I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. And I'm in college now. She willl be attending my college in August. But RIGHT NOW, she is at home working saving money. So when we are apart she has a hard time acting like a girlfriend. Never cheated but she does not show attention and care when we are apart. She needs alot of attention but when we are together and i am home for a weekend or a break I cannot be happier. The only bad times in our relationship is when i'm in college and she's not around and she wants attention like a child. So what should i do? Dump her? or wait the 6 months until we are together. Because we use to be happy all the time when were together. but now with no type of everyday seeing each other or every week. she thinks since she's not with me she doesnt have to pay attention or show care. But when seh is with me she is my dream girl. but i'm not happy nOW. what should i do?
2007-02-09 03:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quick run Down
She is 2 needy when i'm with her and when i'm not.
she is unreal and undesirable when we are not together and she is in "***** MODE"
she is the best thing ever when we are together and jsut chillin. Cooks, cleans, beautiful, listens. EXACT OPPOSITIE when apart
wait 6 months or not? been 3 years!!!!!!!!
she knows what she is doing . I told her 2 weeks ago. And she "Claims" she is trying, But not hard enough.
am i being too rough?
2007-02-09 03:20:57 · update #1
Quick run Down
She is 2 needy when i'm with her and when i'm not.
she is unreal and undesirable when we are not together and she is in "***** MODE"
she is the best thing ever when we are together and jsut chillin. Cooks, cleans, beautiful, listens. EXACT OPPOSITIE when apart
wait 6 months or not? been 3 years!!!!!!!!
she knows what she is doing . I told her 2 weeks ago. And she "Claims" she is trying, But not hard enough.
am i being too rough?
2007-02-09 03:20:59 · update #2
talk to her about it- the next time that you talk to her, tell her how you feel about it, she probably has no clue that she is doing anything wrong
2007-02-09 03:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definately stick it out for the next 6 months. I am not saying that it is not going to be hard. A long distance relationship is never easy. You should talk to her and tell her that you are doing the best that you can.That this isn't easy for you either and you wish that you could be there with her everyday. But she has to be strong, until this summer. You also need to tell her that it bothers you how she acts when yall are away. And if she really cares then you're feeling are important to her. Also tell her how that she is your dream girl, but the times that you are away from each other the way she acts bothers you and makes you unhappy. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-09 03:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to her about it. She probably doesn't even know that shes doing anything wrong. In fact most guys would like it if thats how the girl acted. Think if she was constantly calling you and questioning you about your every move, it could be lots worse. and if she is your dream girl and your happy when your together don't loose something good over something so stupid that she doesn't even know shes doing. But really Its all up to you on what you really think you should do. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for the best!!
2007-02-09 03:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making sacrifices for your future here. She sounds like a spoiled child and is acting like one.
I think you could spend your time on better things like studying than worrying about her.
She obviously has to be the center of attention and when you aren't around Bud , she is going to find and get it somewhere else, no matter what you think.
She sounds like she wants you when she wants you, good boy, sit. stay...
This would drive me crazy.. I think I would break it off and see what happens.
If it is meant to be, she will be there when you come home, if not, guess what!!!!!
You will have learned a valuable lesson and be free to pursue school and your future.
Anyone who is as selfish as she, will never be happy unless you are under foot... is that what you want?????
Think carefully here, you are dating someone who is not on the same level as you.....
2007-02-09 03:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that a girl should be herself no matter what. I know how you feel. CONFUSED. its like she is two different people at two different times. What i would do i talk to her about what you are feeling and if she gets mad tell her that you can't be with her anymore. That is too much stress on you. And you want to be joyful and happy when you talk to her. And when you do talk to her all girls are suckers for sweethearts so be a sweetie.
2007-02-09 03:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both are dependant on each other. College is the best time of your life, break up with her and just sleep around.. Don't be "that" guy
2007-02-09 03:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by julie_mchottits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her for life time. we can do several things in a day . win her through your attention towards her, not leaving studies. never use the word dump. woman is sacred respect all women. our mother is a woman rember. through love jesus the savior won the universe. i pray u wiil win lif.
2007-02-09 03:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by mohan rao kotari k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must play the game life has delt you
date her and with time she will either mature or
find that she can not bear having her love interest not there
when she needs you. in the end its called the test of time.
2007-02-09 03:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
three years and you want to dump her bc she is not with you....think about that....wait the 6months....if you guys are great when you are together, but I would explain to her that you can't give her that much attention without any in return
2007-02-09 03:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by I'll go with that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got issues.
2007-02-09 03:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋