he just called an hour ago..
saying If I wanted 2 be with him...
and that I keep pushing him away..and thats not fair for him.
why cant men give us TIME!!
2007-02-09 04:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The J:yes he does love me..and no he aint getting some.lol
2007-02-09 04:33:29 · update #1
the time is 11:37...
there i gave you the time!!
booma boom
2007-02-09 04:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we give you time then we will lose you! The less interest you show the more aggresive we become. It is an insecurity on our part, you have done nothing wrong. I am sure you know that though. Men can not emotionally handle the idea of his ex finding someone who can give her more than he did. It is something that we as men feel everytime it doesn't work out. We should learn from it, but all we want to focus on is why it didn't work.
It sounds like this guy is really into so you have to understand that emotionally he is not ready to accept the idea that you just want to be friends. Friends implies that you will be out sleeping with someone else, spending your spare time with someone else, and not thinking about us. Which I am only assuming is the case here. You don't know if you want to be with him and want some time to yourself to see if he is the one right?
You have to be able to relate just a little bit. I know women do not think like us all the time, but are we really that different. As you spend less and less time together your feels will fade and any hope at trying friendship and then pursue the relationship are gone. He doesn't want that happen which is why he puts so much pressure on you to come back. Be patient with him, he will start to act non-chalant like you are, eventually.
2007-02-09 04:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spiritual for me. I cannot have lustful feelings that would be sinful. When my husband & I were dating, it was fine & he brought about those desires. THen things started getting abusive & he delivered me up to heinous persecution when I wouldn't convert. I'm not masochism. I also would not & will not sexually fantasize about anyone else as that's committing adultery in your mind; therefore, those desires have died. ~would never entertain adultery nor a 2nd marriage (can only remarry if spouse has died); & I'll probably die before him, so this abuse has changed me... and thanks to the Lord & His Spirit, I'm not sinning by burning w/desire for a crush guy (I don't lustfully crush), either, as He (the Lord) has taken that desire away for me because that would be a sin & also since my marriage is cruel & dead, altho still trapped in the marriage. And men can & DO go without sex by the Lord's Spirit, just fine! =] It's called living by the Spirit, not the flesh.
2016-05-24 01:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can not wait I would let him know I need space for a while to think about things and let him know why. Let him know you do not want to be pushed into anything. You want to make your own decision in your own time.
2007-02-09 04:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option A: he really loves you and doesnt want to wait to long to loose you
Option B: hes horny and wants to get some
what do you think?
2007-02-09 04:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you fell they want things when there ready and everything has to be on your thier time. you should tell him that if he really wants to be with you then he'll give you the time you need
2007-02-09 04:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an intimacy issue. That doesn't come as a great surprise to me.
2007-02-09 04:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
crazy they jus silly at times
2007-02-09 04:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥fun girly♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's your particular man - mine is not pushy like that at all.
2007-02-09 04:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s just their nature
2007-02-09 04:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Cristina O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋