Singles & Dating - 26 January 2007

i normally spend the weekends with my boyfriend. last saturday when i called him up he said he was busy over the wekend and a bussiness asociate of his would be staying over to finish off a very important project.
i decided to give him a surprise, on sunday morning i prepared a special breakfast and went to his place. i rang the doorbell, when he opened the door he was wrapped in sheet, i could make out there was nothing inside. his face looked as if he was about to die of shock, and he asked how r u here so early.. by his was of behaving i got suspicious nd pushed him and walked inside to the bedroom.
sure enough there was someone all covered up on the bed, there were ladies clothes & sandals stewn all over.. i pulled the sheet of over that sleeping person in anger and there was agirl without clothes.
i left in a huff and did not conatct my guy after that, he tried to call and gave multipls text msgs saying sorry he didnt men to cheat on me and to forgive him

what do i do now ?

2007-01-26 17:37:55 · 34 answers · asked by Dr. Angel Priya 1

Question about music compatibility for girls who like country music -- are country and "soft" rock compatible enough in the sense that you would be willing to go out with a guy who likes soft rock and listen to his kind of music if he asked you? Also, does it help if the same guy who likes soft rock is willing to listen to country music with you too? ("Soft rock" being defined as something along the lines of Josh Groban, Peter Cetera, Richard Marx, Jim Brickman, Mariah Carey, Sting, Bryan Adams, Bangles, etc.)

2007-01-26 17:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by 011 1

2007-01-26 17:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by billy boa 1

and why?

2007-01-26 17:35:38 · 26 answers · asked by [MiA] 2

The guy i'm currently with keeps asking me 2 "blow" him. The problem there is i have neva done it b4 and have no clue wat 2 do. Is it normal that i feel nervous? I jst dont want to make a fool of myself... any suggestions???

2007-01-26 17:34:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 17:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few nights ago I told a female friend who I've known for 8 years that I had strong feeling for her. She was nearly floored when I told her. She said it was a total shock. She also kept saying that I totally caught her off guard and that she doesn't know what to say or think right now but that she was glad I told her. I was really expecting a clear yes or no answer but she's kind of left me in limbo. Any thoughts?

2007-01-26 17:32:31 · 18 answers · asked by Sub Xero 2

At the risk of sounding like a teenager, I need some advice on a certain man. This guy calls me sometimes several times a day. We talk every day. He constantly asks me if I have feelings for him beyond friendship. BUT he sleeps with random women so I'm sort of wary. The other thing that bothers me is he tried getting me in bed and I told him not outside of relationships and he said he respects that. I find it hard to feel out if he's just trying to tell me what I want to hear or if he's genuine. He told me he's stopped seeing his "friends with benefits" and he wants to find a good girl. He's even shared some very personal information with me and I was shocked. So what's everyone's opinion here. Is it possible he is just trying to get me in bed as a sort of challenge?

2007-01-26 17:30:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanna know cause im board so please answer

2007-01-26 17:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

At 50, prozaced, a minister, and inexperienced, I have a girl friend that I enjoy helping out. She is in a little financial difficulty and has no car. I am very comfortable with her. But the old libido just is not there. I feel like an uncle to her two daughters, who are very smart and sweet.

I sense I need to do a little something to keep the relationship going. I enjoy talking to her. We are both Christians. She is very overweight and I am pot bellied and average looks. I am so much out of the mating game I have a beard, which is white. Shaving irritates my skin a lot, so I do not want to do it. My hair is gray, white now. My once boyish looks are of yesterday.

I would like to keep the relationship going. Before it I felt so lonely. So I would grateful for any advice.

2007-01-26 17:29:58 · 3 answers · asked by Rev. Dr. Glen 3

I was in the hallway and was opening my locker. I was holding a soda and books. My boyfriend came walking up to me. He scared me, an i hate it when i get scared. He just said "boo" and came up next 2 me for a little kiss. I screamed and threw my soda at him. I was so angry that i pushed him on the ground and threw my books on him. Then i grabbed everything in my locker and threw it on him. He was covered in soda and books and papers. I got so angry at him because the soda got my homework wet. I started kicking him and grabbing other people's books and was throwing them at him. I had every right to.Then, he broke up with me and said i needed "anger manegment." Can u believe it? He broke my heart so i kicked him in the shins and took all of his pencils and broke them. I ripped up his homework and stuck glue to his chair. I aslo took everything out of his binder and went to the girls room and flushed it down the toilet. Why did he break up w/ me? Everything was his fault! I need advice!

2007-01-26 17:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 17:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

This guy really flirts with me and he is currently single and my friend likes this guy but not as much as i do.......HELP ME!!

2007-01-26 17:29:10 · 15 answers · asked by Know-It-All or Nothing 2

I hope you understand the significance of this question.

2007-01-26 17:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Count Acumen 5

so theres this kid that i like alotty. ive like him since 7th grade. i like REALLY like him. and we dont have any classes together so we dont really see each other. he kinda doesnt talk alot. but today we like talked and stuff. and latley theres like alot of rumors going around my school and im really confuesd because some people say he likes me and some say he doesnt. and ive never really gotten a real answer from HIM and today we talked about all the rumors and what was/wasnt true. but i STILL dont have a straight answer. i think he may like me..but is a bit shy. someone help =[

do you think i should call/text him? ive never talked to him on the fone or txted him.

2007-01-26 17:28:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 17:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Love the Leaf 1

2007-01-26 17:27:58 · 16 answers · asked by Teri 1

i dont have a nice car and i feel embaresed in asking girls out on a date because i have to pick them up usually or eventually...and i know some girls will say ohh as long as hes cute no problem...but is that really true...like when im in my car no girls look at me at all on the streets but when i take my friends car for a ride all of a sudden i have all these girls looking at me and smiling and it becomes easy to get their numbers...and its not like im driving a lambo or a ferrari its just a plain mazda 3....so whats the deal girls??

2007-01-26 17:26:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 17:26:47 · 1 answers · asked by Ron b 1

well in class we r both loud mouts.everytime he looks at me he smiles in (cute).everyday when our teach has assigned out homework he askes ME wat we have 4 hw -hes like "sooo wat do we have 4 hw?".at PE on running on my 3rd lap he catches up and trys to race me .

2007-01-26 17:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by soccer_babe668 1

why do i feel like i have to always talk to my boyfriend even though its causing me to lose out on doin other things

2007-01-26 17:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i realy like this girl at school and ive told her before but she doesnt seem to like me how can i get her interested

2007-01-26 17:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 17:24:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's very obvious to me that he's more into friends than me. he won't admit it and when i bring up evidence he keeps getting mad claiming "you're just assuming everything." today i just had enough. he had to lie to his friend that he was at work OT just to hang out with me before he heads out with his friend. then he was planning to lie to his friend once again just to hang out with me since he doesn't want to sound like a buster "ditching homies for girls." when i got mad he got mad right back. all he does is get mad whenever i bring this issue up. i broke up with him just right now. i don't want to "fight over" who he cares for more anymore b/t me or friends. i let him hang out definitely... just that he has to lie to hang out with me to his friends.

was my decision any good? do you think what i "assume" is true given the info i provided? thanks!

2007-01-26 17:23:34 · 20 answers · asked by dorkydork 2

The problem is he told a friend of mine this in confidence and I'm not supposed to know about it. First he told him he had feelings for me but wasn't going to let himself "go there" (cuz he's married). Well now he's getting divorced and he told my friend that he is going to "explore" his feelings for me. I'm not sure what to do here. Any advice????

2007-01-26 17:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by ♥☠Madame Joker☠♥ 7

ok,my friend asked the guy i like if he liked me and he said only as a friend that he doesn't even know me that well...so i thought i should try to start conversations with him....would should i say?

2007-01-26 17:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by kayla H 1

2007-01-26 17:20:40 · 9 answers · asked by Funbunny 1

help

2007-01-26 17:19:42 · 2 answers · asked by anthony 3

Why is he so confusing?
I went into my work today just to say hi to this guy I work with. Also to patch up my mistake of telling him that I didn't have a crush on him (because he asked) because he was shorter than me. That was just a spur of the moment thing, and I actually could have a crush on him, but I don't right now. I mean he isn't that much shorter than me. Anyway, I think I hurt his pride when I said that.
I foregot that there was a party going on there and it was REALLY busy. I stayed to help out. While I was working he said something like "you wouldn't want to go drinking with Kat and me tonight, would you?" I said that I actually would. I couldn't hear his response and we had to keep working. So when I was getting ready to go home because things were slowing down, I asked him "what it was that he said about drinking?" He wass texting someone and looked up and said "nothing". I got confused, but I made it clear that I was disapointed I think. Then he said if I wanted to come drinking to just to

2007-01-26 17:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My curiosity has got the better of me.
Is it possible to be with some one for years, and deeply love that person undeniably, and with your very soul, only to meet another person who seems to fuel a passion within you that is so appealing to say the least, that makes you feel asthough they are the only one's in the world who has the ability to read you inside out.... surely it could not be love because you would already be in love with another, and surely you cannot love two people..... what would you say this feeling could be in your opinion?.... just curious

2007-01-26 17:15:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous