Singles & Dating - 9 February 2007

my ex called me last night and i didn't pick up the because we broke just four days ago and the next day ill called her and she started acting like we are best friends. then she accused me of going out and asking me if there is another girl. she has a man or so she say. she told me she has some stuff left for me and i asked her if she could give it to her friend so i dont have to see her when i get it, she became angry and hanf up the phone. first she said she hate and don't love me no more but yet she is checking up on me, im confused about if she still wants to be with me, when i ask her to come back to me she says no and she has a new boyfriend but then she say he thinks they're in a relationship. she's confusing the hell out of me she still wants to know if cheated on her but she is the one that ended up doing it.

2007-02-09 04:34:46 · 9 answers · asked by Romaine B 1

drinks a few, i also smoke cigs, and have a nose ring(small flat stud) and a tattoo on my back, my boyfriends family is against all this but have not meet me yet. he says when we do meet that i shouldn't drink or smoke and take out my nose ring. should i do it for him or is he asking me to be someone i'm not.

2007-02-09 04:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by ☼ utopia ☼ 1

I have been thinking about going and visiting some college friends this weekend, as I haven't seem em in a while. Well my girlfriend one minute says "its ok, I trust you" and then the next minute she says, "I don't want you to go but I am not going to throw a fit about it, so do whatever you want" On the flip side, I tell her I'd rather stay here with her, and do something with her. She says, "thats fine but I am working this weekend so I don't want you to be bored, and then blame it on me that you didn't go.."

So basically... should I go or what? I wanna see my friends but one minute she says "ok" and then the next she is all down and not happy.

What should I do? Go, or stay? Or what? Maybe she's playing mind games so she can go do something with her friends?

2007-02-09 04:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to be more exciting in bed with my fiance, but I don't want him to think im weird or ne thing like that. Can you guys give me some tips on how to get out bedroom life more exciting?? I really want to get freaky with him, I just don't know how he will act. Also, guys... What is your fantasy??

2007-02-09 04:31:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 04:31:10 · 9 answers · asked by itsmecheribaby 1

he tells me not to get him anything....to spend my money on the kids...that it would be a waste of my money to get him something! but i will feel bad, getting something from him, and me no getting him something? Please help!!

2007-02-09 04:29:43 · 16 answers · asked by merrittmom03 2

I met this guy at work about a month ago, he asked me for my number and i gave it to him. We've talked on the phone almost every day since then and hes usually the one calling. We've hung out like 3 times and I've stayed over at his house twice. Both times he made no move on me..hasnt so much as kissed me yet. But we lay together and he'll hold me while we sleep. He still calls everyday at least once a day but has really given me no indication as to what this is or where it is going. He's a little older then me and recently went through a pretty rough break up. I don't know what the heck he wants and I don't want to be wasting my time for nothing. Is he interested in me or not? Should I stop wasting my energy or does he just need time??

2007-02-09 04:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had this great relationship with this guy.He's everything i would ever want in guy.He said this almost everyday " i love you, would never do anything to hurt you.Im nothing without you.." I really liked him .i thought we were just made for each other :(


untill last nite we had this huge fight .then he accused me of blaming him all the time.He said i thought i was smart cos im going to university and he isnt. I neva knew he was so intimidated by my achievement.I thought he was happy for me. i offered help for his academic work but he refused it!.

Then he called me a Sl*t! I quote " go suck d**ks like you do all the time" "f**k You Sandra! " He said the worst things you could think of and more and more .

And so we ended it .Now he is asking for forgiveness .I have neva been hurt like that before :( i thought he loved me .I feel so vulnerable :( and hurt

should i forget about all he said and pretend it neva happened?

Thank you x

2007-02-09 04:28:27 · 35 answers · asked by Fantasia 2

2007-02-09 04:27:13 · 12 answers · asked by Brendan M 1

were 16 i got him a lot of stuff but i dont know what to expect from him

2007-02-09 04:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by chenzira06 1

on someone at work?

2007-02-09 04:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just called an hour ago..
saying If I wanted 2 be with him...
and that I keep pushing him away..and thats not fair for him.

why cant men give us TIME!!

2007-02-09 04:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5

i don't like giving out roses... for me... roses don't mean love anymore... but it means that whoever is giving them is sorry for something they have done... so i was wondering if anybody has any flower suggestions for me instead of roses =D
thanks =D

2007-02-09 04:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 45, should I date younger women? Im 6-3 200 pounds, employed, in ok shape. Or for a relationship should i not go too young?

2007-02-09 04:24:00 · 21 answers · asked by Ow my foot hurts 3

One of my best freinds broke up with his girlfreind about a year ago and seems to have gone into isolation. I have tried to talk to him about the problem. Any of you woman out there would be proud to walk out with him he is 6ft 2'' keeps himself fit, fun to be with as a good freind and women chase him (even when they knew he was attached) and make it clear they would respond to him. Yet after the breakdown of his relationship he has been acting strange. His old girl freind has moved on but he appears to be going out with a tailors dummy. Several freinds associated with both of us have seen him in pubs and in one case in a restaurant with the same tailors dummy. i didnt believe it until I see it with my own eyes. Apparently he was overheard talking to the dummy. When I approached my freind he said it was total nonsence. Any ideas what to do he's fine at work. I asked to meet his new girlfreind but he keeps on with excuses. Really worried

2007-02-09 04:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by Redmonk 6

I hear some woman say they know, with certainty, when they are ovulating. Do you believe this? Can you women really know when you are ovulating? When you can get pregnant and when you can not get pregnant?

2007-02-09 04:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by RaptureMan 2

I am black and I like white men. Are there any white guys who are really into black women?

2007-02-09 04:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by Liberal City 6

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We've been together for 6 years and I'm taking it really hard. I know they say don't bring personal life to work, but I can't stop crying and want to ask my boss if i can go home. It is Friday after all. What should I do?
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2007-02-09 04:22:59 · 44 answers · asked by im always right ya know 1

A lot of pressure on this question. I don't really know how to answer.

2007-02-09 04:22:35 · 9 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1

If someone emails you on myspace

saying that your boyfriend has been calling her and asking her out, and he lives out of state, same state as her, and I live about 5 states away... what does this mean? Is she just creating drama

2007-02-09 04:18:34 · 10 answers · asked by julia k 1

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2007-02-09 04:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by bigdaddy200754 1

*this ? is coming from my 17yr. old daughter*
a guy at her school just broke up w/someone last year and he showed interest in her then, but didnt want a relationship. now hes showing interest in her again, and she thinks he likes her, but she dont know cause hes shy and acts "weird" when hes around her. so whats up with acting weird and shy around a girl? why wont ya just be yourselves?
*her words, k?* thanks!
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2007-02-09 04:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Tweetalette 3

When you always lock eye contact with the same person over and over again, does it ever mean anything?

2007-02-09 04:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

I lost my virginity when I was fourteen and it was the worst decision I ever made. Not only that, but not saving my heart and emotions for "the one" made it so painful when my husband entered my life.

Telling him my past, regretting my past, and crying for hours because I didn't save myself for him could have been prevented.

SEX IS A BIG DEAL.

I read some answers to another question on here and it seems like people don't care anymore. Why not?

Why is it so appalling to save your virginity?

2007-02-09 04:14:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now and the sex has always been good but its just getting a little boring doing the same thing over again.

I was a little interested in male enhancement and would like to know of any women who have had their partners use it. Did it spice things up? Did they get offended? Did it stimulate you more?

And for the guys......how would you feel if your partner asked you to use it? How should I tell him that's what I want without offending him?

I just need help..........any suggestions, PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-02-09 04:13:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has a store, I want to bring her or send her flowers, kind of as an apology. would it make a bigger impact if I brought them in personally? Or do you prefer the surprise of openning the card?

2007-02-09 04:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2

Weve been together 5 yrs., and in December he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to be alone or in a relationship.We worked it out, but this has been eating at me everyday since then.Last nite I asked him how long he felt that way- he said since July. He said he didn't say anything cause he's afraid I'll hurt myself, didn't want to deal with the confrontation, and I didn't have any place to go. So, don't you think that everything we shared from June is a lie? And aren't his excuses selfish- and are only to protect him? He doesn't even care for my feelings- right? I told him that I didn't want him to be with me out of pity, and that it was weak of him to let me have sex with him, clean the house, pay half his bills, take care of his kids, buy him things when all the while he felt that way. Otherwise, he was a great person.I don't know what happened. I got up early and had his lunch and breakfast- and I always put his need ahead of mine. i am so hurt

2007-02-09 04:11:50 · 6 answers · asked by daisy d 1

We never met before.
However, We have chat over the phone and exchange photos.
During my birthday, she declare her love for me by sending me a card that she made on her own with poems... Is she for real and what should I do?

2007-02-09 04:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by Del 1

I'm getting over a crush on a guy at work since he turned out to be a jerk. The only thing is that I want to keep feeling this way. He keeps playing games with me. We're supposed to be ignoring each other, which he last suggested, but he keeps glancing over in my area.

2007-02-09 04:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel he's the one for me .....please i need advice on how to deal with this.....

2007-02-09 04:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3