I think I met the perfect girl (the one). She fits the description of what I'm looking for in every sense. I had a nice conversation with her, and when I was done I knew there was something there that I had to pursue. Now I dont ask many girls out, but for some reason I felt like it was right. Where all of a sudden did I get this confidence. Well anyway I walk into the store she works one day, and guess what, she was in there with a coworker. This was going to make it seem awkward so I didnt ask then. A few weeks later I go back in at the same time I'd expect her to be there and she wasnt there. Is there something that is trying to tell me to stay away? Again I normally dont ask girls out, and when I finally get the nerve to ask a certain girl out, it feels like I'm being pushed away. Do you think God is saying stay away from her, or if you really like her keep pursuing her? Or maybe she may have a boyfriend, and God wants me to ask her when she is available? I dont know.
2007-02-09 03:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Mister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that everything happens for a reason.
all of us have our own destiny. what's going on in our lives is our destiny BUT and but there's always a free will. it's us who's making our destiny.
what happened in that store was you choice. you found her with this guy and think that he is her boyfriend without finding out the truth. it was your decision that you walked out the door. and so if she's with that guy? is it forbidden to talk to her? i guess not. you can come to her and talk to her but you've chose to keep away. it's your own will.
even if you believe that the two of you are destined to be together, you shouldn't depend on destiny alone. you gotta do something for that to happen. for her to be yours.
and if she's not meant for you, have no regrets. atleast you've tried. and always pray. ask Him if that girl is the "right one".
2007-02-09 03:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would try having a nice conversation with her again so you can find out any boyfriend issues she may have. Try asking her out again. First of all if you think it may be a "sign", why don't you PRAY about it? If you think God maybe telling you to hold off...ASK him! Good Luck!
2007-02-09 03:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to ask her all these questions to see where you stand. Don't give up. Before even trying to date her be her friend Long friendships can turn into great marriages. Stay focus and some fun. Stop over thinking every move.
2007-02-09 03:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient. It may not happen right then and there and it may not be too clear. But give it time. I think you are thinking too deeply into this whole subject. Please just enjoy the time you have with her and don't worry about ease through it. Slow though. SLOW
2007-02-09 03:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pariglow03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her.....I know what you mean by not asking people out often..I don't do it that much....but don't be the creepy stalker person....and think what happened is trying to tell you that you should go slower....ask her out, date her for awhile....you don't want to scare her off by telling her she is "the one" to soon...
2007-02-09 03:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by I'll go with that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think......you think too much. Maybe it was her day off.....maybe your timing stinks. Why all the drama? Try again.
2007-02-09 03:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋