If your boyfriend had promised to take you to a nice dinner and then suggests a local slezzy pub to go to at midnight and when you say no not that place and he responds with a "Well, you can just stay home and I will go by myself." How would you respond and what would you think of him?
2007-01-26 19:53:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think its overreacting to cry if this is said?
2007-01-26 20:29:22 · update #1
I would tell him not to bother coming back when he is done there. If he is breaking promises now and you were looking foward to going out..that is not nice. But he took it a step further.. you have the right to say 'I personaly don't want to go there', and in a healthy relationship.. that would be where a compromise is made... and him running off and going where he wants to is not compromise.. he is putting you in the position of having it his way or no way... yeah, tell him not to come back again
2007-01-26 19:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would go to the sleezy pub with him and find an excuse to sneak away. He is the best guy cos in most cases they would rather go there with the 'boys' tag along and meet his freinds. Don't sound like you hate the places he goes to. Dinner is more for you and taking him to this pub is the least you can do.
2007-01-27 04:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by cynnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you going at midnight? Did something not go right? If something came up, give him a break. If he just forgot or was being lazy you can say something to the effect of, "That's not very thoughtful of you." Say it kind of Kindergarten teacherish.
2007-01-27 03:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't let the door hit you on the way out and don't bother coming back.
He doesn't sound like he cares what you think, so why stay. He will only let you down time after time.
2007-01-27 04:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would realize that leaving me at home and going out alone has been his plan all along, I played right into his hands, and when he returned from his outing I would no longer be around to play into his hands again.
2007-01-27 04:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, "go then, but don't expect to find me waiting for you when you get home." oh and what would I think of him? I'd call him butt wipe on the way out the door.
2007-01-27 03:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by BlueCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes....maybe finances forced him to second best...but then he mustnt promise if he cant commit to it! Dont promise if you cant deliver! I would tell him 'cheers' & enjoy it! After that i'll do things on my own & tell him i wanted to go by myself!
2007-01-27 04:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him not to let the door hit him in the *** when he leaves...then I would pack my stuff and be gone when he gets back
2007-01-27 03:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerk and stay home invite girl Friend over order pizza
2007-01-27 04:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wants to hang out with his bud or he doesn't want to pay..either one. You have every right to be mad.
2007-01-27 04:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by debah v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋