Singles & Dating - 9 February 2007

Has it ever led you to pain instead of happiness?

2007-02-09 00:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told this guy frnd of mine..over whom i had a crush..that i feel nervous in front of him..but didnt tell him that i hav acrush on him..then he insisted on knowing wat exactly i feel for him...i didnt tell him..we had talked it all over the internet..but now in school we cant tlak to each other face to face...why is he avoiding me?

2007-02-09 00:09:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting over a crush on a guy at work since he turned out to be a jerk. The only thing is that I want to keep feeling this way.

2007-02-09 00:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know when i should ask my crush to be my valintine....help??

2007-02-09 00:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean when we are in love, we do things that is so absurd.. things that makes us look stupid, but why? what is there in love?

2007-02-09 00:05:37 · 4 answers · asked by peng 2

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and he keeps calling saying that he loves me. He cheated on me and i don't want to have anything to do with him anymore. And he would eat my tamles and res beans and rice.

2007-02-09 00:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 00:03:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22, live in NYC, I'm a very good looking guy but I think what I need is just more confidence. I haven't had sex in a year and a half, it's been killing me, can't "do it by myself" forever, I want to be able to go out to bars/clubs and have some safe, sane, and fun one night stands just like other guys do (not looking for relationships right now, f*** buddy is a different story). The thing is they say you shouldn't go to bars/clubs by yourself, I don't have anyone I to go with, a lot of the people I know always have other plans and crap or they procrastinate and back out the last minute. I don't have a "wingman" like all you other guys do. One time I went to a club by myself, the line was long, when I was next on line, the person admitting people in asked the group in front of me if I was with them, they said no, I felt so embarrassed cuz I was the only one on line by myself, everyone looked at me funny.

So I don't know what to do, I keep looking at hookers on craigs list and what not but keep hesitating because I don't want to pay for sex, but at the same time I don't want to go to a bar all nervous and not know what I'm doing. I know how to carry a conversation with women but I just need more help initiating and "closing the deal". I know what you're all thinking, if I'm good looking then girls would be chasing me and I'd have no problem, well yeah I get a few compliments here and there but they are rare and usually don't go nowhere. And trust me, I'm not ugly, not to sound conceited, but I know I'm not and have pics to prove it. I don't mind going to a bar by myself as long I know what I'm doing, but I think it's going to be difficult, there will be some guys hogging all the attention, and even worse there will be girls who are not by themselves which makes them harder to approach.

So I'm lost here. Hookers are the last route I wanna go down because of the money, I feel like good looking guys shouldn't have to pay for it. But I'm getting real desperate and dont know what to do.

Any advice? I'd appreciate some thoughtful responses please, no offense, I know a lot of folks on here like to joke around with funny one-line responses and what not, and I will admit a lot of them are laughout loud hilarious, I have no prob with you guys, but I'm really looking for something insightful here though. Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.

2007-02-09 00:01:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe that true love lasts forever...but i wanted to hear other people's opinions...

Thanks!

2007-02-09 00:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 00:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Ben M 1