Ok, i broke up with my ex about a month ago and he was still obsessed with me!! and i hated it!!..now just a few days ago i found out that he is going out with my best friends..first they kept it form me for lmost 2 days. And my friend didn't even ask it it was ok. The when she told me i was happy for her ( but i'm a ood actrice) i'm actually relly upset. I'm grade 8 and he was my first nf and now i'm gonna have this horrible memory of him!! I just got off the phione talking to him about everything and it seems like he really likes her. They are both in the same clich as me and i have to watch everything they do...it bugs me soo much! I don't know what to do though cux i don't want to ruin the relationship i ave with either of them>!
2007-02-09 03:00:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in grade 8, you have just hit puberty what are you doing with a boyfriend? And it was YOU that broke up with HIM and now you don't want him to date someone you know? He has a life of his own and no longer has to check with you before he lives it. Stop flattering yourself and move on.
2007-02-09 03:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by You cant handle the truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex, just make her your ex best friend. Problem solved. If you let this define your life, you're so lost. I know that you probably don't understand this, but in the 8th grade you should be spending more time getting an education than worrying about hooking up with boys who could care less about having a long term girlfriend. I promise you, this boy will have at least 3 more girlfriends before he's in the 10th grade. Please get over him and stop fantasizing over boys. They're just not that into "relationships" in the 8th grade.
2007-02-09 11:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better get over it. Bite the bullet and move on. You're too young to obsess over a relationship such as this. Concentrate more on just keeping your friend and show you can interact with them with no hard feelings. Sad to see it took only two days for her to attach herself to him though, since she's supposed to be such a good person. But never think one has to have permission from an ex to start up a relationship. Remember, this age you are at is just ripe for many cases of puppy love and desire to be attached to a guy for popularity sake if nothing more
2007-02-09 11:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately him being your ex, he’s free to see whomever he wants. As far as your friend asking you if it’s ok, personally their relationship isn’t any of your business and they don’t need your permission to date. The problem with all of this is you’re only in the 8th grade and instead of worrying about whom you’re dating and your “best” friend is dating you should be more into your education. You’re worrying about your “first” boyfriend being with someone else, as you get older you’ll have dated several people and more than likely won’t give him a second thought. Is it more that he’s now with someone and you’re not? Now he’s no longer obsessed with you as you stated, he’s showing all of his attention to someone else. If you open your mouth about how all of this supposedly is bothering you, you may find yourself by yourself with no friends. Obviously no one else that’s in your group of friends has a problem with them being together so neither should you. Wish the best and if you can’t then you need to walk away from the friendship not try and break them up.
2007-02-09 11:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back and read what you just wrote. and next time, type a little slower.
you broke up with him, he can date who ever he wants. but your friend should have at least had the decencey to tell you, or ask you. you have to ask your self if she is really your friend. if the answer is yes, than just forget the heartache, and go on with your life. you are in eighth grade!!!!
i am a junior, and havnt even thought about boy friends in eighth grade for like ever. you will forget. and eventually they will break up. it is like a 1/1,000,000,000 chance that you will marry the person that you dated in eighth grade. like you said, he was your first boyfriend.
tell your friend, "ya know, you really should have made sure that i was over him first. but now that you are going out, it is okay. " you will be fine. i swear.
2007-02-09 11:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaarrrggghhh! I know how you feel what a B@tch for doing that to you. She is No friend. Be proud, head held high you have done nothing to be ashamed off think postiive & move on best rid of both of them. If you act not bothered it may change there relationship. They are horrible!
Take Care
xxxx
2007-02-09 11:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Doormat29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong of your best friend go out with your ex boyfriend. I know its hurt you so bad but hey life is not fair. Why don't you find other guy to like and make it look easy on you. I think you should stop friend with your best friend because she broke the friendship rule. Focus on your life and think how much its important to you than THEM.
2007-02-09 11:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about it. Concider it a good thing. He's your ex for a reason so be glad that its her and not you anymore. Don't let it bother you. Who knows maybe he's doing in just to bother you. Just be friends with both of them and act like you don't care! Good luck. and I'm sorry this happened. Highschool sucks that way but it has its good times too!!
2007-02-09 11:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your ex now so he is free to do as he please, you just have the want want syndrome i.e. wanting something you cannot have.
Just think of the reasons he became your ex if none you didn't like him in the first place and didn't deserve him. Let him be move on to someone else you will surely find that one. ;) it's only 8th grade. Plenty of time trust me.
2007-02-09 11:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by I B lady O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age this happens all the time. Think of it this way - you weren't giong to marry a guy you dated ni the 8th grade, but you might be frineds with her forever. Just be happy for her and forget about him.
2007-02-09 11:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋