Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

I have just dated this guy for a week and we saw each other few times. This guy is so caring and nice that made me to have sex with him at the very first date and we had more after. I kinda regret it now cause I don't want a guy to misunderstand me or feel I'm his F***body & want to use me only. Therefore, I want you to tell me what I'm supposed to do? What's the best way to stay away from all these ideas and "sex only" situations?

2007-01-14 18:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by ELK 1

what if a married man calls you almost every single day.. does he just look for a friend? or ... else.. (?)

2007-01-14 18:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by curlie 2

My best friend that is a girl has been messing around with some guys and she feels really bad about it and wants really bad to be a good girl but she says she struggles beacuse she gets pressured into doing stuff. Well me and this same girl got in big trouble for messing around...a lot. When we got in trouble we had a big long thing on how its best to wait on stuff till we are married or whatever plus both are paretns are really religous and stuff. We she is still like my best friend and we talk about this stuff and she is saying how she does not want to do stuff with them but she does not know what to do beacuse they keep on pressuring her and i just want to go beat them up but its really not my place so what can i really do. She is also scared to tell her parents because they just started trusting her again after the thing with us.

2007-01-14 18:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 18:42:35 · 2 answers · asked by emily_8691 1

i was iwth my ex boyfriend for almost 5years. i still have feelings for him.m trying to get over him but its so hard because i was with him so long its hard to feel comfortable with nother uy. like how i feel about my body n everthing else. i just turned 19 and im so confused on what to do. i want to be with my ex so bad n im afraid to move on but i dont know if he wants to b with me.i dont know just please help!!

2007-01-14 18:41:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am from sommalia,after we got engaged my mother checked my to be wife to check if she was circumcised.Sadly she was not circumcised.My mother decided to circumcise her the same night of our marriage.I remember she was escorted into the room with my mother.She did not know anything about what she was getting into.Though I knew I didnt tell as i know she would not co-operate.My mother stripped her naked and fifteen women who come with the circumciser took hold of her and pinned her on the bed.They opened her legs wide open and riped clotoris out.I was not allowed to come in but i knew they had started to cut her as she was screaming her lungs out.No sooner did they rip her clotoris she became unconcious and she started bleeding very profusely.We rushed her to the hospital were she was given 4 sticthes.She was unconcious for 3 days after which she regained concious..She is so scared that she is not allowing anyone to have a glimpse of it ,she is unconsolable how can I help her recover?

2007-01-14 18:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this guy was a totall hiretsukan to me on our date he said that the dress i was wearing was reaveling and that aparently a pink dress with sleves and a low hem line doesnt cyt it in a muslim household and that im not worthy to kiss his fuckings sandals what should i do ladys?


and btw hiretsukan mean b*stard in japanese im fluint

2007-01-14 18:39:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now I've never had a girlfriend in my entire 22 years on earth, plus I attended an all boy high school (NO, I'M NOT GAY), so this could be apart of the reason why I have such poor or dull social skills with girls.

And before High School, when I was in a co-ed environment, I've had negative experiences with girls(nasty attitudes), which I carried into High School. I don't harbor them now. I'm actually trying to break out of this thinking and learn to trust and not concieve every girl to be a complete snob. I mean, they were only youngsters so their behavior was understandable.

But now, despite the saying, "there's someone for everyone", I still have a hard time believing this. Is it possible that some people are seriously meant to be single?

2007-01-14 18:39:20 · 3 answers · asked by Enigma 1

2007-01-14 18:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by Truth 1

kk. but i gotta problem.! ok. there is this boy && i like him alot. but when my friend asked him he didnt seem to be likin me how i thought he was. but i told my friend that i started back likin the boy at skool and he got hella mad and started goin off on me. what do i do?

2007-01-14 18:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3

I was just wondering, me & my b-friend have been together for 5 years, I think things have become a bit boring, but anyway, my b-friend says that he still loves me ect.. i have no reason to doubt that at allllll,
but I was curious, can you really love someone for that long without thinking what if...
I know this sounds silly.

2007-01-14 18:35:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 33 year old woman , you'd think I would want to get married or at least have a long term relationship with someone but all I want is the honeymoon stage and then I want to move on because i get bored. I will end up being a very lonley old woman if I can't figure this out. Don't most women dream of having a husband or life partner? It just scares me!

2007-01-14 18:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im shy only because i can conversate well. if i could i would have a girlfreind in a snap. so how /what can i talk about with the girl i like before and after i ask her out.

2007-01-14 18:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by IgotwatUn33d 1

My girlfriend broke up with me tonight, and I'm pretty torn up over it. Any suggestions?

2007-01-14 18:32:56 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets have some interesting answers here people..indulge..or if you want..share a fantasy. Guys, Girls *** one *** all!! hehe have fun.

2007-01-14 18:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is for shakira fans , somebody told me that when she was like 19 years she had a boyfriend seventeen years older than her , and he mistreated her and then she dumped him because of that ,and now he is on jail for mistreat her wife , this was in the begginnig of her career

is that true?

2007-01-14 18:30:45 · 3 answers · asked by blackandblue78 1

What should i say to ask someone out that i know likes me and they know i like them.? I have known them for a couple months, so were not complete strangers.

2007-01-14 18:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by Karma 1

Do you think close friends can live together and still be great friends? Or is alwys about sex on some level?

2007-01-14 18:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by PaxVobiscum 1

Here is goes...met her at a party thru friends of friend etc. We got along really well - talked a little bit about each other (before we started drinking) what we do etc. We went to bedroom at the house party and maybe kissed once or twice and then suddenly had to leave to take care of one of our mutual friend (drunk). I called her next day (no pickup). few days later she txt me saying she couldnt get back to me cause she is currently out of state attending some important interviews for grad school (which we talked about during party before drinking-so she is telling the truth) and told me she will call me when returns. It been 10 days from the txt. She lives a busy lifestyle so i dont know if she forgot to call back or does not want to call. If she was not interested why would she txt me back and explain reason. But it has been 10 days. I so confused. What should I do? (If i call, it seems like i am forcing it & and if i dont call, is she waiting for me to call her)) CONFUSED.

2007-01-14 18:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Blue Ocean 1

Perhaps a stupid headline but what I mean is...well...I'm not very buff at all...in fact I'm VERY ******* skinny...you know...small arms, thin legs, majorly bony rear, etc.

I was thinking of working out some more really...and I realize a lot of girls DO think that "buff, perfect butt" and so on are hot, but is it bad if I'm so small?

I've been called cute a lot, and even hot on occasions, but my appearance is something I stress over a lot (like how I worry if my new girlfriend might perhaps think "ew" or something).

Some people say I'm really sweet and all that, so I guess I have everything else but a hot body.




P.S. If you are that idiot by the name of "l" who keeps replying to things with 1-2 words...don't even bother. Kthxbye

2007-01-14 18:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by Nick 2

hots for girlfriends sister. However I love my girlfriend but when i see her sister its just like temptational. WHat should i do? It needs to be resolved. HA

2007-01-14 18:25:26 · 15 answers · asked by hoops4me991 1

So today my crush gave me a ride home and he has an old car so for his seat belt to come off you have to open the door so I opened it to free myself from the seat belt but he mistook it for me leaving and was like "Oh I see how it is" so I'm like "Do you want a hug?" and he says yea and it was really weird like I put my arms against me and he sorta put his arm around me and it was just a weird experience, so I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to hug in the car.

Thanks.

2007-01-14 18:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anna G 2

My bf and I have been together nearly two years. He gives me a headache sometimes, but I still love him. Here's my situation. I work a job that causes me to work some weekends (nightshift). And it seems like whenever I'm working he likes to hang out with friends which is ok, mainly his crippled cousin (who I've never met) that lives 1 1/2hrs away. This past weekend he went up to "see his cousin" and didn't let me know. So, I've been calling him all weekend without any reply, just 4 text messages. Finally this morning I get a call back where he tells me he's with his cousin. This afternoon I tried calling 7x's to see if he would be attending our puppy's class and he replies via text message an hour later saying that he didn't have good service to call. I replied with a "Leave me alone"... At this point I feel like I need to either meet this "cousin" or call it. Is that taking it extreme or am I right? I figure that he should at least have the respect to call his gf back not just a text.

2007-01-14 18:23:18 · 17 answers · asked by Y.a.S.L 3

I am totally like completely in love with this girl who is beautifull and sexy as hella hot, but when shes doing sexual favors for me i dont always come. Why is this?

2007-01-14 18:21:32 · 4 answers · asked by Maxwell F 1

I want to be Sailor Moon... I know I can dress the part... I want to be her to get the man I love.

2007-01-14 18:21:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i met him two years ago, he wanted to be with me. i wasnt ready because i didnt know him that well but now , since july, ive been in love with him. he is currently in a relationship but constantly wants to hang out with me . she also doesnt seem to like me very much. what should i do?

2007-01-14 18:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Um.....Do you remember my question from earlier today about that guy from NY who's 4 years younger than me & couldn't give me a definate date on when he could come visit me...kept changing the months, went from Feb, to May to June to now this........

Were you ever dating someone that you thought was 'the one' and wonderful and all.......and one day out of nowhere, they just break up with you and you never ever hear from them again???

He broke up w/ me online at like 9:30. He said "We have to break up. Don't text me cuz it costs money and I won't answer." WHAT THE HELL??? I didn't do a thing wrong!!! We were having a nice chat on AIM like 30 mins before this!

2007-01-14 18:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

Ok, I cheated on my boyfriend and the guy had a bigger dick. Can guys tell when another dick's been in their girl?

2007-01-14 18:19:31 · 14 answers · asked by teeteewoods69 1

Tim or Adam?

2007-01-14 18:18:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

my X boyfriend broke up with me.so i needed sum1 to talk to, i found it in sum1 else that i grew to love so much that its crazy. i neva went wit him because he went wit sum1 else. i neva thought we would move that fast but we did. but i also still had a lil bit of feelings for my X. one day my x started callin me tellin me how sorry he was n how much he wanted me back n that he still loves me very much n how much he has changed. at first i wasnt goin to mess wit him because i loved sum1 untill the other night whn the boy i fell in love wit told me that he thought it was best for me n hm to b betta off wit his girlfriend( a lil late 4 that) but he said he didn't want to leave me alone n that he loved me n that it was the hardest thing for him to do. n i still love him but my x boyfriend realyy has changed n im fallin back in love with him to but im still in love wit the other boy n now the other boy is tryin to go back wit me n i really want him but i also want me x...who do i choose?

2007-01-14 18:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by confused!!!**** 1