just was wondering if being told ure too skinny is bad.. this chick that i know is like 98 lbs so i was like if u were 120 itd be like whoa...a little after that she had to go..is she mad or offended bout what i said?
2007-02-10 12:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes she would be offended becuz we do not like for people to talk about our weight u should like us for personality and etc but not weight
2007-02-10 12:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Monet B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it offended her because u made her seem like she was at a bad weight or not good enough. If i were u i would tell u didn't mean it in a bad way, if u didn't. I weigh 98 so I know if someone told me that if i were 120 i would be whoa i would feel really bad. And in plus it isn't always good to be called skinny, personally it sometimes offends me. Hope this helps
2007-02-10 20:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by does it matter wat this says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she probably was offended. I am my same weight as I was 10 yrs ago and my size in clothes went from a 9/10 to a size 3. I have people tell me all the time I am too skinny. I would love to gain weight but I can't because I am too active. Believe it or not I do weigh 114. she is probably self conscience enough as it is.
2007-02-10 21:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by vicki p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably offended. But don't be too upset. She is that weight because she is holding up to the standards of the media- 98 pound girls with DD **** and big hips and a tight ***.
Yeah.
Right.
I'm a girl and even I know that a guy has to have SOMETHING to grab. No guy wants to be going at it and grab skin but def. feel the bone under it. GROSS.
In conclusion- do not be upset that she was offended. She is a flake. She probably went and threw up in the bathroom anyways. It's not you- it's her.
2007-02-10 20:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to ask her if you offended her..Some girls are touchy when it comes to there weight..You never know she could have a problem gaining weight or she could even be anorexic or bulimic..So just ask and apologize!!Good Luck
2007-02-10 21:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...word of advice..refrain from ALL weight comments in the future...im 107 and i sometimes get the too skinny comment.....it doesnt bother me personally since i love the weight that i am..but theres no reason why weight should even be brought up..theres soo many other things to talk about!
2007-02-10 20:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but know that a girl would be offended.
2007-02-10 20:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have been offened if one of her friends or family died from being to heavy, or maybe at one time she was, you never know. becarefull of what you say
2007-02-10 20:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be perceived as offensive...but that depends on the girl and how comfortable she is with her weight
bless your heart
2007-02-10 20:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋