when you are in one of those relationships when you never really know whats happening. Lets say i knew you, and we both kinda liked each other, but we didn't know where it was going. If i always brought up "us" like "do you like me or should i move on?" or something like that, would that annoy you? would i seem clingy? or is that OK?
2007-02-10 14:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by magicalmayhem_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, that would be very annoying. Girls always want to know what the next step is. Enjoy the moment. Bugging and nagging about "what's next" will guarantee that what's next is a breakup.
2007-02-10 14:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even though I'm not a guy I can give you an answer that will bother a guy if you keep bringing the same subject up but thats with everything in general. Most of the time guys get annoyed at the stupidest reasons like if their football team loses you know.
2007-02-10 22:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wouldnt seem clingy to me. You asking me would make me happy cuz then that would show me you realy liked me and that you wanted to know how i felt about us. Some guys dont like clingy chicks... personally i dont get what the deal about why being clingy is such a bad thing... if my girlfriend wanted to be by my side all the time i dont see what the big deal would be... id be just as happy to be right by her side! A lot of guys dont like it i think cuz then he cant flirt with other chicks cuz then he'll get caught since his girlfriend would be right there to witness it!
2007-02-10 22:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how often you asked it, really. If you asked once and were seriously concerned, I wouldn't mind- I would actually be happy that you asked! But I figure after saying that yes, I like you, and you kept asking the question it would get slightly annoying, because it would seem like you're have esteem issues, and wanted me to support you. But once again, if you were seriously concerned I wouldn't mind.
2007-02-10 22:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my girlfriend used to always say "us" and "we" in the begining, and it was annoying... but now....we've been dating for almost 2 years...acctually 2 years this tuesday...anyway...it was annoying...now its cute and it make everyone jealous....so from a real mans point of veiw...it is annoying...but only b/c it kinda scares some of us guys when girls start to plan a huge relatioship...but it pays off later....so my advise to you, would be to hold back on the "us" and "we"...and say...well do you want to.....and im gonna do this...you want to join me...it will pay off later..
2007-02-10 22:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to ask this question unless you are risking more than he is. If you are friends, this question about being an item will answer itself. If you are being taken advantage of, get away whether it annoys him or not. If his actions don't answer this question, get away and see what he does.
2007-02-10 22:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy.. but think about how to lose a guy in 10 days.. she was clingy and he still loved her!
2007-02-10 22:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Vikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u would think it would be annoying.
2007-02-10 22:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋