ladies only answer...big points!...okay in general ..most girls who have a bf or have hooked up with a guy...were u physicall attracted to him first?? cause i see these really hott girls with okay looking guyz...must be the personality..and probably hang witht he same croud...soo is it really just knowing how to talk to the girls more so than looks for to decide u want him as a bf or too hookup?
2007-01-28 06:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, with my first boyfriend, I wasn't physically attracted to him, we were just messing around with him in class and stuff, but he was considered the hottest guy in school then and all these other girls trying to get with him and here's me not trying but I end up with him.
If you see the hot girls with average guys, it's nothing to do with looks, it's personality & charisma. For some good looking guys, that's all they have-good looks. They lack humour, intelligence and sharp wit. Not all girls are attracted to shallow eye candy and this applies to both sexes.
2007-01-28 06:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look baby its all about how you treat the woman that makes her attracted to you. If you are a Bull sh***ter she will know it and you won't get any play. All you have to do is be a gentlemen and the rest will follow. And don't go up to a woman saying Yo baby what's up. That's not cute at all.
Walk up to her in a respectful way and talk to her. You could say (Hi how you doing my name is?) and go from there and watch how everything changes for you.
2007-01-28 06:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Student 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A guy can be totally ordinary looking to another guy, but to the girl he is the hottest thing. Its partially his personality, but believe me - if she is with him and they like each other - she is physically attracted to him.
I have to be physically attracted to the man or sex just won't work over the long term relationship. I have had to temper my lust in the beginning to make sure I like the guy's personality. That is the toughest thing - but worth it.
2007-01-28 06:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by beach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. The reason we started talking is because I flirted with him constantly. He was a hottie! And he still is! His personality turned out to be even better! I didn't date guys for looks though, he was the first hottie I ever dated. It's not about looks, it really is how you treat a girl and your personality.
2007-01-28 06:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we met at a bar, and no, i can't really say i was attracted to him in the beginning but after talking to him all night... his personality and his intelligence really blew me away and even though we've been together for over a year some of my friends still can't believe i'm with him. but i could even marry him because i finally learned looks are not everything.
2007-01-28 06:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by prettyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my Dad I learned to look at the spirit of a man. If there spirit is of His they will be BEAUTIFUL in your eyes!!!
Personally I want it all brand new socks and draws!!!
Mind body spirit sensualness tenderness passion....WHEW!!!
2007-01-28 06:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... not really. i mean he is really good looking, but i didn't really care about that & i still don't. i think personality is what matters, you can't really change the way you look, and it would be really unfair to people who are less fortunate in looks then overs. i mean looks still count, but personality is what really matters.
2007-01-28 06:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people are, but i look for a little of both. a smart, sweet guy that isnt a jerk, and is pretty good looking too.
2007-01-28 06:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someones you see something in someone that no one else does that makes him so sexy!
2007-01-28 06:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Waythere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
h-ell yeah i was attracted then i became more &more attrcted when i saw him naked and when i talk to him and know his sweat personalty
2007-01-28 06:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋