I do, wish I had waited for someone who respected me a bit more but do you? Or was it simply wonderful?
2007-02-10 22:32:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree. The first person I slept with was such a loser and we were drunk. Not to mention his penis was so small it didn't even break my hymen
2007-02-10 22:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a way. I was 14, he was 20. I just felt pressured to do it. I wish I would have waited for someone who respected me more than he did. However. I try not to hold regrets, just learn from my mistakes and move on. So since this is a big thing that can't be undone, there's no sense dwelling on it...
2007-02-10 22:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me again. Yes, I regret it, because I am the older generation, born in the early fifties. The norm was to wait until you got married. I waited, my first lover was the man I'd married earlier that day.
It was an absolute disaster. I hated it, I hated him. He was an absolute boor. I stayed married for 12 years, because you did in those days, had four children, gritting my teeth everytime he touched me.
Have been free now for over 20 years, but I know if I'd slept with him beforehand, I would not have married him.
It's so much better today.
My current partner is a wonderful lover. I did not even know what an orgasm was until we met. I was 43 before I had one!
Imagine that!!
2007-02-10 22:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by marie m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do regret it - I was 17 and this was too young (for me, not necessarily for everyone) He was my first boyfriend and so quite considerate and caring, but I didn't feel about his the way I would have liked to. I had started going out with him more through peer pressure than wanting to. I wish I had been stronger!!
Looking back, it would have helped if my mom had been able to talk to me about sex. I don't blame her, because she did her best. But as a parent now I try and be as open as possible with my children and talk about the emotional issues as well as the mechanics, if you know what I mean.
I guess we would all like our first time to be special and romantic, and mine wasn't, but it was OK. I made up for it with different partners in the next few years though!!
2007-02-10 22:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i regret both my first times
my first first time i was 7 and abused by the old next door neighbor for 6 years
my first time willingly was when i was 15 and the guy was very sweet and caring and we ended up doing it in the middle of the day by a lake and someone caught us and it wasn't even any good
2007-02-10 23:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. The first time is just clumsy, quick and unadventurous anyway. I think that it's nice to start a relationship having got the practise out of the way and knowing what you are doing.
2007-02-10 23:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreadfully, I became pregnant, how unlucky is that? I wasn't in love either, it was just an experiment. I had to marry him (1950s) one had to then because of the pressures of society. I was 17, it basically ruined my life ever after.
2007-02-10 22:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Angelfish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because the guy wasn't deserving and did not care for me as a person. He was in it for himself and only him self. It was awfully painful not romantic and unlike the movies. I suggest all newbies save it for someone they truly think is special.
2007-02-10 22:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by VoiceofExperience 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. The feeling is mutual but I'm still lucky that I found my beau who is open minded, respects me, loves me and makes me happy in his own ways. (- -,)
2007-02-10 22:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I really regret it! i was just forced, he is my boyfriend but i don't love him! until now i'm still carrying anger!
2007-02-10 22:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Precious Gracious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋