Singles & Dating - 26 January 2007

Okay, so here's the thing. I am a 17 year old guy in my first year of college, and I am finding it pretty weird how girls who didnt talk much to me last year in high school are all of the sudden trying their hardest to talk to me this year in college? I think this is kind of weird, I mean its not like I look any different or anything.

2007-01-26 20:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by Lebanese_Mafia 3

i really suck at flirting lol what kinda things can i do so the girl im flirtign with gets that im flirting with her and what kinda tips can ppl give me to help improve my flirting

2007-01-26 20:07:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So 2 years ago I was in a very serious relationship with a man, it was wonderful. He's a single dad with full custody and I'm a single mom with full custody. Our children loved eachother and everything was perfect. We got engaged, I got pregnant (on accident), it was a great thing.. We were so excited about the baby. I ended up losing the baby and we started falling apart. We were both very sad and not communicating at all. We ended up breaking up in a very horrible fashion, I was devistated. And he hurt me horribly. I haven't gotten over him, although I have tried to move on. 2 weeks ago he popped back into my life after 2 years of not talking. The connection was instant, it was like no time had passed and it was wonderful. Now we're talking about getting back together but I'm really scared. I'm afraid that he's just doing this out of some sort of guilt or sense of responsibility to make it up to me. Do men do things like that, or am I just freaking out and being insecure?

2007-01-26 20:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What size do GUYS consider dating material?

I am looking for numbers here!!!!

What size do you consider a girl to be dating material?

What size would you NOT date a girl at?

2007-01-26 20:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 19:58:30 · 24 answers · asked by victor d 1

I love my classmate .she is so good girl.At present i am in class 12th and only few days are left for leave the school I think only 10 Days maximum.Because after it our farewell came & we cannot come to school.I don't understand that is she interested in me or not.She never talk with me bcoz my other classmates tease her with my name.Indeed i am not a bad boy.Her close friends are also my good friends. Unknowingly I proved that i really love her.But i didnot want to show her that i love her so much. I love her since i show her in first time on my new school @ new class 11th. She is my first love. I only want to make her my good friend. But she already know that i love her. I am not a bad looking boy.I have a great problem that now i am not able to propose her for frndship.I have no time. I am really confused. What can i do? who meri dost aab nahi ban sakti.And I don't want to lost her. Please help.

2007-01-26 19:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by Dinesh 1

ok, i left out info on my last posting...I'll lay it all out.

been w/ my man for 3 months. care about him a lot. he goes to school and so do i. i have a job, he doesnt. I pay for everything when we go outl. he does nothing nice for me....he can't b/c he doenst have money to. he doens have a job because he says school wont allow him to. but he misses school every other day so that doesnt make sense. Do i dump my BF that i care about so much because he can't do things for me? when he does get money, he waste it on fast food and a bad habit. He knows how i feels, but says it will be better in a couple of months. do i wait and keep paying, or do i call it off until he can get stable? im sad b/c xmas, & my bday passed and he did nothing. I just want him to do nice things for me.i pay all the time and im tired of it.

2007-01-26 19:56:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's hear your stories and what was the end result...

2007-01-26 19:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

For the ladies: Can you translate this for me?
Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.

She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.

What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already?

BTW, here relationship is on the outs and she's telling me she's getting rid of him soon. I asked her to my work's christmas party, which she apologetically never got back to me about even though she told me she definitely wanted to go with me. The other night I told her I liked her more than a friend, and she said "Thank you" then my phone disconnected. She called me back THREE times. Saying that she wants to talk to me about it. She also told me that things are still bad with him, but definitely wants to talk to me about it and that I didn't make her feel uncomfortable at all. She's trying to call me this weekend she says.

What is going on?

2007-01-26 19:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by heymanchase 1

my friend has a bf and hes like not communicating with her at allllll like she calls him and tells him im reely sad how come u dnt call me and communicate with me all he says is lsn i wanna go sleep and all that!!! wat should she do

2007-01-26 19:54:09 · 6 answers · asked by gurlie 2

If your boyfriend had promised to take you to a nice dinner and then suggests a local slezzy pub to go to at midnight and when you say no not that place and he responds with a "Well, you can just stay home and I will go by myself." How would you respond and what would you think of him?

2007-01-26 19:53:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

can a person be in love with many at a time,is that real or he is cheating his own self alongwith others too,i mean that why a person cant love more then one woman in his life.Why is it mandatory to stick to jus the person u get married to???is faling or rising in love a crime?

2007-01-26 19:50:43 · 24 answers · asked by smartkid 1

2007-01-26 19:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

so my best friend really likes me, or loves me, i dont know. but anyways, i kinda like him too, but i liked him more before. he is struggling with issues within himself like low self confidence and stuff like that. we are extremely close and talk to each other all the time. we are there for each other and ive never had a best friend like him. sometimes i wanna take it further, but then i think about it ruining this awesome friendship we have. but then i end up thinking well what could it have been. i dont know what to do cuz i dont want to be the one who says she wants to be friends, but then later wants to take it further after he moves on. just to let you know, im the first girl he's ever liked like this so i dont really think he'll move on in an instant. the thing im asking is do i just try it now, even tho i dont really want to, or do i just wait it out and see, and maybe regret not taking it further. he is fine with whatever choice i choose.

2007-01-26 19:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was looking in her direction and made brief eye contact with her then she just looked away as soon as eye contact was made....is that a sign?

2007-01-26 19:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by hey! 1

to be begging to someone to love them ..??
what if u love that person for nearly 10 years but yout love was never return that u have to breakdown infront of that person to give a chance to love you..

your opinion please.

2007-01-26 19:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it easy for you to get over a girl you were once totally drowned in when you have to see her every single day?

2007-01-26 19:45:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes on her webcam right now and shes showing me most of her goodies - what is the correct etiquette in this situation - ive said uhuh nice moony etc but im running out of things to say

2007-01-26 19:42:57 · 12 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3

this girl has been my friend for a while and couple of mths after we met i told her that i liked her. we got to be really good friends but there's times when were 2gether that we act like a couples. we've done everything as what couples do but she have never made anything official or have xpress her feelings towards me. she knows how much i liked her & she knows that if she's w/ me that she will be in good hands & happy. sometimes/now i feel like i'm her puppet on a string wer if she feels alone or sad that she can take me in to her life but wen time comes wer she feels get'n closed to me, she locks me up on a closet, lock it up & keep the keys w/ her so no one else can take me. finally i decided to move on &meet other women. i met her friend w/ i ended up spending a lot of time w/ & hooked up several times. now the other girl found out bout me & her friend got mad at her friend for being w/ me & y she's doing this to her? why does it matter to her who i'm wid wen she said no be4?

2007-01-26 19:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by Bizz 1

and cuddle and hang out all the time, I talk to her on the phone all the time and we agree on just about EVERYTHING. We've made moves on each other, but we usually don't follow through because she says she just doesn't want a b/f right now. I don't think she's just saying this because I've asked her to think about dating me and she says she thinks about it all the time. We're both into psychology, so we're really deep individuals with emotions, but this is one thing that I need high advice on.

I know she likes me and i know she contemplates dating me, but she just "doesn't want to date right now" and I believe it, it's not a cover up for saying no to just me, but we're really close. I do think it gets better every day.

Should I stick with it?

2007-01-26 19:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Bf and i been together for 7 months, we have very different work schedule, like i work at night, he work in the morning, he has steadys days off i dont. we dont see each other a lot, and lately he has been different, he doesnt call me as much, and when we speak he sounds agrevated and doesnt talk a lot. His Job gives him a lot of stress but i dont know if he is like that for his job, or he is getting tired of our situation. Did he became tired of our relationship?
EVery time i confront him, he asks me if i want to break up.

2007-01-26 19:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by agentaita1 2

I love my BF. we have a lot of fun together. I'm upset b/c his finances are not up to par. I'ts not that he can't work, he can get good paying jobs, but right now he's going to school full time and the schedule is too hectic to have a job. We havent went out one time since we've been together...3 months. I'm always the one paying for things.....It didnt use to be this way when I first met him. He had a job and he would pay for me. I told him we should separate until he's stable but we ended up talking about the situation and we never broke up. He aske for money to help him out here and there and I get upset b/c I feel like he's mooching....I feel bad b/c that's my man and I care for him but ..he needs a job so we can go out and do more. I want to be w/ this man. what do I do?

2007-01-26 19:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 19:34:20 · 16 answers · asked by [Nightmare] 1

I know this question has been asked before, I'd just like to add some specific things that are relevant!

I used to speak to my girlfriend everyday on the phone (by text or calling) and used to see each other at least every other week but for the last two weeks we have hardly talked.

I don't mind her avoiding me, it's the not telling me what's going on that is driving me nuts! I have left her messages, but she hasn't called me. She says she will sometimes, but never does.

I think she is probably just busy, but too busy to take 5minutes to call me?!

I really want to make things work with her, has anyone got any useful advice (i.e. not people saying dump her etc)

Thanks!

2007-01-26 19:33:34 · 20 answers · asked by forgotful_guy 1

We both love each other deeply....please help.

2007-01-26 19:31:48 · 20 answers · asked by S_A_T 1

The girls are shy and can't tell a guy “I love you ". The guys are shy too and can't tell a girl the same. In conclusion, we shouldn’t be worried to ask, Should be?

2007-01-26 19:31:33 · 2 answers · asked by sea_vancouver 1

I'm in college and i'm trying to make the best of my life. I'm goal orientated. Everybody always tell me I'm pretty. I'm not a skinny girl, but I look good for my size. I'm a little shy, but once i get to know you I do talk. I'm into culture. I'm in my early 20s. Does anybody know what I can do? I don't really like being single. I had to break up with my last relationship, because we didn't want a long distance relationship.

2007-01-26 19:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by ME!! 2

I called my BF the other night and left him a VM stating that I felt we should separate until he gets stable b/c he doesnt do anything for me financially. he never takes me out or anything b/c he's always broke. He goes to school which takes up a lot of his time, but I go to school also and work. anyway, he called me back the next morning asking why i was acting that way and we got into an argument. he called me later saying that he didnt want us to end on bad terms that way we did and he wanted to see me. he came over and we talked and he said that he didnt like fighting w/ me and his finances won't be like this forever....he's just trying to finish school. And he said he cared abt me. OK, should I accept this? he's basically telling me that over the next 2 months, he's still gonna be broke and not being able to pay for anytning. it's a hard situation b/c we are close, and i do want to be w/ him, but i feel sad that he just wont work harder to keep me happy. what do i do?

2007-01-26 19:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and this girl that i know i like were at this party all night and u know we spent the whole time together we cuddled together while watchin the notebook and monty python and the holy grail she kissed me a couple of time we cuddled and watched the sunrise together and more but how do i know if it was only for one night and the other thing is she's 18 and im 15 and a half but honestly no lie im just as mature as she is and also we like the same bands movies sports ice cream, so basically what i am trying to ask is whether is she into me or not on what we did that night and how do i know

2007-01-26 19:28:55 · 8 answers · asked by eric 1

Can I be in love with 2 persons?....i mean really feel it for both...

2007-01-26 19:28:49 · 4 answers · asked by Thumper 2