him at the exit, however, we didn't. So, there is no doubt that im going back into the store today to ask him out, the only thing im worried about though is that the colleagues will have told them that 2 girls were looking for him and he will think im a stalker. What do you think? i'd appreciate any advice...thanks! :-)

2007-02-10 22:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 22:40:15 · 16 answers · asked by shaun2dance 1

I do, wish I had waited for someone who respected me a bit more but do you? Or was it simply wonderful?

2007-02-10 22:32:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 22:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by brentons9mm 2

please give me stories of how you put God first in your life. also what self -sacrificing thing you did; or how did you turn your life around, give me stories or your experience. please help.

2007-02-10 22:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 22:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by shoegalkb007 1

girlfriend is a friend not lover, love and friendship both are different so why girlfriend word means as a lover to boys.

2007-02-10 22:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by payal s 1

2007-02-10 22:14:57 · 7 answers · asked by Marelan F 1

My ex split with me about 4 months ago, we were together for almost 4 years.

I found out that she's been seeing someone else for the last month but I'm still very much in love with her and I know she cares for me a lot still.

I've written her a long letter saying things that I should've said to her when we were going out with each other and telling her how much I loved her and how much she ment to me.
I've also talking about mistakes I made when going out with her, lack of communication amoung other things. I basically open my heart to her and say that regardless of the fact that she's seeing someone I still love her and that I want her to know how important she is to me.

I've put the letter in a Valentines day card that I will give to her on monday when I see her.

I admit that what I want more than anything is for her to go back out with me but regardless of that I feel I have to tell her how I still feel.

Is any of this wrong? Does this sound like the wrong approach?

2007-02-10 22:11:30 · 17 answers · asked by basisdnb 1

2007-02-10 22:10:42 · 2 answers · asked by lala_jonesy 2

i have been with my bloke 5 years now we have a 3 year old together ,for the first 18 months we had great sex then it stopped and we started sleeping in seperate beds ive asked him to tell me why but the answer is always different i tryed being understanding but he watchs porn and can pleasure him self.hes 35 and im 25 all i want is for him to want me is that to much to ask?

2007-02-10 22:10:35 · 6 answers · asked by angelcake 1

I have known this guy for 9 years and we now have a 2 month old son. There is this guy that my son's father calls his brother (no bloodline). He is just my baby's father's sisters sibling. The guy and I have always had an unspoken attraction to each other. Since I got pregnant my son's father who is a chronic mama's boy basically gave me his @ss to kiss. He has no interest in doing anything unless its for his mama. For 8 of these 9 years I had no interest in him. He has been in love with me since forever. We got together and it didn't work. I did attempt to make it work but it didn't. Since my son has been born me and the other guy have been casually dating. We inadvertently got close due to me reaching out to him trying to understand my son's father and his issues with his mama. I take excellent care of my son, I have a career and my own everything. Is it wrong for me to pursue a relationship with this guy, I mean technically we are grown and isn't all fair in love & war?

2007-02-10 22:06:45 · 3 answers · asked by Jade 3

Ok so, I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I found out she had been making out with another guy. I also found out that another girl, my best friend, has had a thing for me since from the start of my last relationship. She didn't want to hurt the relationship so she ignored it until now. Well my ex had been jealous of her and I for a while (even though there was nothing between us), so she decided to make me jealous by making out with the other dude. Now that I'm single, my friend and I have started to see if things could work. I told her that I didn't have any feelings left for my ex, and that was true when I told her, but all of a sudden I am not so sure that it is true anymore. I know my ex is sorry, and we are still cool as friends, but recently small part of me keeps thinking about her. So I am really confused, I think want to be with the friend, but a small part of me keeps thinking about my ex. What should I do?

2007-02-10 22:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1

2007-02-10 22:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 22:01:58 · 20 answers · asked by say whatt?? 2

when on there profiles they say they want a real woman ..and a good woman ,w/no drama..but really they dont want a real woman..what is up with that

2007-02-10 22:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by juanita33 1

Me and my girlfriend talk about sharing each other with other people. We were like in the future that is a possibility—so we agreed on it. This is not a form of cheating is it? Does this mean… we don’t care about each other as we use to?

2007-02-10 22:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 21:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by Marelan F 1

2007-02-10 21:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 21:51:53 · 27 answers · asked by shoegalkb007 1