we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. She also kinda ignored me at work today (we are coworkers but only share hours once a week or so) .Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?
2007-01-26 20:32:58 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i saw her staring at me a couple times at work, cuz she did say before that i was cute, but just cuz she looks at me doesn't mean anything?
2007-01-26 20:33:45 · update #1
I'm 20, not some jr. high teenager.
She's 19
2007-01-26 20:34:40 · update #2
Don't call her, but don't stop talking to her at work.
2007-01-26 20:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok brother, sounds like you have a common problem on your hands. Yes thiz girl seems to be interested, but never the less, she iz a girl, so that means the chances are not good that she will actualy call her. Every time you call her, it makes her feel important. So she iz prolly gettin you messages, but she iz jes too shy to return any calls. So i suggest try callin a few more times (def leave messages), and next time you see her, ask her if she got your message. Then ask her what would be a good time to call. Keep tryin brother, atleast give it another week to see what happends. Good luck
2007-01-27 04:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not returning messages is a big sign to forget this chick. A chick who is interested will wait by the phone to get a text and send a reply straight away. Sorry dude, move on time.
2007-01-27 04:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I hate to tell you this. That looks bad. 2 Canceled dates (legit reasons) not calling or returning your messages. She's blowing you off. Just drop it. If she likes you after you let it go you'll know.
2007-01-27 04:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say back off and chill for a bit. see what she does. she's probably a little interested in you. she might even be playing "hard to get"....which i don't understand much. but yea. i would stop calling, but i wouldn't stop talking to her. ask her out again, something small, maybe lunch. something like that. then work from there. but she might think you're too...whats the word?...needy?...if you keep calling all the time. you want to balance it to show you're still interested but that your not desperate...
2007-01-27 04:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your gonna have to make the call on calling her... You need to pay more attention to her action towards you, maybe she is playing hard to get or maybe she had second thoughts about seeing you..If you do catch her starring at you more than a few times, I would say she's playing hard to get... If you see her smile or wink or any kind of "YES" body language...You know one way to think about it is, What do you have to lose? All she can say is NO...Will you live if she says no? I think so, so take a chance and put yourself out there...
2007-01-27 04:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by yomanitsjay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you called and showed interest it's up to her to show interest back. If you're the one to call again you could appear pushy. Just give her nice smiles when you see her, but otherwise forget about contacting her again until you hear from her.
2007-01-27 04:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it, but being a female, if i didn't return phone calls or messages, that would be my way of letting someone down easy without having to tell them verbally to leave me alone, you know? find someone else, there are plenty more of us out there!! you just haven't lucked up to find the right one yet!!
2007-01-27 04:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by AMANDA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude get over her, you sound like a stalker.
Can't you take a hint without being hit in the head with a baseball bat?
2007-01-27 04:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by sitdownshutupnplay2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, if she's not returning your messages, you're toast.
Sorry Big Kahuna, but that's how the pineapple crumbles...
2007-01-27 04:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋