My girlfriend keeps getting mad at me?

Question

If I talk about another girl, or look at another girl or even talk to another girl, my girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her. Friday at school I was talking to a girl in the hall because she wanted to know what we had for homework the night before, because she was away and we are in the same Science class. Whe I was done talking to her, My girlfriend came up to me and kept asking me why I was talking to that girl, and then she says shes mad at me and walks off with her friends and her friends give me nasty looks all day. This happened just two days after my girlfriend told me she kissed another guy and how sorry she is.

Tonight she calls me, tells me she hates me and wants to break up then calls back 5 minutes later and says she was joking. She did the same 3 weeks ago but it was a text message. I haven't even done anything to her for all this.

Do girls always act like that? Are women just the same? Because I am not looking forward to dating when I'm older if that's true.

** By the way, I have never cheated on her or done anything to make her mad. I try to be the best boyfriend I can, but she always gets mad at me every day and she bosses me.

Answer 1

Girls like that give us decent girls a bad name. She's insecure, and she feels like she's got to keep the shortest leash on you to make sure that some other girl, who is happy with herself, won't take you away.

My advice? Tell her that you're getting a little fed up with her games. If she can't deal with you being around the female population, and is going to accuse you of cheating because you're in the same vicinity as a girl, then she doesn't deserve you. If she freaks, says, "Then we're breaking up!" Call her bluff.

Tell her, fine. Bye! Because either she'll wake up and realize her immaturity is going to lose her boyfriend, or she'll never learn until some other guy comes along and really hurts her. But if you really sit her down, and tell her how much it hurts you, that she has such a lack of faith in you, maybe, just maybe she'll wake up.

Though, most importantly, why would you even bother? I'm sure you have strong feelings for her, enough so for you to put up with her thus far, but, she cheated on you. She kissed another guy, and yet has the audacity to make you feel guilty about absolutely nothing. Good luck, sweetie, your patience really is a virtue.

Answer 2

Some girls act like this.... some guys act like this... some people act like this. This girl is playing games; you should get away from her. You should break up with her. She sounds like nothing but trouble.
There are woman out there who are honest and true and will treat you with respect. Don't settle for anything less than being treated with respect.
Of course it is ok for you to talk to other girls. If your girlfriend has questions about it, answer them honestly and don't get defensive. If she makes accusations, reassure her, but don't let it go on and on. I would avoid looking at other girls though, it is just plain disrespectful to the girl you are with. Do your looking when she isnt around, not just when her back is turned, but when she isnt around.
You treat her with respect... she will treat you with respect.

Answer 3

No, not every girl does this. She's just a snotty little brat if she does that. (No Offense) If she does this , anythinf like this dump her and see what happens. There are other girls out there. Other girls that are trustworthy. I have lots of guy friends and when i have a boyfriend they never think i'm cheating, because they trust me and I would never do anything like that. Dump Her and find someone else!! hope it helps and that snotty girls goes.

Answer 4

She does sound a little crazy, but maybe she is just really insecure... if that's the case probably a nice gesture, showing her you really like her and no one else could help... But if she is just getting on your nerves, maybe the better thing would be to call it off. And.. no, most girls are jealous but i can assure you that they don't get to that almost-crazy point.

Answer 5

first i want to say sorry that she is acting like that and that not all girls are like that but the next time she says that tell her that u luv her that you would'nt even think of cheating on her if she does'nt beleave you then she's not the girl 4 u she has to trust u 2 luv you

Answer 6

if she kissed another guy and then shes also accusing YOU of cheating, she is probably guilty of more than kissing other guys! i would leave her alone b/c you deserve better than her.
and no, woman dont always act like that. girls act like that.

you'll find somebody nice. just wait and see.

Answer 7

Can you say psycho, the best thing to do is break up with you and see if she stalks you, then call the cops ad get a restraining order.

Answer 8

not all girls act like that. some get jealous really fast. you could try not smiling when you talk to other girls. look unhappy when you talk to them. or break up with her and find a girl who is understanding.

Answer 9

you're able to no longer confer with exes--particularly share your contemporary relationship issues of them. asking for hassle. merely be an open e book--and anticipate her to be the comparable. lady pal seems somewhat loopy however--making pals with your exes? Then getting mad reason you enjoyed somebody in the previous?

Answer 10

well she sounds like she is very immature to me maybe you should move on to someone who is as mature as you are...you never know tho she may just be going through a stage. I wish you good luck in whatever decision you make!!!