Any advice when girlfriend ignores you and avoids you?

Question

I know this question has been asked before, I'd just like to add some specific things that are relevant!

I used to speak to my girlfriend everyday on the phone (by text or calling) and used to see each other at least every other week but for the last two weeks we have hardly talked.

I don't mind her avoiding me, it's the not telling me what's going on that is driving me nuts! I have left her messages, but she hasn't called me. She says she will sometimes, but never does.

I think she is probably just busy, but too busy to take 5minutes to call me?!

I really want to make things work with her, has anyone got any useful advice (i.e. not people saying dump her etc)

Thanks!

Answer 1

People always find the time to do the things that they like.
try and imitate what she does and see if she gets back at you. The chances are she has another boyfriend and another life now and she has not revealed this to either of you. She wants to string both of you along.
I would ask you to sum up all the courage you have and go and ask her if she would like to break it off with you. This is probably what she wants but she will pretend otherwise. Come up with an excuse of why you want to break up like you have so much to do right now. Then part ways in a gentle way.

Answer 2

You've probably been too "available" and "predictable". First of all, you might wanna find out why she ignores/avoids you. The way to do that is to be unavailable and unpredictable. Stop calling her and bugging her. Just go about your business for a day, a few days, a week... till you hear from her. If you don't hear from her, I'd have to interprete the avoidance = prelude to a breakup.

Good luck!

Answer 3

She is trying to break up with you, pretty obvious. Too much time apart perhaps.

Just get on with your life and try and have fun, if she sees you're totally fine without her and don't need her she might be inclined to want to get back with you. i.e. to want to be needed.

Otherwise if she has lost interest in being with you then there ain't much you can do, but if you've already made an effort to get out there and enjoy life, meet new people, etc. then you might not care so much she's dumped you cause you got a new life happenin'

Answer 4

if she has responded to your messages....your claim, 'she says she will sometimes'. what's the fuss about....she's actually replying to your messages in the past two weeks.

if she is your girlfriend as you say...what is the problem?? I just dont get it here. youre leaving something out?

you want to make things work with her....but what exactly is the problem you were having? is there a problem? was there a problem?

maybe youre worrying for no reason. hang out with your friends or family and have fun and dont worry so much. hey, when you have to wait a month or more then you can worry. peace

Answer 5

Let him have his fun. Move on. You can meet up with friends years later and it's all cool. Try to get a chick and then double date or something. You're a little young for that, but that may work. It'll make your friend and his chick feel a little more comfortable.

Answer 6

I'm not trying to be mean but it seriously sounds like she has lost interest in you. i understand a person getting busy and all but you should at least have a few minutes to talk to the one you love. like me for example i have been married almost 8 years, i have 3 daughters, I'm pregnant with twins and i also work full time plus i take care of the house work and the cooking. im busy all the time but i always make sure that i make time for my hubby. im not saying you should dump her but maybe you should ask her why she can't find time for you any more. good luck :)

Answer 7

Sorry, but is sounds like she's checked out of this relationship already. I know you don't want to hear it but it's time to break up. Save yourself a load of heartache and move on.

Answer 8

Sorry, but I don't think you need to dump her. I think she dumped you. Of course, she was incredibly immature about it and didn't bother to tell you, but that's what's happened.

Just to be very sure, you should give her a call and try one more time to see what's up.

Answer 9

Try to meet her in person. Ask her what's been going on in her life (try to gauge how busy she's been and whether there has been things bothering her in her life). You need to talk to her in person to see her reaction.

These guessing games aren't fun.

Answer 10

Well welcome to a women's world!!!!! This is exactly what men do to women. The old '' I'll call you soon" and then never do. You've been dump my man. And she doesn't have the guts to tell you nor does she want to. Don't call her back , move on.