Singles & Dating - 10 February 2007

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There is this girl i liked at the beginning of my freshman high school year (and i am still in my freshman year) and i like her again

the problem is that i messed up the first time, because i wasnt very good at talking to girls, and i kinda creeped her out, cause i never talked to her...but lately ive matured, and its a lot easier, like i dont get nervous and crap, and i automatically talk to girls now, no effort...i think it would take some real hard work and stuff to get this girl i like, and i need ur help

ive tried to forget about her, but i just cant...i moved on for about a month, but went back because i just couldnt stand it, shes so frickekn beautiful!!!!

so i wanted some help...any ideas of how to make her like me even the slightest bit?? list things like strategies (lol) and stuff like that....
PS: no notes

maybe something for valentines day, that wouldnt give it away

AND SHES AN AWESOME PERSON, GREAT ATTITUDE AND LOOKS, and thats y i like her

2007-02-10 17:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by German L 1

2007-02-10 17:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Buddy Love 2

I was searching for people to add to my web page, and I typed in this guy's email address where the box said "search" to see if he too had a web page. Well I've know this guy for awhile, we actually had a casual relationship for over a year until he moved back to his home state. He said he wanted to keep in touch, which he did a few times, but I've initiated more than he has. Anyway, I hadn't heard from him in awhile, so I decided to see if he had a personaly page like I did. Well...the bad part of this is that he doesn't know I know of his yahoo address...when he left he gave me his work email address so I've been using that address to email him. I found that he had a yahoo address through another source. Anyway, I didn't notice that when I typed in that email address it said "invite" instead of search!! And now he probably realizes that I know his yahoo address!! How do I recover from this?!!

2007-02-10 17:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 17:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by Raisa 1

make someone who isnt that attractive....attracitve?

2007-02-10 17:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by CJL18 1

Okay so my boyfriend and I have only discussed oral sex, however I don't want to do anything yet becuase I'm worried about STD's. See he is 19 and when he was about 15 he regrets that he had sex with ex girlfriend then, it was his only sexual partner, but she was pretty slutty-she even was the one who pushed him into having sex-and she had a previous partner. They did not use protection sometimes either. It's been almost 5 years and he has never been tested, but I know some STD's never show any signs. He even said he couldn't trust what she told him anyway, but he is worried about his parents finding out if he went to get it done at the doctor. How bad is the risk factor and what exactly could he do?

2007-02-10 17:15:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance' mother is a very difficult woman. She likes to have near complete control over his life, (he lives at home, as do I) and makes very tactless comments to me about him and our relationship. I'm very much in love with him, but she's a near unbearable force between Nick and myself.
For the most part she's a wonderful woman, very kind, but then she says something (for instance about his ex-girlfriend stephanie whom is still crazy for him) that is so COMPLETELY misplaced. she also likes to make events that are more me oriented very difficult to accomplish.

2007-02-10 17:13:39 · 9 answers · asked by Nymph 2

So me and my ex have been broken up for about 4 months now. I was doing great. I hardly thought of him anymore. Then a couple of weeks ago I found out he has a new g/f. Now he is all I can think about. I wish I could be with him. Is it really a crush or is it just him looking like a shiney new penny now? I just can't help, but wish I could run into him. He lives a couple of hours away though so that wouldn't be possible unless I went psycho and drove there to purposely run into him. It really feels like a crush. I know our relationship ended for its reasons and he's obviously moved on. I was almost over him and then bam. I'm back at square one. This is a bxtch. I'm actually considering sending him a Valentine's card. It would be so wrong since he has a g/f. I need to stop. Has anyone else gone through this? What was the outcome? Did you get over it? I know everyone says it'll take time. Well yeah. 4 months seems like plenty of time.

2007-02-10 17:11:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

I met a guy over the summer and we got really close. He goes to a different school, but we only live 15 minutes away. We got really close and were practically dating. we both ran cross country and got to see eachother at the meets and we hung out a few times a week. I REALLY liked him. But one day we hung out all day and I took him home and he said he'd call the next day and I left. But he didn't call and wouldn't talk to me on the internet the next night. We haven't spoken in person since. November was when this happened. I went to his football game thatweek to talk to him and he barley said anything to me. But a few weeks ago i sent him a message on myspace and asked him why he wouldn't talk to me and he said it was because he was afraid of getting too attached to me or something i've seen him a few times at bball games, and i really want to talk to him but i'm too afraid. i really scared he'll just ignore me. I want to tell him how i feel and try to work it out. what should i do??

2007-02-10 17:08:09 · 3 answers · asked by Its mee!!!! 1

I was wondering if anyone could help me. I am 17, and I currentley like this one girl. Unfortunatley there is another guy "Mike". He has a girlfriend, but still calls the girl I like "Jill". "Jill" says we would date if she still didn't like "Mike". "Mike" used to like "Jill" and she didn't realize that she liked him until he got his current girlfriend. "Mike" currently goes to a different school where I have many friends. I have found out and confirmed many times that he is a stoner. "Jill" is very religous and I know she doesn't approve of stuff like that. I don't believe that she knows. I want to know if you think I should tell her what I have found out. I am afraid she will think it is just somthing I'm saying to get me ahead, and it's just I don't want to see her get hurt. Please help, thanks for your input.

2007-02-10 17:07:43 · 10 answers · asked by Nike 1

ok i've got this girl pregnant but i have a girl friend what should i tell her or what should i do because i don't wan't to end up like usher (the condoum poped).

2007-02-10 17:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i only find old man to be attractive , they just look so good ,i am 20 years old and i want to be with someone 70 years older than me . young guy are just ugly to me but i get turn on by the image of a 90 year od mans body.

2007-02-10 17:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anastasia 3

Looking for a website similar to girldon'tdatehim.com

2007-02-10 17:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by kr2srno 1

I've been with him for 2 years now. im a 14 yr old freshman in highschool,and he's a 16 yr old sophomore.He didn't used to be like this.2 weeks ago my 21 yr old cousin came to visit for a day,and i hadn't seen her in 4 yrs,but she's like my sister because we're so close, so i told him that that night she was here,i was going to spend time with her and not get online to talk to him or call him,and he goes "well fine i didn't want to talk to you anyways see if i care.go do whatever i guess" in this really nasty yelling voice,and he thought i was being mean because i wouldn't talk to him for one whole night.He comes over to my house every night,literally,and so at school i like spending time with my friends,and he thinks i should be with him at all times that we can during school,even though i see him everynight, and barely see my friends.He don'twant me to wear makeup, and he tells me what time to go to bed. He gets mean when i can't think of something to talk about with him.

2007-02-10 17:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by JaggedLittlePill 4

I have to make noise complaints about the guy above me all the time and this one particular officer always comes to my door to give me a case number... he's hott. I really want to bone him bad. I noticed that he never lets his partner come to my door, after 20 times he's been the one to do it... He may like me... Either way, I want to ask him out - - please give me some ideas on how to do this. I'm almost embarrassed.

2007-02-10 17:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

I broke up with my girlfriend. She has my xbox, a wireless controller, space heater and a movie. At first she was like whenever you wanna pick it up. But when I told her I was going to come up and get it (which is an hour and 45 min drive) she wasn't home. And now she's like your not getting any of it back and cussing me out blah blah blah. She's turned psycho. Anyways...what's a good way to get my stuff back? Small claims court? I don't actually have reciepts for that stuff so I don't know how that might go. Does anyone have any good ideas? Thanks in advance......

2007-02-10 17:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by David 1

My bf is really pressing to meet my parents we ahve been together for 3 months and i dont want to mess it up. my mom is realy fake when meeting people in general, and my dad is really strict. he was talking to a guy my dad does business with and talkin bout my dad and i, so i know my dad knows, but i ahve to tell em now. i dont want to ruin a good relationship with fake parents how should i play it off?

2007-02-10 16:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by someones love 2

i always have so much fun with my friends and i love having fun, but whe it comes to guys that i like, for some reason i feel boring.
its not that theyr boring, but IM boring.
i literally bore myself

i cant think of anything to say and i always feel awkward
and i try to do that thing where you make yourself think you dont reallyyy like them so that its easier to talk to them
because thats why i have so many guy friends
but i dont want that with him i want more
except when im with him, and any guy i like in general, i cant just be myself.
its so frusterating and i want them to know im really not like that!

ok i dont really know what im asking anymore
just, how do i make it turn into something before it becomes a friendship type thing and it doesnt seem like im coming off to strong or something

2007-02-10 16:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by lo 2

I was at the club and these guys are like hey look pretty boy is here. i was angry cuz i get that a lot but than my friend was like hey its jealousy on their part. i felt better after that but im realizing girls dont want guys that look better than them. my friend was like maybe u should wear joggers out. lol. anyone have any opinions cuz i feel kinda low now.

2007-02-10 16:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 16:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and this girl have been going on and off for 2 years and so far we've been together 4 4months straight iwas always leaving her b/c i wasnt sure if we would work cuzz of past relationships... 4months now is the longest we've been together she's soo happy she's even talkin about getting married and stuff like that and it doesn't bother me cause i wanted the same and i love her more than anything but i don't think i wanna be with her anymore and i don't know why? how do i break it? what's wrong? what do i tell her?

2007-02-10 16:56:06 · 1 answers · asked by Jesse J 1

i don't want another dead end relationship..but i'm lonely...

2007-02-10 16:55:43 · 21 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2

2007-02-10 16:55:19 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer0000 2

2007-02-10 16:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by nickhowell03 1

i like this girl but she has a boyfriend and i know this and i know that they are very happy. i know i shouldnt like her but i cant ive tried not to but i just cant. what should i do??

2007-02-10 16:53:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

--- or better yet, What stops you from eventually Marrying them?

I realize that there are so many stereotypes and prejudices against black women. ----(and not to mention,..ALL races/ethnicities)

However, very RARELY do people condsider that NOT ALL of them act the same.

They're not all "hoochies", "loud-mouths", "fight-starters", "uneducated dogs", "easy-to-have-sex-with", inappropriate dressers, full of attitude problems, "booty-shakers", etc.

The list goes on and on, --and I find it completely ridiculous.

Bottom line. Just answer the question as HONESTLY as you possibly can.

2007-02-10 16:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by What gives? 5

I love her so much still...
she still calls me...
she gets jelouse at me for talkin to other girls...
cant live with out her...
so confused about what to do...when i go home i can do nothin but think about her...and when i got to my apartment... i dream about her....and even when im with somebody eles and when im hangin out ith my friends what should i do???

2007-02-10 16:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 16:51:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know it probably seems like a dumb question (and may be), and i think i almost expect some smart-*** answers, but i've always wondered what type of guy women consider this..

is it simply being considerate of others, and if so, what is the problem that some women have with that? is it considered some sign of weakness or something along those lines?

2007-02-10 16:50:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 16:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous