Here is goes...met her at a party thru friends of friend etc. We got along really well - talked a little bit about each other (before we started drinking) what we do etc. We went to bedroom at the house party and maybe kissed once or twice and then suddenly had to leave to take care of one of our mutual friend (drunk). I called her next day (no pickup). few days later she txt me saying she couldnt get back to me cause she is currently out of state attending some important interviews for grad school (which we talked about during party before drinking-so she is telling the truth) and told me she will call me when returns. It been 10 days from the txt. She lives a busy lifestyle so i dont know if she forgot to call back or does not want to call. If she was not interested why would she txt me back and explain reason. But it has been 10 days. I so confused. What should I do? (If i call, it seems like i am forcing it & and if i dont call, is she waiting for me to call her)) CONFUSED.
2007-01-14 18:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Blue Ocean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do think that if she’s really interested with you, she would call or text you sooner and won't wait for more than 3 days. Even if she says she's busy, how many seconds/minutes would it take to text you or to dial your number????
But if you really like her, why won't you call her? There’s really nothing to lose at least you'll know what the real score is.
Also, ask your common friends about her, her background (if she has a boyfriend or not, or how she treat boys).... information from friends will help you a lot in determining her personality.
2007-01-14 18:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by youknowho! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her how your feeling. Tell her it OK if she's not interested but to let you know so you won't be bothering her. If she seem interested then pick a day for a date and tell her she as to call you to tell you with the time. If she call with a time GREAT. If not move on don't waste anymore time on her. Her lose she may have just passed up mister right!!1
2007-01-15 02:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope - not interested. I am an extremely busy women myself, but when someone gets my attention, I MAKE TIME! don't hang onto that sms, it was sent out of curtesy and as complicated as women can be, you were meant to read between the lines. sorry to say, but I think you should move on. you'll find the right one sooner or later - for now, go and have some fun.
2007-01-15 02:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone is really really interested in you, no matter how busy their lifestyle is...they won't forget to call you. if you left a good lasting impression in their eyes, they won't forget about you. and if of course they do not call, it's not your obligation to sit and wait until they do. move on to the next girl. after all it was just a kiss. nothing major
2007-01-15 02:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First: Leaving her for a drunk friend..... not god all you did is tell her right there that your friends are coming before her.... not good! What.... are you babysitting or what? Call her once more and ask her if she has something to say maybe she's waiting for you to ask if something is upsetting her, if you don't ask you'll never know.
2007-01-15 02:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by SECA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should call or text her...maybe just to ask how was the interviews and how is she doing? That ought to do the trick and you'll know whether she's interested or not through her replies.
2007-01-15 02:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Aranel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her but as a tip, i have a busy lifestyle too but i make time for things i want to happen. if she says she's busy and doesnt call back, she probably doesnt wanna talk 2 u
2007-01-15 02:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by teeteewoods69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her , some girls don't like calling guys like me lol i love it when a guy calls it makes me know that he thinks about me. she may be waiting 4 u 2 call or she may have forgotten just call her n say u know that Ur just checking up on her
2007-01-15 02:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well mybe she is really busy there and had to do more stuff than she planned to do and had to saty longer t get everything done, because it is college and gollege is mportant. so. just wait and maybe texty her back and sh if she knows areounf what day shell be bak.
2007-01-15 02:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by shrecklover92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We like to play hard to get. Wait a little bit.
2007-01-15 02:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋