I am 45, should I date younger women? Im 6-3 200 pounds, employed, in ok shape.?

Question

I am 45, should I date younger women? Im 6-3 200 pounds, employed, in ok shape. Or for a relationship should i not go too young?

Answer 1

People dont normally fall in love with someones age....i wouldnt limit your mind to thinking it has to be someone younger but if your a very active person with an active life and looking for someone to keep up maybe (i guess?) I would say in my opinion that a man your age would be seeking out younger females as a sign of "mid-life crisis" or feeling the need to still feel attractive to younger women which is completely and totally natural...i think you should be more concerned though with finding someone who likes similar things you do and someone you can get along with well...that to me would be more of a concern than age....good luck!

Answer 2

Okay, I am a 45 year old woman. In my opinion, women who are more than 10 years younger than you would not have the maturity you might be looking for in a relationship. I am not calling them immature. I'm only saying that women in their 20's and 30's have different goals and attitudes about life than women do who are past their mid-30's and beyond. Many younger women are still trying to develop their careers, and many enjoy the partying lifestyle, the dating without commitment, and are looking for a guy who can keep up with them. Older women, who are closer to your age, are more settled, they play less games, they know what they want, they tend to be more secure with themselves, and they tend to be less self-focused in a relationship. I am engaged to a wonderful 46-year-old man. When we go out, I see many of these 20-30 something women out there scoping for guys. Another thing is that the younger women may want children. Are you prepared to be a new father at age 45 or older? Many older women already have children, but have either already got the parenting thing down, or their children are older or even on their own. I think you should go for the women closer to your own age. You will find they are more available than the younger women, and they will appreciate a nice guy a lot more than the younger ones do. Remember that when you might be thinking "but they are not as attractive as the younger women", that the younger women are thinking the same thing about older men "they are not as attractive as the younger men, and when they get older, they will be even less attractive". If you find a younger woman who is everything that you want, then go for it. But I would look for the older ones first.

Answer 3

I would not go too young if you are looking for a meaningful relationship. Many younger women are not secure enough within themselves, or knowledgeable enough about relationships, for it to develope into lasting relationship. Women are usually more secure with themselves, their sexuality, and their wants and needs when they are in their 30's-40's. You have to also remember that even if you look good for your age, you may someday lose that muscular tone and good looks, and you will want someone who understands or identifies with the aging process, not someone who will be turned off by it.

Answer 4

nicely, 35 remains a huge age distinction besides the indisputable fact that it is not unreasonable. remember, bodily women persons age swifter than men. a woman on the age of 35 would seem 40 except she takes genuine stable care of herself or if her genes would not get caught up together with her. A fifty 5 twelve months. previous guy can seem as youthful as 40 if he works out probably and has a healthful foodstuff plan.

Answer 5

As long as the women is of legal age date whom ever you want. Just make sure the women is mature enough. Age is just a number, it's the brains, attraction, and intelligence you show look at.

Answer 6

I'm almost 49 and I only date younger men. They find my attractive and who am I to disagree. There aren't many men 49 years and older who have any interest in me, so why not go out with younger men.

Answer 7

I'd say women 30 and up is good for your age, but if you meet somebody younger and you click, then go for it.

Answer 8

Go with what you are comfortable with. Don't set out for any age, set out for how compatible you are with that other person. I am sure you will find just the right girl. Good luck!

Answer 9

Of course... age is nothing but a number!

There's lots of women who ♥ older men!

Good luck to you :)

Answer 10

I would say don't focus on age and just find someone you have some things in common with and has a personallity that fits well with yours.