Me and my girlfriend talk about sharing each other with other people. We were like in the future that is a possibility—so we agreed on it. This is not a form of cheating is it? Does this mean… we don’t care about each other as we use to?
2007-02-10 22:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont recommend this line of thinking. it raises more problems then anything else. but if you are going to do this there should be some rules first. figure those out yourself. is it cheating? in a way it is. do you still care about each other? only you can answer that. but to do this is only being selfish because your not sharing each other, just having other partners.
2007-02-10 22:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some people's point of view, that kind of set up is just a casual thing to do, but i think (specially on an intimate relationship), partners shouldn't be shared with anybody.
First, emotions/ feeling/ love - when deepened is really hard to deal with. Why take risk of having future heartbreaks?
Secondly, lets face it, there might be (extra curricular activities called sex sooner or later...), what if during the 'SHARING' time, you've/ your partner got infected with the friendly virus called HIV... ? Don't you think it is a bit of scary? '
It's fun ok but fun isn't always the reason to be in a relationship... Have someone to care, someone to give petty figths and a bit of nagging make it worth too.
2007-02-10 22:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by clai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 00:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by kobielnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monogamy - having only one partner - is not natural for humans; it was imposed by various religions, and the 'sharing' you suggest has become a minefield of mixed emotions. As long as you're both open and honest with each other, such sharing can create special relationships in maturity.
2007-02-10 22:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone agrees with you and tell you its ok, will that make it right or just make you happy.. to me, it is cheating even if you do agree on it and also to me, it does mean you dont care about each other with whole hearts..
2007-02-10 22:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a form of not true Love
2007-02-11 00:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means its ok to experience, me and my girlfriend do that a lot but we still love each other
2007-02-10 22:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool. My gf is bi but she always has emotional issues when we meet another girl. Hopefully you have better luck & can get down to business.
2007-02-10 22:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on "where" ya'll r at in the relationship. if ya'll luv each other, jealousy is a big factor. just remember, if it ain't broken, don't fix it!
2007-02-10 22:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by DoMeStIc GoDdEsS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are wrong sweety!
You use each other. If u love someone you want him ONLY for u!!!
This is a fake relationship.If u don't love her it's ok.If u love her please respect her.
2007-02-10 22:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋