My best friend just found out that the guy she likes actually likes her back, and he was talking to her on the computer saying stuff like "we should go out sometime" and "would you make out with me?" I used to like this guy, but it always seems like she gets all the guys. I'm over him, but I'd like to get a guy for once, too!! How can I be less jealous?!
2007-01-28 06:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to build up your confidence and make friends. If he is asking her to make out with him maybe she does and that is how she gets the guys but it is better to have a lot of friends and find one person special in time than to have fewer friends and make out with all of them.
2007-01-28 06:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be just like you. Guys used to pass me over and go for my friends and sisters all the time. I was always jealous, but I didn't say anything to anybody. Then one day, this guy passed over all my friends and my sisters and came to me. I'm still with him now and I realized that all I had to do was wait. It may be hard and you may be jealous at times, but be a good friend and wait. Don't push love. Your time will come soon, so good luck.
2007-01-28 14:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look here girlfriend, Jealous women are insecure women that will never get a man. Men usually don't like a nagging woman. So you need to get it together. You have to first love yourself before you can love anyone else. I understand if another woman walked up to your man and disrespected you and you check her your not being jealous you just letting her know to back off or get a beat down (you feel me). And also woman to woman if your girlfriend knew you liked him and still pursued him you need to change friends. Because I see a Jerry Springer waiting to happen(So watch that, and never leave her alone with your man). Now back to what I was saying, just fix yourself up look cute and the man your looking for will find you. And remember Jealousy will get you at home alone by yourself. Also a few words of wisdom Never front your man off in public because that's not cute or lady like. If he pisses you off either wait until you get in the car or wait to you get home then let him have it.
2007-01-28 14:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Student 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well things do happen for a reason so for all you know your friend could be doing you a favor if this guy turns out to be a real jerk. she may be your best friend, but sometimes keeping who you like to yourself, may be the way to steer her in another direction. jealousy will kick in, in this instant, but if you try some time alone and go on the prowl without her-you may just find out that you are in to a totally different type!
good luck!
2007-01-28 14:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can dois talk to friend about it. If she is a good friend she will listen to you. and I'm sure that some day you will find a great guy and I've found it's way better to let them come to you than to go looking for them(the ones that do come to you are always way better and like you for who you are)
2007-01-28 14:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by JeddaBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you fell like that, then you should stop being around her so much in the public eye. Take sometime out and find your true love while she is out there dating. good luck, and never be jealous. You are just as beautiful.
2007-01-28 14:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE less stressed out about it all! The stress about finding someone to be with is what sounds like your problem. Relax, enjoy the road trip and have fun! Love will come pounding on your door like a ten ton behemoth soon enough!
2007-01-28 14:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O its totally normal for you to be jealous. One of my friends is the same way. Whenever we go to a school dance all the guys wanna dance with her and im just stuck there watching her. It sucks but theres nothing you can really do to control it except find your own guy. I bet if you find your own bf youll totally forget about your friend.
2007-01-28 14:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and you'll find guys. If your shy it can be tough, so try and be open and talk with them first. Don't be jealous of your friend, just make sure you become a extrovert and let guys know what you want, they'll start flocking to you soon enough :)
2007-01-28 14:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has someone thats meant to be with them. i guess u just have to wait. u should occupy urself with stuff like school, life, family, sports and other stuff. i got over the guy i had to not like by doing that. live life to the fullest. good luck. life is short.go find the guy thats meant to be with u.
i think what i said makes sense. I THINK.
2007-01-28 14:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋