i dont mean to sound crude when i ask this but dont answer with nasty comments please right here goes.
when my and my partner have sex and he comes weather its in me or not i wretch, like i am going to be sick this has been happening for years i dont know why tho anybody help? anybody else like that? on several occations i have actually been sick
2007-01-28 06:36:45 · 33 answers · asked by crazychick19831983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 24 been with him for 8 years
2007-01-28 06:46:29 · update #1
i think it is the thought of it coming from inside his body that makes me sick
2007-01-28 06:49:24 · update #2
thats the worst spell of whether we've ever had.
2007-01-28 06:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should get more familiar with that part of him by practicing certain things. Getting real drunk for instance! Use it as lotion? Put it on a pizza? Make a snow angel in it? Or make it even. What I mean is that when he unloads on you scoop it up and throw it on him. See how he likes it! And last but not least. Add some food coloring and you two can have a relaxing time finger painting! Good luck Gaggy
2007-01-28 06:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was only when inside, I'd say it could be a physical reaction but since it's either in or not, I think it's a mental thing for you. Figure out why it repulses you and work on changing the dynamics. Self help is for the mature and honest. It also will help keep him from feeling disgusting when he shouldn't feel that way. Work on it together. It can get better but not without effort!
2007-01-28 06:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might just be the though of it thats making you sick. Maybe have him wear a condom and see if that changes anything. I have never known anyone like that, so I really couldnt give you any more suggestions. I hope you get things worked out.
2007-01-28 06:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the adrenalin levels in your blood like when you're in a a scary situation the last thing you feel like is food right? Just like that. You're still scared of having sex, maybe there are other issues in play here?
All the best.
2007-01-28 06:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Truman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your subconcious acting out.
Did you grow up thinking sex was bad/dirty?
Have you cheated on your partner? (I don't mean offence!)
It's probably somthing your unaware of and have repressed.
Id suggest going to a psychologist (It doesnt mean your crazy!) to see if you can find out.
If your partner knew about ithe'd probably be upset and think it was his fault. Try and sort it out before you hurt him and make yourself misserable. I hope you can fix this, It wouldb be a shame to be put off sex for life because of this. Take care xXx
2007-01-28 06:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow-Taster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it with 10 others guys and take a poll of how many times it happens if 10 out of 10 youve got problems
2007-01-28 07:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't have very strong feelings for the person you are having this act with sometimes if you think about it it does seem gross. I don't mind as long as its in and not on the outside that is kinda gross.
2007-01-28 06:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are allergic to sperm, or you have a very strong vaginal canal when you orgasm the contractions affect your lower stomach. see a professional. i have the same problem every woman i'm with i make them sick but its not a medical problem. see a sex therapist it could be learning how to breathe to control orgasm.
2007-01-28 06:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a psycological problem.. Maybe some therapy?
2007-01-28 06:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its a psychological problem... dont be embarrassed to seek professional help, or your relationship will take strain!!
2007-01-28 06:42:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋