As i already said, i was planning to ask this guy to coffee yesterday, but by the time i got the courage he had finished his shift...therefore my friend decided to go up to 2 of his coleagues and ask them where we could find him and if he was still in the store and they replied that we might be able to catch up with him at the exit, however, we didn't. So, there is no doubt that im going back into the store today to ask him out, the only thing im worried about though is that the colleagues will have told them that 2 girls were looking for him and he will think im a stalker. What do you think? i'd appreciate any advice...thanks! :-)
2007-02-10 22:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok, even if his colleagues told him that 2 girls were looking for him, he'd only think that he was popular. What you and your friend did does not constitute stalking behaviour yet.
2007-02-10 22:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the idea of a stalker...until they start dating one. He's flattered. But keep in mind that if you do start dating, he will be watching out for "stalker" traits. Don't feed into his fear and take things slowly.
2007-02-11 06:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you wouldnt know unless you try. dont worry about what people or him might think. plus, that can be a plus points for you if he's into agressive girls.
or make a story bout the reason that you guys are asking for him that time ( example: you need something from him or something)
then tell him the truth when u are dating him already...
2007-02-11 06:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by juno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. I don't think he will think you are a stalker. But, i'm sure he's curious to know who was looking for him. Good luck on this, i think he'll accept your offer for coffee after work.
2007-02-11 06:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never,never: relieve on Friend to commute to another person,
ones desires. It's best that you ask this person out for coffee on your own. If they say no, are in the least bit hesitance, don,t pursue it.
2007-02-11 07:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by MICHAEL K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably found out that you were going to ask him out and he left early. so my advice is that you shouldn't ask him out, if he likes you he will ask you out. unless you just want to hang out and just be friends.
2007-02-11 06:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is the stalker! Run like hell!
2007-02-11 06:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him
2007-02-11 06:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry as u said... dont think any thing...........
good luck.......
2007-02-11 06:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋