I want to be more exciting in bed with my fiance, but I don't want him to think im weird or ne thing like that. Can you guys give me some tips on how to get out bedroom life more exciting?? I really want to get freaky with him, I just don't know how he will act. Also, guys... What is your fantasy??
2007-02-09 04:31:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think someone else said it and I agree. We are already thinking about getting freaky. The best time to bring it up is during the act. Staged sexual exploration is often boring and when you know it is coming it can turn you off. Hell for all that you might as well just say "we are going to have sex every thursday at 7pm"
Take a chance and pour the hot wax on his chest or use a belt or some handcuffs to tie him up while you are on top of him during foreplay. You are getting ready to get married and if any another married man reads this and can be honest he will know what I am saying.......Keeping things exciting in the bedroom is the easiest way to maintain a good marriage and keep your man at home. Sex is the first thing that goes once we say I do. It has not been proven from a scientific stand point, but it is a unexplainable event that happens to all of us. The excitement of everyday life and the presence of children make sex difficult so when you do get the opportunity to do it keep it exciting. Don't say your not in the mood, it has been weeks damn it, what do you mean your not in the mood??? Don't settle for the missionary position and sleep. If you were suckin dick before the I do's and he was eatin ***** then keep it that way. if anything the exchange of the I do's should make you want to explore sex more because mentally we think that those two little words and a piece of paper some how bring us closer together emotionally. Got off track a little, but keep it interesting and stay on your toes and except new things in the bedroom!!
2007-02-09 04:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, heres what you do. Tell him you are going to tie him up. Once you have him tied up, lay down next to him and run your fingers all over his body. Keep doing light and teasing touches while you whisper those naughty little things you want to do and ask him "would you like that?" He will probably agree to anything in that position unless it is something that he would absolutely hate. PS don't let him get off right away, keep the teasing up for a good while, no matter how much he begs.
2007-02-09 12:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your type O might be the answer, "get out bedroom life" . why not try a different place? I would suggest some but I am sure you got an imagination.
2007-02-09 12:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by kon1uk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my guy a long time and trust me, guys want you to enjoy sex more, and they want you to try new things. I bet if you sit him down and ask him he'll have all kinds of suggestions for you. Or if you really want to suprise him wait till you're in bed and then bring it up. Either way i'm sure he'll be thrilled that you want to please him.
2007-02-09 12:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys generally love to get 'freaky' in the bedroom. just bring it up in conversation. im sure hes already thinking about it...
2007-02-09 12:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stockings and supsenders are always good.
Baby oil.
Nurse outfit
Handcuffs
Blindfolds!! Yeah !! (Oh I think I've said to much there!)
Adult DVDS
Soft music and low lighting.
Cheesecake.
2007-02-09 13:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Doodle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the 'zombie' (per Roger Mellie)
2007-02-09 12:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Chris G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read books by Lou Paget. She's good at the stuff.
2007-02-09 12:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you enjoy water sports? Try him with a golden shower
2007-02-09 12:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello there.. IM me at talk3mebabes. plenty of ideas here.
2007-02-09 12:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Enric 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋