ok How can I get the guts to ask out a guy in my class he's cute and I think he likes me a little my name is Shannon and his name is Ben just in case you need 2 know
2007-02-10 14:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get drunk first.
2007-02-10 14:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl, but anyways.....
I know it seems SO hard to ask a guy out, because trust me, I've been through a situation like this SO many times. But the true thing is, you just got to do it! Walk up to him, and have your friends give you a little push if you chicken out. Once you'r standing right up in front of him, and you look into his eyes, all the things that you want to say will come to you. It's a weird thing, but it's true!
Just say: "I know this seems a little silly, but I really like you, and was wondering if you feel the same way. If you don't, I hope we can still be friends."
Or: "I know this seems silly, but I really like you, so do you want to go out?"
2007-02-10 22:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel cuz i had the same problem with a girl i liked.... i was talking to my friends and they were kind of teasing me and that made me mad so finaly i said "well i planning on asking her out today." so before i could do anything else one of my friends leans over to her cause she was just on the other side of the room and asks her for me. so maybe you could talk to a close friend... preferebly a guy cause they talk best together... and hav them ask for you!
hope this helps -kyle
p.s.
just for the record she said no because she thought that i wasnt her type.
2007-02-10 22:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For heavens sake girl just ask him out. If he says no then tell him you are going to keep asking him tell he says yes. Then ask him again in a couple of days. It might work. Good Luck.
2007-02-10 22:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him better, if hes smart, ask him to help you with hmwk or something, and slowly build your way up from there. If that doesnt work, try talking to others guys or girls that you dont know and make friends. This helped me out alot, because it raised my confidence in talking to girls.
2007-02-10 22:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I need to know your names?
Look, it's not a marriage proposal and the worst thing he can say is no.
Just relax, take a deep breath, and ask.
2007-02-10 22:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha, I asked the same question on how to ask a girl out...
I guess just get confidence and go for it, the worst that can happen is that he will say no...
2007-02-10 22:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to say your gonna do it and do it... get him alone and ask him but you need to do it... if you dont he might like someone else and you could have lost your chance... its hard to get the guts i no but you need to get him alone and ask him
good luck
2007-02-10 22:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm im not a guy but i kno that its gay that ur asking out a guy guys dont liek that they lose thier manilyness tell him u liek him and if he lieks you he'll askk you out...
2007-02-10 22:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether they show it or not, MOST guys are honoured when women approach them for that purpose. just tell yourself that life will go on if he says 'yes' or 'no'. you're still you, and there's nothing wrong with being you.
2007-02-10 22:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him alot!! that is the only way then ask him out....get his cell number too
2007-02-10 22:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by drewdog1115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋