Singles & Dating - 9 February 2007

Make a decision on who you should be with? If you have been on and off with someone for a while but they make you upset sometimes, a guy you have sooo much fun with, or a quiet guy that seems to like you but doesn't really give you the time of day?

2007-02-09 03:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. And I'm in college now. She willl be attending my college in August. But RIGHT NOW, she is at home working saving money. So when we are apart she has a hard time acting like a girlfriend. Never cheated but she does not show attention and care when we are apart. She needs alot of attention but when we are together and i am home for a weekend or a break I cannot be happier. The only bad times in our relationship is when i'm in college and she's not around and she wants attention like a child. So what should i do? Dump her? or wait the 6 months until we are together. Because we use to be happy all the time when were together. but now with no type of everyday seeing each other or every week. she thinks since she's not with me she doesnt have to pay attention or show care. But when seh is with me she is my dream girl. but i'm not happy nOW. what should i do?

2007-02-09 03:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wasting of time, and should we try looking for something more serious?

2007-02-09 03:09:16 · 9 answers · asked by JENNY 2

2007-02-09 03:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by seancu2005 2

Physical attraction (charm) of your partner according to your experience , how long does it get hold of you?

2007-02-09 03:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by earthlove 2

2007-02-09 03:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Snickers candy bars?

I am addicted to chocolate...how to overcome this addiction? Please help! Much thanks!

2007-02-09 03:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5

I was seeing this guy a he disides to go what the auth gial how
do I get over hem

2007-02-09 03:03:48 · 4 answers · asked by storty1957 1

I think I met the perfect girl (the one). She fits the description of what I'm looking for in every sense. I had a nice conversation with her, and when I was done I knew there was something there that I had to pursue. Now I dont ask many girls out, but for some reason I felt like it was right. Where all of a sudden did I get this confidence. Well anyway I walk into the store she works one day, and guess what, she was in there with a coworker. This was going to make it seem awkward so I didnt ask then. A few weeks later I go back in at the same time I'd expect her to be there and she wasnt there. Is there something that is trying to tell me to stay away? Again I normally dont ask girls out, and when I finally get the nerve to ask a certain girl out, it feels like I'm being pushed away. Do you think God is saying stay away from her, or if you really like her keep pursuing her? Or maybe she may have a boyfriend, and God wants me to ask her when she is available? I dont know.

2007-02-09 03:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Mister 1

I meet this guy over the weekend. I have known him for a while but i have absolutely no interest in him. he is too short and just not my type.
Well anyway, i gave him my number i have no idea why i did that but i did.
Now he is after me telling me that he is not interested in being in a relationship with me he just wants me to be his friend. I do not want to be friends with him. He starts insulting me telling me about how i have a wall around me and that being unpleasant to all the men that approach me and a whole lot of other s**t.
I tell him i have no iterest to be his friend. he harrassing me telling me that he just want to talk and we could go to dinner and just talk.
He thinks that i am playing hard too get. now he telling me that he love me more cause i am tough and he likes a challenge. What am i to do? Why doesn't he understand i am not interested in him.

2007-02-09 03:02:34 · 9 answers · asked by Osunwole Adeoyin 5

Ok, I by no means dress slutty or whatever. I have always cared about the way I look, not w the motive of impressing anyone, but I just like to look nice & presentable. I have been called the fashion diva by my family & friends. My problem seems to be that my fiance' (whom I love very much with all my heart & I would do anything for) doesn't like the way I dress. He says that I care too much about the way I look. He gets upset when I call him at work & he asks what I am wearing & I tell him. He automatically says "Well, you're looking sexy AGAIN". I don't think I look sexy, I don't want to look sexy for people in public or people at work, only for him. Even when we go out, I want to look nice, but he gets upset & says that he thinks I look beautiful & that is all that should matter. It is all that matters, but I still do like to look nice, that is just the way I am & always been. Now, what should I do/how can I can let him know I don't care what others think, only him?

2007-02-09 03:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i broke up with my ex about a month ago and he was still obsessed with me!! and i hated it!!..now just a few days ago i found out that he is going out with my best friends..first they kept it form me for lmost 2 days. And my friend didn't even ask it it was ok. The when she told me i was happy for her ( but i'm a ood actrice) i'm actually relly upset. I'm grade 8 and he was my first nf and now i'm gonna have this horrible memory of him!! I just got off the phione talking to him about everything and it seems like he really likes her. They are both in the same clich as me and i have to watch everything they do...it bugs me soo much! I don't know what to do though cux i don't want to ruin the relationship i ave with either of them>!

2007-02-09 03:00:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last month when she sent me a mail. It was abt her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me

2007-02-09 03:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1

I have been dating this guy for 2.5 years... we've been through everything together and love each other a lot, but I'll be honest, I've added some drama to the mix. He says he is tired of my jealousy (I've been cheated on in the past, not by him) and that I should take some time to grow and come back to him when I get myself together.

He has told me he wants to see other people (when/if there is someone that interests him), but he still wants to hang out and be friends with me because he has a lot of fun spending time with me and loves me too much to not have me in his life. He keeps saying it isn't over, but I don't know how I would be friends with him though- I think it would hurt too much. Has this ever worked out for anyone? Can you go from exclusive to just "dating" again? I acknowledge his constructive criticism.. I know I need to work on me... do you think this is just a nice way of him breaking up with me, or is it in a way his inability to move on without letting go?

2007-02-09 03:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by blue_sky_outlook 1

has anyone? how was it? can it acutually work?

2007-02-09 02:59:10 · 14 answers · asked by chato_mc 2

2007-02-09 02:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by Zahir 1

2007-02-09 02:58:01 · 28 answers · asked by ash272006 2

Im 12 and i have a crush on someone and he has the same initials and has a locker right next to me. I really like him and want to ask him out but im scared too.What if he rejects me? ill be crushed forever.What should i do?

2007-02-09 02:57:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you had a choice, would you rather check someone out clothed or in the buff. please explain

2007-02-09 02:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by imjustlookingok 1

I met this girl at a bar a while back, from what I thought she was completely "out of my league" but I bit the bullet and asked her out anyway. She very enthousiastically agreed gave me her number and we planned a date for the following Friday night. Throughout the week (leading up to the Friday) she called me a few times and sent me a few text messages.

From my point of view we really hit it off on the date, I took her out to a nice restaurant, we had a great conversation, I was at the top of my game. Afterwards we went back to my place and talked until 5:00 am, and she wound up staying over.

We met several times afterwards then suddenly she got busy, and I haven't seen her since. She keeps telling me to call to make plans, but she's always busy and never returns calls anymore. I told her to phone me when she has time, and I've heard nothing yet.

What happened? Should I try to call her again or leave it up to her now?

2007-02-09 02:55:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl has been only a chat/text buddy for 6 years and has made it relatively clear she's not coming back. How do I make him figure this out. He is missing out on so much by waiting for a dream that isn't going to come true. Is it possible he will never let someone else into his heart? I have deep feelings for him and wish him the best but would like to have a chance to find out if WE could make it! We openly talk about it since I am a "friend" and it hurts me as much as him. He can't let go! Any advice?

2007-02-09 02:53:41 · 4 answers · asked by patty l 2

She told me on the phone last night and it kind of sent me for a spin. I didnt expect this because she knew my background showing that I dont share the same view. I dont have a problem with her view, except for the fact that its not only "it" but everything else in between that she wants to wait for. It's very different for me because ive never been with anyone like this before, and every other girl ive seriously dated has almost pressured ME into these things, and its just what ive gotten used to doing them. I also beleive that sex is an important part to a relationship, that it creates a strong bond between the couple that is important.its definately not THE most important thing, but i think that as time passes a relationship should progress mentaly, emotionally, AND physically. I definately value the mental and emotional parts far more than the physical, but i still think the physical parts are important. 2 questions. Shouldn't she have told me this earlier? and WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!

2007-02-09 02:53:11 · 23 answers · asked by mike 1

i think its pretty self explanatory

2007-02-09 02:52:27 · 37 answers · asked by amberhittle09 1

My friend told me he keeps finding men's clothes at the place where he and his girlfriend live. Sometimes a pair of socks under the bed, sometimes a shirt, or even a tie... She tells him those are presents for him, but they are not even his size. I think she is totally cheating! What do you think?

2007-02-09 02:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Rona9 2

what does it take to get you on your knees? and what does it take to get you to stay there until your guy is ready to 'pop'? if you do let him get there where do you make it 'put' it?

2007-02-09 02:50:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been goingf out with this boy off and on for 4 years we both are in the 11th grade right now we r not going out but are friends he said that we should see new people but ever boy i go out with i dont like and i cant stop thanking adout him. is it love

2007-02-09 02:48:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy's "thing" goes up while you're with him, he likes you. Because, this is what happened to me:

I ask my hot friend who i secretely have a crush on.. (best friends) to sit next to me cuz, his buddies never let him sit by me, and he does sit next to me. Then when I lean in to see somethin on his paper it's like UPPPPP... He thought I didn't notice... But I did, and he kept trying to hide it... So is it true that if it goes up he likes you...

2007-02-09 02:48:24 · 12 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1

he doesnt tell me he loves me anymore, and when I tell him I love him he seems to ignore it! I think i know in my heart that he doesnt. its a long distance relationship. And when I saw him yesterday he kissed me passionately. but its not enough, i'm feeling really insecure! I'm moving to where he lives, not just because of him but because I want a fresh start. I just feel like I dont know how he feels anymore, and just dont feel special like he use to make me feel. not that he does anything wrong. just feels like something is missing! But I love him very much, every time i see him it just clarifys how much i love him

2007-02-09 02:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by Eevie 1

to mend a ripped, stomped on, torn into pieces heart?

2007-02-09 02:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by precious 3

i have a friend that i like named alex... well i think that he likes one of our friends Sheilah a lot.. but she has never or will never have any interest in him, he doesnt have a gf and i dont have a bf, how can i win him over?? i told him once before that i liked him, but then we didnt talk for a semester, but that could have been because we didnt have ne classes together idk, help!

2007-02-09 02:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by nickelbacksmyhero 2