I broke up with my girlfriend. She has my xbox, a wireless controller, space heater and a movie. At first she was like whenever you wanna pick it up. But when I told her I was going to come up and get it (which is an hour and 45 min drive) she wasn't home. And now she's like your not getting any of it back and cussing me out blah blah blah. She's turned psycho. Anyways...what's a good way to get my stuff back? Small claims court? I don't actually have reciepts for that stuff so I don't know how that might go. Does anyone have any good ideas? Thanks in advance......
2007-02-10 17:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lawyer, cops, ask her friends to help you. Make her see that shes crazy and should give back your stuff before she breaks it or sells it.
2007-02-10 17:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.LLP BunBun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this happen several times. Just keep driving to her house, to get it back. If you have to go this far, which i hope you dont, but if you do, if you know anyone that has her key, go to her house with that person while she is gone, get your stuff then go home. No one will ever know, and she will be bogled about it. If anything happens worse, like she says you broke into her house, stole her stuff, even know it is yours, that is when you go to small clams court. But you have to have some kind of evidence, like a witness or something.
2007-02-10 17:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A visit from the Boys in Blue would go a long way to helping you get your stuff back. Visit your local police station and tell them she has stolen those items from you.
Beware though - if she's keeping them because you skipped on your share of the rent or bills or something, then you're not going to get anything from her or the cops until you settle those debts.
2007-02-10 17:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by RIffRaffMama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly have a problem there. All you can do is
ask her for your stuff back and if you have anything of
hers you may want to return it as well.
Be nice about it - firm but not demanding. Soft words
work better than angry words. Ask her when she will
be home and arrive about 15 - 20 minutes before
you said you will - that way should she try it again, you
will be there before she goes.
2007-02-10 17:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how your relationship ended, but maybe you should have a mutual friend pick it up and hold it until you can get it. Going to her home doesn't sound like a good option. I'm sure you guys had at least one person you both knew who could mediate and get your stuff back for you. Good luck.
2007-02-10 17:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using your stuff as bait.
Here boy...come and get it...good boy.
Let her keep it - I mean are you really going to suffer for a movie and a space heater?
Move on and be ice cold with her...return zero of her calls when she starts wondering why you haven't been calling.
2007-02-10 17:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to her house with out the police , You don't want to be acused of being a stolker . Make a list of every thing you think is at her home . have some one tell you when she's home , then get the police to go with you .Keep cool , if she isn't cool & you are the police will respect you more & want to help you more .
2007-02-10 17:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, small claims court. Do not talk to her again. OR just let the stuff go.
2007-02-10 17:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn i hate these kinds of situations. if u have anything of hers, put it all in a box and make the drive back to her house. if she isnt home wait around till she gets there. sit in ur listen to music. give her her stuff and kindly ask for yours.
2007-02-10 17:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by rramkay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg get over yourself she wants you back you can so tell by what your writting you cant love someone and then not want anything to do with that person. talk to her be sensitive show her that you still care but dont love as a boyfriend.
2007-02-10 17:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋