After being in a series of bad relationships and taking a break from the dating scene, I've met a guy who is nice, has everything going for him, etc. I've been on one date with him thus far and as much as I liked him as a person, I just don't feel any romantic connection with him. Physically he is not my type, but I tried to look past that, but there really isn't anything about him which makes me want to pursue a relationship with him, although he's a cool guy and I'd love to just have him as a friend. After being burned in the past by jerks, I feel that maybe I should give this guy a chance since he's a good person, but a part of me feels that if there aren't any sparks from the beginning, it is not worth pursuing this and forcing myself to grow to like him. Though I'm scared of letting him go and then meeting other jerks which will make me regret having let him go. What should I do? Also, if I were to turn him down, how should I do it w/o hurting him? Serious responses only, please!
2007-02-09
00:54:59
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