went out with this girl i like last week she is 15 im 17 and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not? btw she isnt very shy either (just before people say this is the reason for it) and also i had never met her friend before this night
2007-01-28 06:26:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's only 15. She was probably nervous about being out with you. At the end of the night she probably got a little more comfortable with you and decided to walk home with you so that she could finally get to know you better. Next time invite her to go with you as a friend and then talk with her about how you feel. But don't rush the issue.
2007-01-28 06:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have been attempting to make the friend feel comfortable and not like a third wheel. She obviously wanted to walk with you and spend that time visiting with you when the friend was no longer around. It's too soon to tell exactly the way she is feeliing. Give it time. You don't need to know right now if you're going to be together forever. Just enjoy her company and be secure in yourself.
2007-01-28 14:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was kind of like that when i was young it was just because i was very very shy. I was 14 he was 16. I had never been around guys much and didn't really know how to act of a intimate level. Be patient. Keep taking her out alone just the two of you and spend some quality time togeather and i am sure she will loosen up sooner or later just give her time. I am sure she really likes you just dosen't really know how to act. I was always really embarrased at that age when i was with a boy but in presence of my family or friends. I could be myself when i didn't have a audience. Good luck
2007-01-28 14:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much interest were you showing her? Maybe she is bouncing off you and your actions or the lack of... She definitly wanted to spend more time. You should NOT wait around with out letting it be known WITHOUT a doubt that you want her!!! Step up to the plate!!! We like to KNOW we are wanted. Otherwise you may lose out on someone you really like. Create a time just for you two. maybe you should try a park...ask her if she knows of one near by....she may surprize you!!! Have Fun!! Live life to the Fullest!!!
2007-01-28 14:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I wasn't there so I don't know for sure, but maybe you're the one who was being shy(and of course there's nothing wrong with that- shy guys are sweet) If she likes you(I'm assuming she does, or else she wouldn't have walked home with you) than I'm sure she didn't mean to ignore you...she was just hanging out with her friend and her freind just happens to know her better(once again, I'm assuming) so it's easier for her to talk to her friend. I think you should go out with her alone on a couple of dates to get to know her really well before you start hanging out with her buddies. and if you are getting mixed signals from her, then you should talk to her before it gets worse. better late than never but better never late, you know?!
2007-01-28 14:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by JeddaBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like mixed signals to you, but for us girls its loud and clear. she may have been hurt before and is taking it easy with connecting with you. you're going to need to impress this one if that is the case. being truly romantic though casual at the same time will make her feel comfortable enough to go out with you again. dont try to make things seem too good to be true by laying it on thick, just try to befriend her and give her the first impression that you wont rush her into anything.
good luck!
2007-01-28 14:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason she wasn't talking to you was because she maybe didn't want her friend to her what she was saying to you. But since she and you were walking alone she felt more comfortable maybe. when you two are alone together you have more of a connection. Shes probably into you. Good Luck
2007-01-28 14:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by thelocalgirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey things like this will happen she is probably nervous and not sure how to act around you. She feels comfortable to be around people that she knows well, when she knows you better she wont be sending as many mixed messages, you both will become more in tune to your feelings soon. Hey good luck and relax around her be very observant to what does and doesn't bother her.
2007-01-28 14:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, son. She likes you. She was embarrassed in front of her friend. That's not the same as being shy. She talks too much if 1) she's shallow OR 2) she's nervous.
Have fun and remember, you don't need someone else's approval to like yourself.
2007-01-28 14:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by thetruthteller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad her friend is her comfort zone so she found it easier to just talk to her friend that's all. She probably really likes you she is just ating the way that 15 year old girls act.
2007-01-28 14:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Eboni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋