Singles & Dating - 28 January 2007

i dont mean to sound crude when i ask this but dont answer with nasty comments please right here goes.

when my and my partner have sex and he comes weather its in me or not i wretch, like i am going to be sick this has been happening for years i dont know why tho anybody help? anybody else like that? on several occations i have actually been sick

2007-01-28 06:36:45 · 33 answers · asked by crazychick19831983 1

was it the right time. do you wish you wouldve waited. where were you. how old were you. did you know the guy well? one night stand? were you drunk? did it hurt?

i was 16. it sucked.i kinda knew the guy. wasnt drunk. now i wish i waited.

2007-01-28 06:36:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

to avoid triggering doubt from the judgemental karenS's of the world )see the responses to my preilet me rephrase my previous question leaving out details and being more "general".
i really love the girl i am currently with. however it seems to be much give and little receive... I supply the smokes, the food, my time cooking, the entertainment, the emotional support, the massages, the money needed to go out and do things... my needs (particularly physically) dont seem to be very important to this person. i feel like i am doing all i can do meet her needs and expectations, but when it comes to me and mine, forget about it...
this partly deals with the fact that sex is totally controlled by her... she gets it when she wants it, and when i want it, who cares...and when i do get it, she gets off before me and then calls it quits leaving me blue balled and frustrated...ive tried to discuss this with her but she either gets mad and refuses to talk about it, or says its my problem not hers.

2007-01-28 06:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by blackmetalgod2006 1

Two months ago II contacted my ex and told her that I would like to try and get back with her. She responded back by saying that she has a boyfriend and that things are pretty serious between them, but she wants to remain friends and keep in touch. I didn't respond back and I was hoping the best for them. Just yesterday she contacted me, asking how things were. I didn't respond back yet. WHat do you make of this? Probably just being friendly right? Why dould she contact me if she knows I like her but she has a boyfriend? thanks.

2007-01-28 06:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by DN1503 4

when someone gets raped what happens???i know people who were raped. but they are scared to say which i understand. i just want to know what happens when they get raped

2007-01-28 06:33:36 · 18 answers · asked by ticachic 3

My girlfriend seems to think that I should be spending a great portion of my wages on her and thinks that, when we're together, I should pay for everything. If we go into a shop, whatever it is she wants, whether a new skirt, top, make-up, or just something to eat, she sees it as the 'man's duty' to pay. It's the same if we go to the cinema or for a meal. She never seems to put her hand in her own pocket. She expects me to pay for everything.
Do you think it's the 'man's duty' to pay for everything?

2007-01-28 06:31:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 06:30:41 · 29 answers · asked by mmkknnnn jjjjjjoooooooobnyyyyyy 1

we parted a few months back, and I am trying to get her back. note: break up was because of time and family, and just so many things that took me away from showing her the attention she deserved. I am so sorry about it all and hopes she will eventually give me another chance. This is a woman who loved me dearly and I did not see it, but do now. Thanks.

2007-01-28 06:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2

How long ? wise one when I am going to find the right one, I am single by choice because is hard to find so I decided to let him find me but no luck yet. Any future advise ?

2007-01-28 06:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by LIZA 4

I'm not going to go into details unless y'all ask, but I'm just wondering what do you think of this matter. Because I really am beginning to like this person and would like to pursue a relationship with them. But, My friends think its crazy. What do you think?

2007-01-28 06:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to get AS MANY opinions as I can on this one. I am in the same grade as my brother and he is friends with A LOT of hot guys of which I like. He came to the school we are currently at one year before me (I just came this year) so all those guys have known him longer than they've known me and didn't even know he had a sister until I came along. They were all so surprised when they found out I was his sister. Now I feel like they would never want to go out with me because they all know my brother, but I would REALLY like to go out with some of them. If you were those guys, how would you feel (romantically) about me if you knew my brother?

2007-01-28 06:27:25 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 2

If so, what was it like? Was it awkward?

2007-01-28 06:26:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

went out with this girl i like last week she is 15 im 17 and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not? btw she isnt very shy either (just before people say this is the reason for it) and also i had never met her friend before this night

2007-01-28 06:26:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i LOVE, with one of his best friends at a party.....i think i might continue, only cause i like the risk, have you ever?

2007-01-28 06:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Ash 4

im single

2007-01-28 06:25:21 · 3 answers · asked by roamerass2000 1

All my boyfriend ever does is accuse me of cheating, everything i do, i could be cheating.. well we got that resolved yesterday and i told him that i couldnt be with him if he couldnt trust me.. well he said he would trust me

but now i feel guility.. and for now reason.. i never cheated on him.. but do you know that feeling that you have to tell someone because it is eating you up inside.. well i have that feeling.. like i have to tell him that i cheated on him.. WHEN I NEVER DID.. but im scared its going to slip out..I feel like i should be telling him I cheated on him whats wrong with me?

2007-01-28 06:25:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

emailed a girl for a good bit
about 8-9 months or so while at war, and when I came home we were supposed to meet up. But now, she is ignoring my phone calls, I think because I didn't call her right away when I came home, and I went to see another girl, out of state, and I think she found out about it via myspace. We haven't even met yet, how can she be mad at me for this? Does she have a right to be mad at me?

2007-01-28 06:23:59 · 2 answers · asked by julia k 1

My best friend just found out that the guy she likes actually likes her back, and he was talking to her on the computer saying stuff like "we should go out sometime" and "would you make out with me?" I used to like this guy, but it always seems like she gets all the guys. I'm over him, but I'd like to get a guy for once, too!! How can I be less jealous?!

2007-01-28 06:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor 2

I have terrible insecurities about the way I look. I feel the only people who have said that I am good-looking are my parents. But out there women's standards in how a man should look are much higher, and I am pretty f*ked about my scars, my wormy body and my hole in my chest in a world where women want a sexy body and a perfect face. I have shut myself off from other people and have tried to forget about the looks issue but it comes swanning back (in fact last Thursday with the Diet Coke ad). And from reading women's responses to the 'do looks matter' question I went out today actually realising that no-one outside my family can love me for who I am. I can work hard and bring out the best when I can but with this reminder I can't do both. I actually starting a skills development course tomorrow, but that horrible cloud will be over me when I don't want it to. And I somehow always feel better when girls aren't around because they'll judge me. Or compare me to someone better looking.

2007-01-28 06:19:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy that likes m, and hes nice i like him too, he wanna make a step ahead, like were ganna date, im nt sure if i can love him, hes good and cuit, but im nt sure that it will work, coz i dont think hez th one....what should i do? should i date him and see what willl happened coz may im wronge, may i really fall in love with him,, or should i end it before he falls in love with me and get hurt??? plz tell me what do u think i should do...18yrz female

2007-01-28 06:19:34 · 1 answers · asked by ashely m 1

This guy, I'm pretty sure he asked me out, but like, it would be embarresing if it was just him asking me to watch a movie with him as a friend or something... can you help me?

too many details, can u contact me for more

2007-01-28 06:19:02 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2

I don't know if it's real man-ley. Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and I want to get him a couple of roses. Is that ok? If so, what color?

2007-01-28 06:17:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem with being shy around guys... even if I don't like them. Even guys that are just friends. I really want to get over this and talk to them more because I know a lot of cool ones!! Help!!

2007-01-28 06:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor 2

When i was dating him i really liked him a whole lot and every thing he was every thing to me but what happend one time was that me and him was at a party and i havent seen him in like forever so i tryed to hug him and kissed him he pushed me away once i came home he called my house and bitching at me of stuff i didnt do.....

Out of the blue he message me he wants to be friends again and i really dont know what to do i have a boyfriend and all right now but i think i still have a lil feeling about him but what he did really hurt me i really dont know what to say back to him can anyone plz help me??? i really need it

2007-01-28 06:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by pink_skull000 1

I like this guy and he likes me, but when we talked about it he said he doesnt want a commitment, because at our age it never goes anywhere, we're best friends, and we were hanging out, and he always wants to kiss me, and he tells me how much he likes me, but is he just trying to get the perks of a relationship without settling down? what should i do about him, because i will always give in to him

2007-01-28 06:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my school's show choir so we dance && sing && stuff. We have to learn this slowish dance, but we have lots of time to talk to each other. Normaly, I'm good with talking to guys, but since it is just us two holding hands for a couple of minutes, while learning the dance. What can I say or talk about to avoid awkward silences without being corny???

2007-01-28 06:15:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ladies only answer...big points!...okay in general ..most girls who have a bf or have hooked up with a guy...were u physicall attracted to him first?? cause i see these really hott girls with okay looking guyz...must be the personality..and probably hang witht he same croud...soo is it really just knowing how to talk to the girls more so than looks for to decide u want him as a bf or too hookup?

2007-01-28 06:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do men prefer to see women in a pair of trousers, hipster jeans, my man says when i wear my trousers or jeans that it sculpts my figure and my backside, but yet he prefers me in a skirt......

so do you guys prefer a woman in a skirt?....and do you see it as easy access?.....or do you just prefer a woman in clothes regardless whether it be trousers or skirt as long as it flatters her figure? what do you like to see women dressed in? and why? no smart answers about being naked.

2007-01-28 06:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

kso,
i have liked this guy for almost the whole school year. granted, i have liked other people. we recently switched classes and i no longer have the class that i had with him. we both have the class just in different periods. my best friend has the class with him and the other day he asked where i was and she told him that i didnt have the same period as them anymore. so he said "darn" but that wasnt the first time he had said something about me. later that day i saw him and his best friend in the hallway at school, i saw them and so did his friend, he kind of nudged my crush and he turned around and they stopped talking until i got to my class. that freaked me out a litle bit. then at an assembly we had [yesterday] anytime me or my best friend looked over, my crush and several of his friends would be looking our way. im not sure if this means that he likes me or not. i dont want to take the chance of telling him and then him not liking me and looking like a complete fool.
HELP ME!

2007-01-28 06:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by *purdy* 1

I have been married for 12 yrs and have been having an affair for 2.
It is with a married woman and me and my wife both know her and her husband very well. She started seeing a psychiatrist 2 months ago and she convinced her to stop seeing me and I can understand that but she is telling her she must come clean and tell her husband.On Thursday she is taking her husband to her appointment and telling him. This means my wife will find out and I know she will leave me.I will loose her,my home and my job because I work for her dad and her uncle.I called her and tried to talk to her but she won't answer.How can I stop her from telling her husband??? This Dr has to be a real wako don't you think ???
What can I do ?? I have not slept in 3 days and I can't think straight.Please think for me and help me.

2007-01-28 06:12:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous