is it easy for you to get over a girl you were once totally drowned in when you have to see her every single day?
2007-01-26 19:45:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO but I make a paticular point NEVER to see girls i was REALLY involved with and broke up... Those ones i just want to see run over by a bus (pay good money to see it in fact.. LOTSSA money in fact)
Rule #1 avoid X's at all costs unless its at thier funeral.. in which case a lil dance is in order (what i do anyway.. I totally love when an x of mine bites it and I attend the funerals if i know about it.. wizzing on the grave is the bestest part IMO.. OH YES and i have and I will..)
Does that answer your question
2007-01-26 19:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually it's a guys natural immaturity that dulls or irradicates any possible pain or remorse anyone might normally feel for a failed relationship ,, Most young guys and allot of older guys up to and past their 30's or sometimes even their 40's and beyond ,, have no idea or concept as to the meaning of the words relationship ,, or commitment ,, or what these words entail ,,,, With them it's always ,, "I do" ,, until they no longer want to ,, But while you still hold their interest you won't find a more ardent or concerned lover ,,,, But when he finally starts losing intrest in you (due to his immaturity) he realizes that he was just in lust instead of love ,,,, The only serious problem with that is that it usually comes one or two or maybe even more children too late ,,,, It's natural and normal for a teenager to be selfish and self-centered ,,,, even in a relationship ,, because they have never had to put anyone ahead of themselves in their lives before ,,,, This also applies to girls too although it's more prevelent in the male ,,,, A guy in the age brackets I mentioned earlier though are in a habbit of letting their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, This gland activity also makes them good actors up to and including tears too so don't let them fool you that way either ,,,, Girls have this problem too but seem better able to deal with it than guys ,,,, But to answer your question as to how easy it is for a guy to get over a girl ,,,, Yes it's very easy ,, due to the excessive amouts of testostrone ,, chemical ,, and glandular activity going on inside of him ,,,, If he's left you or is thinking of it ,, it's usually because he's lost interest in you and starts fishing again so to speak for something different ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond and he wants a taste of them all ,,,, If he ever does come to the realization that he's made a mistake in leaving you and starts feeling remorse because it ,,,, It's usually way too late in the game to do anything about it ,,,, He can't expect you or anyone else to put their life on hold waiting for him to make up his mind ,,,, Hope this answers your question and you keep this in mind when you contemplate getting close to anyone else ,,,, You have asked a good question here that I see quite often but it still rates a star as far as I'm concerned ,,,, Good luck ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-01-27 05:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't always easy to move on because you are constantly reminded of the past. Until you can consign her to history every meeting is difficult. The best way is a clean break from her.
2007-01-27 03:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on his dateablility quotient. A playa will have no trouble forgetting about you and moving on the next girl. The shy loyal type might get a little neurotic about it.
2007-01-27 03:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its hard to forget a girl u loved so deeply becuz i had the same experience.Last time i had a crush on a girl she did not know and we were good friends,but then once she knew that i liked her she stopped talking to me, and soon she went away.i was SO heartbroken.anyway try to get over it as soon as possible,if not try loving some other gal
2007-01-27 03:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by help me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. This has happended to me and all we do is avoid each other. I got rid of my pain by going out with someone else
2007-01-27 03:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by justice_is_hott 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO way its just as hard as when you get dumped and have to see him everyday only guys dont show it as much
2007-01-27 04:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time is the best medicine
There'd be a pain, but people can forget
2007-01-27 03:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ozgur Alaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god no! That makes it a million times worse!! And any man who says different is a liar!
2007-01-27 03:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Lord! Is this form of torture fun? No, it isn't easy at all.
2007-01-27 03:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋