My curiosity has got the better of me.
Is it possible to be with some one for years, and deeply love that person undeniably, and with your very soul, only to meet another person who seems to fuel a passion within you that is so appealing to say the least, that makes you feel asthough they are the only one's in the world who has the ability to read you inside out.... surely it could not be love because you would already be in love with another, and surely you cannot love two people..... what would you say this feeling could be in your opinion?.... just curious
2007-01-26 17:15:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that is called infatuation. People fall in and out of love, it's a fact of life. After years that infatuation fades and seems to grow into a boring routine.
It takes 2 people to make love work. It also takes trust, loyalty, faith, desire to keep the sparks flying, and etc. The people that make it through thick and thin and still hold a strong bond are the ones that truly love each other.
2007-01-26 17:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by momathome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you want to have both, but you're not going to be able to have both. This happens. My girl and I have been together for a little over 3 years now and there are some things about her that I wish were different. Every so often I meet someone who has those aspects that I desire from my girl and someone who is willing to be with me. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't tempted by them, but I still left them be. Why? Because even though my girl isn't everything I want her to be, she's everything that I need her to be. Besides, I'm far from perfect. Why should I expect her to be. You need to decide what's the most important thing for you to have in a relationship and then decide whether or not either of these men can fullfill them and to what extent they can fullfill them.
2007-01-26 17:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called being human. There is a difference between lust and love. It is very possible to love two people, BUT being IN love and just loving someone can be confusing. One of these people bring out something in you that you thought you never had and then the other can just be a perfect fit, it doesn't mean that you don't love the one you are with, it just means that there is someone out there who rocks your world the way no one else can. Also remember that lust is temporary, love is forever!
2007-01-26 17:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Vanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is that dangerous feeling that will eventually passes but that many people act on it before it does, destroying their love with someone else. after you've been with someone a long time its very common to find someone that attracts you sexually. however that doesnt make it any less dangerous and risky. this happened maybe because your sexual relationship with your partner is maybe not as passionate as it was at the beginning. which makes you subconciously think that you need someone new to experience that passion. quickly start doing new things with your guy. explore new boundaries. look for websites and books that tell you how to rekindle that passion between you, while staying away from this other person, and soon enough you'll forget about them and have what you thought you needed from them, because you'll then have it with your partner.
2007-01-26 17:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question, If you're religious God puts the right person in your life, it a heart thing, everything from your mind to your heart are focused and set aside for this one person, everything else falls into wants, desires, and infatuation, puppy love these are no where near the term of being in love. Passion is nothing but bliss so be careful. In this situation think with your head not your heart.
2007-01-26 17:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rich M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a longing that burns in the soul of all those in need of something that another has a part of them that can not be obtained through physical means, a feeling that can't be felt through a mere touch of the skin...something hidden in the heart
2007-01-26 17:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people say they can love more than one person but being in love is a feeling only 2 people can share
2007-01-26 17:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually, it is very possible to love two people. Everyone has two sides to them. One person will satisfy/undstand one side of you, and the other person will with the other.
But I would not recomend leaving your man of four years for this new found guy. He is just something different, and thats what you like. Your interest in the new guy will pass.
2007-01-26 17:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i say you're confused. you don't know what love is obviously...because you say your in love with one person yet another is sweeping you off your feet. if you were truely in love with the first person, you wouldn't feel like that other person is the only one that can see right through you...because the person you love is supposed to do that. its not fair to either one of them...don't juggle them around. thats wrong and even though you see it as innocent, these might be very decent people. you either stick with who you have, or if you find that the other one sweeps your feet higher, go with that one. don't play.
2007-01-26 17:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's infatuation, not love. Big difference.
You can't be in love with 2 people at the same time.
2007-01-26 17:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋