Singles & Dating - 26 January 2007

hi im an 18yo male n three months ago, I met this girl, who really liked me. we got on really well. then once i stopped seeing her, she decided to stop talking to me. when i try to talk to her, she says that she is too busy for me. then 2 weeks ago, i went over the top cause i was obsessed with her. i apologised, but she still wont talk to me. she said that she liked me until i decided to be a loser and send here stupid love messages. i apologised for that as well. i really like this girl. she wont talk to me. whats the go?? does she still like me?

2007-01-26 21:08:15 · 14 answers · asked by ash c 1

I am a 17-year-old girl, and I love a guy a lot. I have liked him for 10 years, and I told him I liked him in August. He knew I liked him earlier, but he didn't know I still liked him, until I did tell him since he pressurized me a lot to tell him who I liked. However, since I was afraid, I also added that I had tried to forget him a lot and it wasnt possible. Since young kids, we never spoke because everyone at school teased us a lot. We were indeed embarrassed, and even now, at this age, we don't talk face-to-face. Hardly a few words, but we do chat quite a lot. He is a very nice and caring person. We argue about the smallest things. What he did recently was crazy! He told me he wason with my friend. He had planned it to fool around with me, as that's what he said when I finally came to know it was all a joke. He jokes often, but this has been the biggest of all.I really love him, and I fear I shall lose him. I can't confide this to anyone. Maybe a stranger can help me. Plz do help!!

2007-01-26 21:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, and he's always saying how "hot" some girl is. It really makes me sad and angry to hear that 'cause I know I'm not as attractive as them. When I ask my bf what he thinks of my body he just says "there's nothing wrong with it." I've already told him how I feel but he still keeps checking out other girls. What can I do?

2007-01-26 21:01:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 20:57:39 · 37 answers · asked by ishupoo 1

A guy i went on a first date with kind of let out that he cheated on his last gf a couple of times...can guys change ?

2007-01-26 20:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are all coworkers

we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. She also kinda ignored me at work today (we are coworkers but only share hours once a week or so) .Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?

I'm 20, she's 19. She told me b4 that she wanted to be more than friends, but i dont know now.

Could i ask her friend to talk to her about our situation?

2007-01-26 20:56:02 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

So there is this girl that I really like. She told me that we are "friends" and I am almost 100% sure she doesnt like me. but i really want to tell her but I am scared or rejection.

I am 17 and so is she and i am very shy. Like not shy to talk to her just really shy about telling a girl i like her.

But the main question is, with me being young and nervious about this topic.
How should i tell her?

Like I've told her on the phone how i felt, but only when i was drunk I've done that. and she might not actually think that i really like her. But I'm fairly sure she knows, almost all my friends know and lots of hers know too.

I am really confused on what i should do.

2007-01-26 20:55:42 · 11 answers · asked by mitch s 1

I met this guy on line, he lived in MD i live in CA, we would talk on the phone like all the time he was really nice and someone i thought i would love, after 3 months of talking on the phone and exchanging pics he moved in with me, the first 2 weeks was great but now he changed and we always fight, he gets mad for any little reason, he is always in a bad mood, im a happy go lucky person so im not used to being around someone like that, my question is what do i do? i cant just kick him out, he don't know anyone he don't even have a job yet, he has been her like 2 months. any advice?. no sarcastic remarks please. PS. i'm very unhappy

2007-01-26 20:54:28 · 9 answers · asked by fallen_angel 4

Me and my firend were haveing a sleep over and all we could talk about was sex and boys. IM GOING INSANE IS THIS PART OF PUBERTY!!!!

2007-01-26 20:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by Calby 3

" if i was matt i would go out with a girl like you"

said my crush to me.

me , matt and my crush were at town together. we all work together. im 18 and it was my first time out at night clubs.

so anyway what does that sentence mean? nothing at all? or my crush likes me secretly? or that he actually thinks matt should go for a girl like me?

2007-01-26 20:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by lily 2

Girls always seek the rough and tumble guy who's been in every jail cell, and bar fight. When she secretly wants a sweet and caring man who knocks her off her feet romantically. How on earth is this carwreck of an idea ever get in their heads? What is the best solution? If maybe a guy or two out there have all the right answers to this life long dillemma PLEASE let me know!!

2007-01-26 20:46:19 · 15 answers · asked by ILLput MY idONlaterWITHxox 1

2007-01-26 20:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by si hijau 1

2007-01-26 20:44:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told him but he is not ready yet tell me what i will do?

2007-01-26 20:39:34 · 3 answers · asked by esha j 1

2007-01-26 20:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by PhatCat 2

we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. She also kinda ignored me at work today (we are coworkers but only share hours once a week or so) .Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?

2007-01-26 20:32:58 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

met this women, she's amazing, beautiful, and we both make each other happy when together. to find out that she's married! but she finally opened up and express her sadness in life. she's not happy with her husband, separated 4 times, he doenst want her to do anything with her friends or even her family & even with jst both of them. out of nowhere, he decided to relocate to another state, asked her to moved w/him w/o asking her, xpect her to leave evrthng, her family, friends & basically her life. she eventually followed him but only lasted for 2 weeks & now she's back. now we're starting to see each other again. i know never to get involved w/ someone who has relationship but if she's unhappy w/ her life & i see that atleast i make her smile when we're together. what should i do? i know that i should not get involved until they decide to end the relationship but i'm scared to step away & she might meet someone else & loose her. so far, i havent met anyone like her who made me happy.

2007-01-26 20:30:15 · 23 answers · asked by Bizz 1

I don't do married men!

2007-01-26 20:29:23 · 13 answers · asked by Lost Angel 2

how do you get over someone whom you've loved with all your being?

its been almost a year since our relationship ended and there is not a day that passes that i dont think of her.

i miss her so much.

2007-01-26 20:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by El Fauno 2

Hi all, i was wondering what you think i should do. This guy at college liked me but never asked me out and i think it was due to me being a Muslim and he wasn't sure how to go about it but now i like him back and still do but he has a girlfriend now so do you think i should tell him i like him just to get it off my chest for the rest of my life or should i leave it and not say anything and suffer with how i feel knowing i can't have him? I knw i cant but i need to tell him how i felt just so to get it off my chest. What do you think? let me knw.

2007-01-26 20:26:53 · 30 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

i like these two girls so much and a big dance is coming up and both of them asked me on msn while i was in the showerahah wwhich one do i ask the first or the second :S my frends said flip a coin but i dont wanna reject one of tehm and the one gets all choked and stuff

2007-01-26 20:25:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

omg theres this guy he asked me put 7 times in 6 months hes driving me crazzzzyyyyyy everytime he asks me out i say no he flirts with me 24/7 and i never do it back i always tell him we can be bestfriends and i alwaaaaays try and act like his bestfriend he dosent want..he wants to go out with me by any chance i dnt wnnnnnnnt tooooo ukh!! and like tomoro is his birthday and he told my bestfriend that he wants it to be a date no as gf bf but as friend date..wat should i do plz dont say go out with him or give it a try coz i reely dont want to i tryed the same thing with allooot of guys but i regret it i told myself that im nver gna say yes to a guy except if i reelly like him which i no is correct!! wat should i do

2007-01-26 20:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by gurlie 2

and here im to ask you all guys we all do love... but there is something which should not happen like ..exp.. one guy saw a girl and he like her he made a friendship with her and he showed her he love her very much and girl fall in love with him very serious and she strated feeling his love...they went for diner they spend a nite together.. and in morning he droped her in her house and he said hey sweetie... today was our last day.. from now .. you dont know me.... and i dont know you... and girl is like half dead and half alive...and the samething girls do with guys........ useing a word ...LOVE..
what is love? why fall in it and why start feeling someone.....and why trust our love ....and we think our love is true........ why

2007-01-26 20:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by saqib s 1

I am a 18y.o male and I have a female friend who liked me well. She really liked me, until i decided to be a loser. (over obsessive). i really like this girl but how can i make up for what i have done. She said she liked me until a decided to be a loser. she wont talk to me now. Please help so i can get the girl that i love.

2007-01-26 20:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by ash c 1

im just wondering if anyone knows a good website showing how to kiss because im pretty sure im going for my first kiss soon and i dont have a clue what to do so please help me

2007-01-26 20:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Surfer_69 2

we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?

2007-01-26 20:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

I have been talking to a really smart, funny and cool seeming guy online for two months. He is 34 and was engaged until last Fall (he broke it off because he didnt se ehimself with his fiance forever)
He lives 200 miles away from me in Boston so we haven't met yet.
I checked out his entire background with his approval so Id feel safe if we met.
The thing is is Im really happy where I live and he couldnt relocate here because of his job. I would have to move my whole life there if things got serious. Also I still need to lose about 15-20 lbs before Im in great shape. Im pretty happy w/ myself right now. But he jokes around that he is 'shallow' & although a woman's mind is important, looks come first when he meets someone. He says he needs someone smart who looks great in a dress
I know that makes him sound shallow. But otherwise he has acted so cool. Plus he himself is handsome and in good shape.
Should I put off meeting him until Im at my best or is this a bad idea ?

2007-01-26 20:13:49 · 18 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1

well "she" has just shown all of "her" goods and shes a he! what is the correct etiquette in this situation ive already given my phone numbers, email address and house address

2007-01-26 20:13:47 · 15 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3

Just wondering...

2007-01-26 20:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

me and my boyfriend broke up a little over a week ago because his ex is claiming that her baby is his. i am totally in love with him and want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him, but now he wants to try to make it work with this girl if the baby is his, which we wont know for another 2 weeks, and im torn apart by this. what do i do? do i wait for him? how am i expected to throw away my feelings for him while knowing that he is trying to make something work with another woman? how can i be expected to deal with knowing that the one im in love with is with another woman?? help, please

2007-01-26 20:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by AMANDA 1