When i was dating him i really liked him a whole lot and every thing he was every thing to me but what happend one time was that me and him was at a party and i havent seen him in like forever so i tryed to hug him and kissed him he pushed me away once i came home he called my house and bitching at me of stuff i didnt do.....
Out of the blue he message me he wants to be friends again and i really dont know what to do i have a boyfriend and all right now but i think i still have a lil feeling about him but what he did really hurt me i really dont know what to say back to him can anyone plz help me??? i really need it
2007-01-28 06:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by pink_skull000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Message back and let him know that you are happy now without him and that you have found someone else. Tell him that you would prefer that he didn't message you again (perhaps?)
2007-01-28 06:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by gem_fitz_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you would like to be friends but that you have a boyfriend right now. If he cares enough he'll take the friendship and hope you and your current B-Friend split.
You should definitely ask him what was up at the party. Why did he push you away and let him know that you did not find that cool at all. If his answer is adequate to you good if not...let that dog lie.
2007-01-28 14:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he played you once he will play you again! At that party he probaly had some other girls watching him or he was with another girl. You said you have a boyfriend now and im sure you are happy with him. Dont go back to the past. If you do you will probaly be hurt again. Stay with who you are with!!
Keep your head up Sista!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 14:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by lonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i would call him and talk to him about that whole night at a partty and what happened. if he wants to be your friend then be but tell ur boyfriend that way he doesnt think ur sneaking around his back. if ur boyfriend isnt okay with it then listen to him if you want to. but maybe ur ex still has feelings for you. why did u break up anyways? it depends on that too. but if ur happy right now then stay with ur bf dont just go running back to ur ex because maybe u will regret it u never know so just tihnk bout it
2007-01-28 14:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by summergirl951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was interested in another girl when you hugged him at the party...he freaked!
The heck with him, though. If he can't handle a hug from an "ex", then why would you want to be with him.
2007-01-28 14:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the party he was just trying to still get you out of his system probably. still he messages you to try and be friends, then know and take it upon yourself to just be friends... especially since you are in another relationship now. unless you feel it unwise to start up a friendship with him again, then don't do it.
2007-01-28 14:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex! Trust your own judgment and go on with your life. Be cordial though...Say hello. Ask him how he's doing. Tell him that it was nice talking to him again. Say your goodbyes.
2007-01-28 14:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Eboni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life. It sounds like you have a good thing going with your current boyfriend, so I wouldn't even be friends. if he treated you like crap before you even broke up, imagine what it will be like as just friends.
2007-01-28 14:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know that he really hurt you. i wouldn't even bother. if you ugys ever started anything again he will be the same person and do it again. it could be in another way and worse.
2007-01-28 14:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by maryjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to be friends. If he treated you like crap when he supposedly loved you why would it be any different now?
2007-01-28 14:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋