2007-01-28 06:30:41 · 29 answers · asked by mmkknnnn jjjjjjoooooooobnyyyyyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say NO!!!!
2007-01-28 06:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, so with luck you will survive without your leg over with a cheating toerag! That is not letting you off the hook!
Boy/ girlfriends can be a temporary thing, but friends tend to last a bit longer, so tell him to get knotted!!!
I would suggest keeping a modicum of distance between yourselves, so as not to arouse to many suspisions.
Or there is the honest approach...Tell your friend, and take the damage with the knowledge that you found out that he would have cheated with any piece of skirt! So, in a way you have saved her from a worse experience!
2007-01-28 14:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a best friend to your best friend. She may be one, you are not. You don't show the characteristics of a BEST friend. Secondly, I hope you tell your friend that her boyfriend cheated on her so she can move on to a respectable guy that will not give her heartache but happiness. Then, you and him can get together and have all the sex you want. You deserve each other! Really. I think you do!
2007-01-28 14:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be YOUR best friend, but you're not HER best friend! What kind of friend goes behind her 'best friend's (gag) back, screwing around with her bf's boy friend? You don't know what to do because he wants to get into your panties??? If I had a friend like you, I'd dump you in a nano second. You're not a friend!! You're a back stabbing witch! You should be ashamed!! Tell that guy to take a hike and hope your "best friend" doesn't find out what you've already done! Have you no shame???
2007-01-28 14:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back away from this situation. Do you want to lose your friendship with your best friend over a guy?? Only you can answer this question.
If you were honest with your friend and told her what happend, do you think her guy is going to leave her or even admit what happend??
It sounds like he is taking advantage of BOTH of you. If he had any respect for either of you, he would of broken it off with your friend if he REALY cares about you.
Don't let him PLAY you or your friend. If he does want to be with you, before you go any further, you guys need to come clean with your friend that you both want to be together, if not you know he just used you and is out to destroy your friendship, no matter what excuse he gives you... think about it. good luck.
2007-01-28 14:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back out. Say NO. That guy is just going to play with you and is going to cheat on you as well. If he did it to your best friend, chances, are he's going to cheat on you as well.
You're only 18. The right guy will come at the right time.
2007-01-28 15:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by H D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help me, just thing would you want someone to do that to you, it has been said and sometime true what goes around comes around, so get prepared. Now you must live with the shame and quilt of what you have done, why do that to yourself? Why jeopardize your friendship, better yet how is she your best friend when your sleeping with her man, and how is your best friend man her man if he sleeping with you? Funny the label that people give each other now a day.
2007-01-28 14:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Christian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well have sex with him.. you can already kiss the best friend goodbye when she finds out (and she will, it will prob be the first thing the boyfriend mentions when he gets mad at her... Oh yeah well I've been dating yer friend)
Ya really cant screw it up anymore by having the sex... OH and get ready.. yer gonna be the next one in yer friends position someday LOL
2007-01-28 14:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there is no way you would have sex with him and, if he ever says anything about it, again, to you , you will immediately tell your best friend. If you tell her now, it is possible she won't believe you and it could create as much trouble for you as it would the boyfriend. However, don't hesitate to tell her if he acts inappropriately toward you again. You owe it to her, at that point.
2007-01-28 14:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to speak, write and spell English correctly. How do you even manage to communicate with anybody?
Sorry if I sound rude, but I'm literally in shock ...
2007-01-28 14:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go f u c k himself. You are saving yourself for marriage like you are supposed to. The first tiime was a mistake. Tell him Bye bye and to find someone else to f u c k. You are not a w h o r e!
2007-01-28 14:43:48 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋