my ex called me last night and i didn't pick up the because we broke just four days ago and the next day ill called her and she started acting like we are best friends. then she accused me of going out and asking me if there is another girl. she has a man or so she say. she told me she has some stuff left for me and i asked her if she could give it to her friend so i dont have to see her when i get it, she became angry and hanf up the phone. first she said she hate and don't love me no more but yet she is checking up on me, im confused about if she still wants to be with me, when i ask her to come back to me she says no and she has a new boyfriend but then she say he thinks they're in a relationship. she's confusing the hell out of me she still wants to know if cheated on her but she is the one that ended up doing it.
2007-02-09 04:34:46 · 9 answers · asked by Romaine B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me that i need to move on but when i try to stop calling her she calls me, she said she want to be friends but i can't be her so fast. something aint right and i want t o fing out, i ask her who the guy is and she its none of business. but she wants to know who's phone im using. she said she feels nothing for me and the only is that she feels bad, she accuse me of being a child but i dont know, i tryed to move on by meeting someone last night but i think i just want to have fun but it does feel like she want to watch me like a hawk.
2007-02-09 04:56:33 · update #1
I think that girl is, immature and stupid. First of all, she broke up with you and than she calls you and acted like everything is okay. obviously, she is in denial.
Then she accused you of dating another girl, then she says she tells you the she is dating another guy, and she doesnt tell you who. That guy obviously doesnt exist and she just wants you tell you that, to try to get you to beg her to come back to him
By asking to bring your stuff to you, she is trying to make opportunities for you to ask for her back, when you actually did he she says no, because she wants you to beg, ....she wants more attention from you obviously.
She gets angry and hangs up the phone because she wants you to keep calling her back, and when you don't continuously call her back (great choirce) she calls you, to try to get you, it seems to me that she wants you alot moree than you want her. I see why because she is acting too needy.
She keeps checking up on you, because she wants to keep you available, or to make sure you are, so she can get you to want her back.
Seriously, you should just tell her that she is being too complicated and dramatic, its confusing you, ask her one last question...like..."come on do you like me? if you dont, leave me alone, if you do tell me the truth, or else im really going to move on"
2007-02-09 05:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude....this girl is too much drama. Either she doesn't know what she wants or she wants to know you are not happy and she will always have a backup.
You need to drop this check. Don't be a pussy...I'm sure it's difficult seeing her and still having feeling for her. But don't let her know this. Then she has control. Meet her and get your stuff back. Act cool and calm. Then drop contact with her. If you want her back then that is your choice. But this chick is not treating you like a man. You don't need a little girl for a girl friend. You need someone that is going to act like an adult.
2007-02-09 04:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical behaviour of a girl who is too young and immature to know how to relay her feelings. So I will try to say it to you for her. She sounds to still have feelings for you and the break up is causing her much anxiety of losing you to another girl. Her behaving first like a best friend, then making it hard to take you back, and then finding an excuse for you to pick up your stuff, is an indication she is struggling emotionally with some kind of pain the break up has caused her. You have to think hard of what caused the break up, from there you need to see what it is that is bothering her. Her holding back and being evasive about how she feels is coming from fear that you really do not love her. I guess she wants you to undue whatever it was that hurt her. Good luck to you and I do hope I have helped you!
2007-02-09 04:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just move on. then maybe she will come around. or you will find someone else that doesnt like to play lame *** games. you dont need that. **** the stuff for right now. play the same games back with her. tell her you have a girlfriend even if you dont. if she asks who, tell her it dont matter you wouldnt know her anyways.
2007-02-09 04:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's either a bunny boiler or a silly little girl playing games.
My first thought was to tell her that you did cheat on her, just to wind her up, but on second thoughts there is a serious chance you'll get bobbited I think.
Stop answering/returning her calls, and just move on and find someone else.
2007-02-09 04:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by the_ref 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get your stuff. say as little as possible to her while doing so, and move on with your life.
2007-02-09 04:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Paul BS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to me very carefully.......she is a nut...walk away.....She doesn't want you really but she doesn't want you to be with anyone else??!! Walk away my friend....search for greener pastures...
2007-02-09 04:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn Denise Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she crazy. she still wants you. and she want you to beg. leave the psycho alone
2007-02-09 04:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by peachez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she loves you but she jus acting crazy
2007-02-09 04:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥fun girly♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋