Make a decision on who you should be with? If you have been on and off with someone for a while but they make you upset sometimes, a guy you have sooo much fun with, or a quiet guy that seems to like you but doesn't really give you the time of day?
2007-02-09 03:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being on and off in a relationship is a preview for more in the future...
You have to stop riding the roller coaster and get off.
Worry about you and not these two guys.
Go out with friends, get busy doing things that make you feel good, volunteering, walking, jogging, book club, whatever...
How about giving you some time and effort and quit spending time with these negative men.
After a while once you do a little healing of your spirit you will find a new strength and conviction.
You will make good choices, you will know what is good for you and you will know when someone is toxic in a relationship.
Give yourself a break girl and give yourself some time, you deserve it.
I wouldn't choose either of these men.
I won't ride a roller coaster in a relationship
and I won't be ignored by someone.
A person deserves to be happy and feel complete and peaceful with the person they choose to spend time with.
I wouldn't settle just to have a partner in life, you deserve the best, expect it and make it happen.....
2007-02-09 03:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that you have the most fun with the one who is going to pay attention to you . If a guy doesn't give you the time of day he is so not worth it. And not worth your time. Why would you want to chase someone who doesn't want to be with you. go for the guy you have fun times with
2007-02-09 03:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER settle!!! You choose the guy that makes you laugh, that talks to you, that respects you, that has the same morals and values as you do, that has hobbies in common with you, that is mature and secure in himself...the list goes on!
2007-02-09 03:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, id choose who ever makes you happiest. go with the quite guy, he seems like a better guy, better relationship
2007-02-09 03:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the guy who you like being with and who likes you most
think about why you like each of those guys
2007-02-09 03:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rid your self of them all, and who ever comes back on his feet. meaning, try to push all of them out of your life, and the one that doesnt come crawling back to you, is the one that you want
2007-02-09 03:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the person you want to be with.
2007-02-09 03:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋