he doesnt tell me he loves me anymore, and when I tell him I love him he seems to ignore it! I think i know in my heart that he doesnt. its a long distance relationship. And when I saw him yesterday he kissed me passionately. but its not enough, i'm feeling really insecure! I'm moving to where he lives, not just because of him but because I want a fresh start. I just feel like I dont know how he feels anymore, and just dont feel special like he use to make me feel. not that he does anything wrong. just feels like something is missing! But I love him very much, every time i see him it just clarifys how much i love him
2007-02-09 02:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by Eevie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want the truth come out from him? Why don't you have to ask him the truth. you just can't stand it, right? face it then! You have to tell him about how you feel, you just explained that to us, why don't you use that to him. Lets hope he will realize that. Good luck.
2007-02-09 02:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Betchya! There is a difference between being in love, love and comfort. It sounds to me as though he is in the comfort stage. You have to ask him why he has not said those 3 little words. Trust me when it is real, they are spoken and said often! It is done without even realizing that your doing it. Showing affection, privatley or publicly is never held back (within taste & sometimes fantasy - depends) - but it is never held back! Your boyfriend "knows" your on your way & he is a male & therefor a visual being - so when he see's you - of course he gets a bit horny & wants to kiss you - it feels good! If you are feeling insecure and in need of a freash start, have you thought about doing it WITHOUT having him involved? Don't become dependant upon anyone else for your own happiness, because NOONE can give you that. It truly comes from you, knowing that you CAN and that you DO. It may sound cliche, but when it is love - a true unabiding, lasting love - U KNOW IT!
2007-02-09 03:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to your boyfriend about how you are feeling? Open communication is the best thing. Ask him, say,"Honey I sometimes need your reassurance of your love for me by hearing you tell me, it makes me feel so happy whenever you say you love me", see what he says. Otherwise, maybe the fact that you are moving closer to where he is living is creating some anxiety on his part. As to why I do not know. As I said earlier, talk to him, communicate all your concerns in a way where he will not feel you are demanding anything from him. Good luck to you!
2007-02-09 02:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree sometimes the longer you are apart the easier it is to stay apart. If i don't see my bf for a week or more it becomes easier to be alone but the minute we are together we can't leave each others side. I think the reason for this is because we get caught up in our lives outside of each other and maybe like myself you two need to start getting involved with each others mundane activities as well as the romantic fantasy ones.
2007-02-09 02:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Looking to spend some money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as bad as it may sound i wouldnt move to where he is unless you have a job there ( or want to go to school there etc), or your family/friends live there...if u move have a reason to move besides him. from what u say it sounds like he might be unsure of the relationship. long distance relationships are hard and only work out if both people involved feel equally the same. id sit him down and talk to him. get everything off your chest about how you feel.
2007-02-09 02:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you are 18. He has morals and doesn't want to get in trouble with the law. Some people have more difficulties to say I love you then others. Don't worry and hang in there.
2016-03-28 23:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You best get a real answer from him before you pack up and move to where he lives. Don't want to scare you but if he doesn't tel you he loves you, more than likely he has another girl where he lives. If it's real he will tell you he loves you and wants/needs you there. If he doesn't, move on.
2007-02-09 02:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my ex's did the same thing to me. I confronted him but he said his feelings didn't change and he was just busy and tired. ( It was just some lame excuse) We broke up eventually because he was worried about our future and I just gave up. I hope the same thing won't happen to you. You need to really think before you move because if things get worse when you are together, you would get hurt, very hurt. Good luck.
2007-02-09 02:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two possibilities here. either he is feeling insecure and doesn't want to put himself out there by saying it back to you. or, he might not love you anymore. either way, confront him. dont back down--you deserve some answers.
2007-02-09 02:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honny u need to make him love you go out with make him want u soooo bad that he cant stand it. and if him wont tell u that he loves u. u dont need to be telling him that. ever time u see him u need to look alll sexy. and if he dont love u by then. u can do better. love ya *****.
paris
2007-02-09 02:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋