this girl has been my friend for a while and couple of mths after we met i told her that i liked her. we got to be really good friends but there's times when were 2gether that we act like a couples. we've done everything as what couples do but she have never made anything official or have xpress her feelings towards me. she knows how much i liked her & she knows that if she's w/ me that she will be in good hands & happy. sometimes/now i feel like i'm her puppet on a string wer if she feels alone or sad that she can take me in to her life but wen time comes wer she feels get'n closed to me, she locks me up on a closet, lock it up & keep the keys w/ her so no one else can take me. finally i decided to move on &meet other women. i met her friend w/ i ended up spending a lot of time w/ & hooked up several times. now the other girl found out bout me & her friend got mad at her friend for being w/ me & y she's doing this to her? why does it matter to her who i'm wid wen she said no be4?
2007-01-26 19:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by Bizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know... I was quite interested in your question when it started until you made so many typographical errors and misspelled words (I'm guessing intentionally even) that I just gave up and stopped reading. How hard is it to spell "why" instead of y; and "before" instead of "be4"; and "with, when" instead of "wid wen". Wow, now I have a headache. Good luck.
2007-01-26 19:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like that girl was probably USING YOU in the beginning to fulfill her loneliness or ego because she knows that you liked her. And knowing that you have a crush on her lets her know that you're always gonna be around when she needs a ego boost. Obviously, you were never #1 on her list. Now that you're with another girl, it makes her feel even more insecure about herself because you're not going to come to her every call. She's mad because she can't stand the fact that your with a woman (meaning the other girl is better than her). Basically, she has no right to be mad at you or start trouble with your new relationship when she is not even your girl to start with and she was not truthful or mature enough with her emotions with you in the first place. If it was me, I wouldn't waste my time with people like that.
2007-01-27 04:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is one of those unsaid rules that you should not date your friends boyfreind I dont know if you guys have such a rule. Any way if you guys did and acted as couples I bet she believed you were going out. You had to insist for her to verbalise on how she feels. It was wrong of you to hook up with her friend...very wrong...i can't give you a reason...i guess it is a girl thing. Now that it seems that you have moved on you have tolet her know that as much as you liked her she is not responding and she has to let you go. More over try to find out from her friends if she is an open person. There are people who express thier feelings in different ways. Find out how she expressed hers.
2007-01-27 03:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey
She is playing games but you don't have to. Just be a man...ask her where you stand...boyfriend, sexpal or just friends...find out first...then you know where to go from there. If you are a boyfriend then she can place restrictions on you...if not the she has no say in what you do and isn't being a good friend by handcuffing you...good luck...
2007-01-27 03:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Zawa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she's jealous!!!!! not because she loves you but because she doesn't get your attention... she wants to be love by you ( we girls like that) but the thing is, she can't give you any assurance that she feel the same thing that you did.... She was your world back then... i know you can give her 100% love but she can't give it to you... if she wants to maybe she already hav given it to you.....
you know i'm a girl we sometimes feels hurt when we see our past suitor who had become close to us, hooked up with other girls..... we'll in the meantime i advised you to go with the present ones... if the past will really love you and you still love her why not go for it?
2007-01-27 03:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by precious_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she's too scared to let go of you and too scared to get close. I'd say that she has some strong feelings for you, but that she doesn't know how to deal with them.
That said, you can't wait your whole life waiting for her to find herself. If you're still interested, I'd say chat with her and ask her to make a decision, one way or another.
2007-01-27 03:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's changed her mind. Women tend to do that, you know.
It could also be exactly what you said. She doesn't really want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
Whichever it is, you need to talk to her and find out what is going on.
2007-01-27 03:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls can be confusing and dumb
this girl is both...... she wanted to have boyfriend girlfriend privileges without the actual attachment
she was just using you and now she wants to be all upset cause you were with her friend
dont feel bad dude, just leave them both in the past and be done with this whole mess
2007-01-27 03:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by lola b. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are females like that and probably more common than people think ,,,,, They have a high regard for themselves ,,,,They are selfish and selfcentered and they are generally known as PT's ,,,, (peter teasers) Move on in your life ,,,,,, she knows what she's doing and if she were a true friend she wouldn't be doing it ,,,,,, you are probably one in a long lind ,,,,,Yoda told you this ,,,,,,
2007-01-27 07:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter...she wants the best of both worlds (her freedom and yours too)...move on in the forward direction
2007-01-27 03:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋