i have been with my bloke 5 years now we have a 3 year old together ,for the first 18 months we had great sex then it stopped and we started sleeping in seperate beds ive asked him to tell me why but the answer is always different i tryed being understanding but he watchs porn and can pleasure him self.hes 35 and im 25 all i want is for him to want me is that to much to ask?
2007-02-10 22:10:35 · 6 answers · asked by angelcake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him hun hes a loser ever heard the saying there's more fish in the sea dump the loser and find somebody who wants a real woman who will love and want you not a tv screen
2007-02-11 04:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by steve738494 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi AngelCake
It is not too much too ask at all .. & I assume that you have some idea of what his reasons are for not wanting to share a bed with you & that you have tried talking to him seriously about your future together,
It sounds like there are many underlying issues that need to be dealt with to restore your relationship
Could it be that you want another child & he dos'nt?
Do you get on with each other apart from sex?
You say he answers your question differently every time, are you sure you are asking the same question every time
If you can, try to get him to go to relate with you, they will give you professional help & guidance, make an appointment to explain to him that you really want to work things out.
I hope you resolve your differences & that you both learn how to be 'together' in the proper sense of the word
goodluck
2007-02-15 00:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got out of a relationship where the guy was addicted to touching him self/ it truely hurts and they do not know how bad it hurts us. You hang in there girl and try to do new things that can spice up the life of it all. Look up different ways on the internet and mybe you can try to do a date night every week, make it a habit and it will draw you closer if he wants to work on it. My problem with my ex is that he just gave up and he was a jerk anyways. I wish the best of luck to you two and maybe it will work if you act like you live in seperate apartments (role playing)
2007-02-13 18:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by southern sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to get him to open up to you about what's going on - it sounds like you've come to a point where you're not going to put up with it anymore and you deserve more than this.
not sleeping in the same bed isn't just about sex, it's about intimacy as well - cuddling up and talking. see if you can make him see how you're feeling
good luck â¥
2007-02-11 17:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try seducing him..
erotic dancing...offer a 3some (thats a gauranteed yes as long as its another woman)
good luck XX
2007-02-14 17:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by mike l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be mad !!
2007-02-14 12:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋