to be begging to someone to love them ..??
what if u love that person for nearly 10 years but yout love was never return that u have to breakdown infront of that person to give a chance to love you..
your opinion please.
2007-01-26 19:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it isn't low, but if it has been nearly 10 years and that person has never returned the feelings, I would have to say it is time to move on and find someone who will return the feelings. 'There are more fish in the sea".
2007-01-26 19:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Just_Me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, spending 10 years of your life loving someone who is not interested in you has got to be the biggest waste of time I ever heard of. To then make matters worse by reducing yourself to begging only makes you look even more pathetic and needy. My advice is to get some serious therapy to explore why you believe that you don't deserve happiness. Everything you have done so far has only ensured that you couldn't find it. Enough time wasted, I say.
2007-01-27 03:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. It's not fair on them. I'd hate to say it, but you need to get over them, and get on with life. Find someone who will love you in return, otherwise, you are not doing yourself any good, for your health, physically or mentally.
2007-01-27 03:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by BlueCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's extremely sweet and extremely vulnerable.
However, it's also extremely unlikely to work. If the other party hasn't felt a twitch in 10 years, then nothing is gonna do it.
2007-01-27 03:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've given yourself to this person for ten years in hopes that you would get something back, anything, right? Well, it's not worth you wasting your time. I say move on.
2007-01-27 03:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't low, but it is unlikely to get you the required result. You have to try to get over them and move on to someone different.
2007-01-27 03:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but i just can't picture that working. Maybe ushould try a different approach.
2007-01-27 03:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by NDC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIkes. You can't force something like that. At best you'll get pity back...at worst scorn.
2007-01-27 03:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not low...but be very careful
2007-01-27 03:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not low. its just kind of lame. and nothing will become of it anyways..
2007-01-27 03:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋