i'm almost 16,been dumped three times & lonely?

Question

i don't want another dead end relationship..but i'm lonely...

Answer 1

I hear you. I am a little older than 16 and I wish that another dead end relationship will never ever happen for you, but it is likely there will be several more before Mr. Right comes along. It is a fact that you have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you find your true love. For now, focus on not being lonely. Surround yourself with old and new friends, get involved in the community...you will be sure to meet some people to help the loneliness go away. The busier you are making your life positive, then the less worried you will be about having a dead end relationship. Enjoy yourself and keep smiling. Even when you don't feel like smiling, do it. I guarantee you will feel a little better. Don't worry to much about your past relationships either, just take away the things you learned from those and improve on yourself. Best of luck to you...you won't be lonely for long.

Answer 2

Serious relationships in high school tend to end up that way- it's just how things are. But you have plenty of time! Sometimes it's better to just go on fun dates and enjoy yourself at 16. You may be ready for a relationship, but let's face it (no offense to guys or anything but) a lot of guys at age 16 are not. I mean, there are always exceptions, but guys need a couple more years to mature. So just enjoy yourself, be happy, and only seriously date guys if you know they're mature and will be there for you. And if you're lonely, have a girls' night out. Or go to a movie with a big group of friends. Just because you're single doesn't mean you have to spend your time alone! Go have fun! And someday you WILL find the right guy!

Answer 3

Your going to go throw relationships like that, some that only last a couple months and some that are going to last more, but all you can do is try, i know your true love is out there, some where, and don't worry about not finding someone right now you have your hole life to worry about that, and Never feel bad that your lonely look at it has a blessing....... the many things you can do with your free time being single.

P.S Don't let Valentines get you down..... its just another holiday for the Card companys to get rich off of.

Answer 4

You'll get over it. It is okay to be single for a while you know. Get to know yourself first. Go out with your friends!!! If you don't have any, make some! Get involved with school and stuff. That's the best way of getting to know people. YOU have been dumped three times, doesn't this tell you anything? Are you becoming dependent on guys for emotional support? In the long run, being single for a while will make you a stronger person. Come on give yourself more credit!!

Answer 5

Well...

1.) Cheer up. You're only 15. Relationships aren't much more than practice right now anyhow. Take it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

2.) Assess. Consider (with obsessing about it) why the break up occurred.
a.) was it your mistake, their mistake or neither?
b.) if your mistake, how can you prevent this next time?
c.) if their mistake, how can you avoid people like this next time?
d.) if neither, well, now you're in the grown up world of relationship crap. Accept, for the moment, that life just sucks sometimes and that we all go through this (even me!) and proceed on to step 3.

3. Retrofit. Take a break off from pursuing relationships. Reconnect with yourself, your family, your friends, your community. Ask, 'Do I love/respect myself?' If you're not totally confident with the answer here, take some introspective time off. Assess what it is you need to do to get back on the right track to being the person you want to be. Once you're back on the right track to achieving your personal goals, then you'l be ready to date again. And when you have confidence and pride in what you're doing and you know what your partner needs to be to support your goals, there's a lot better chance your next relationship will work out for ya.

Answer 6

You're 16!
You are young and beautiful and fabulous!
This is honest to god the best time of your life - so if something like boys are bringing you down, drop them and get back to the fun.

Take a break from the boys for a bit and focus on you - your school work, the sports you like, etc.
Sign up and sponsor a Save The Children child.
Get a job, save half your money open an ETrade account and learn how to invest it.
School, sports, charity and finance plus girlfriends will keep you busy and happy!

Answer 7

Don't worry about relationships at your age. Don't start seeing someone unless your completely serious and can see yourselves getting married and growing old together. The rest of them are dead-end relationships. If your lonely get with some friends and hang out. Movies are always fun.

Answer 8

Girl, don't worry about it.
Try to be independent, you don't need a guy!
Okay, being lonely is understandable but after a while you get use to not having a guy around to comfort you and stuff and then when time comes you'll be ready for a new relationship.
There's no need to rush so just take it easy for a while.
If you're going to date a guy, make sure he's what you're looking for and someone who won't be a regret.

Good luck and I hope I helped!

Answer 9

At 16, u should be concentrating in your studies, exercise, enjoying life with good friends and family. Study, get a job, work your way to the top, then begin a relationship with someone who would truly love u and whom u will love until the end. Stop dating now, you're too young!

Answer 10

Slow down take ur time Ur still young When the time comes you'll find that everlasting love
We all have been there it does get lonely,but u could do other things to ease the loneliness keep ur head up