Is he into me or not?

Question

I met this guy at work about a month ago, he asked me for my number and i gave it to him. We've talked on the phone almost every day since then and hes usually the one calling. We've hung out like 3 times and I've stayed over at his house twice. Both times he made no move on me..hasnt so much as kissed me yet. But we lay together and he'll hold me while we sleep. He still calls everyday at least once a day but has really given me no indication as to what this is or where it is going. He's a little older then me and recently went through a pretty rough break up. I don't know what the heck he wants and I don't want to be wasting my time for nothing. Is he interested in me or not? Should I stop wasting my energy or does he just need time??

Answer 1

He went through a recent break-up, so give him some time. Don't neglect yourself in the bargain, enjoy life!

Answer 2

The top 10 signs that he likes you:

10. He babbles on when he talks to you.

Note: Nerves ladies, nerves.

9. There are long pauses between his comments.

Note: Guy most likely nerves again, thinking of things to say. Unsure of how to act or apporach. He’s thinking way to hard, as we sometimes do.

8. He tries some how to relate, to you in many ways. Interesst, experience, pet peeves etc.

Note: He’s setting up compatiabity, Letting you know you guys could be a match. Depends on the dating attraction. If he likes opposite or twins.

7. He digs for untypical information.

Note. This can be hard to read. Sometimes guys won’t BS with the same old conversation or some guys try to fish for info, to later use as a springborad or surpise.

6. If you catch him always smiling at you-Constantly

5. If a guy, admits something slightly embrassing or unknown to you willing.(sometimes combined with #8)

Example. Some guys will share stories, or oddites about them, to breakice, or show that they are “real”. ‘I had asthma when I was younger” ” I failed that class too”

4. If makes fun of you in a harmless way, especially if he makes you laugh.

3. If he invites you to a social gathering, with his good friends.

Note , a party or event, in which he doesn’t know 75% of the people personally, doesn’t count. This invitation was more likely, to avoid going alone, or he just being nice.

2. Gives you an uncommon way of contact him. This needs to be unique in order for it to count.

Good Example: Phone Number, email, job or work location Ambigious Example: AIM etc

Bad Example: Myspace, Facebook

1. He complemetst you at odds times, in various places.

Note. A steady flow of complements, is ususally a good indication. Gauge the guys personility first though. If he’s overnice or or complements everyone, then, look for other clues.

There are several degress of ” IN TO YOU” so beware. It could be a crush, it could be serious, it could be true love in his sight and unfortunately it could be the complete opposite; with hopes of one way to panty-ville. Now if someone would only post 10 ways to tell if a girl is into you.

Answer 3

i think he is still not over with his breakup and thats the reason why he hasnt made a move on you. He wants to make sure he isnt making the same mistakes again thus he is doing it slower.

Answer 4

I had a guy like that we never did anything, and we'd lay in the bed and talk hours on end. he's now my best friend... i don't know your situation maybe different... you should ask him how he feels about you

Answer 5

I think he's just looking for affection (becasue of his break up), that's why he's not making a move. Just be carefull, youdon't want to be a rebound either.

Answer 6

I think that you should go for it...if he hold on to you while you sleep I think he likes you

Answer 7

Yes, he's into you. He's just taking it slow. Its rare, but it does happen.

Answer 8

Why don't you talk to him? It solves everything.

Good Luck

Answer 9

maybe