I am from sommalia,after we got engaged my mother checked my to be wife to check if she was circumcised.Sadly she was not circumcised.My mother decided to circumcise her the same night of our marriage.I remember she was escorted into the room with my mother.She did not know anything about what she was getting into.Though I knew I didnt tell as i know she would not co-operate.My mother stripped her naked and fifteen women who come with the circumciser took hold of her and pinned her on the bed.They opened her legs wide open and riped clotoris out.I was not allowed to come in but i knew they had started to cut her as she was screaming her lungs out.No sooner did they rip her clotoris she became unconcious and she started bleeding very profusely.We rushed her to the hospital were she was given 4 sticthes.She was unconcious for 3 days after which she regained concious..She is so scared that she is not allowing anyone to have a glimpse of it ,she is unconsolable how can I help her recover?
2007-01-14 18:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not in Somalia you will be lucky if your wife doesn't press charges against your mother and these women. What an inhumane act. Leave barbaric traditions in the past.
2007-01-14 18:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Guinness Guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You stood by while your wife was horrible and permanently disfigured and you did nothing to stop it. What the hell is wrong with you? Imagine yourself being horribly mangled by a tiger and your wife standing by with a loaded gun watching it mangle and eat you but not making any attempt to help you and you might have some idea of what she went though. Your wife will never enjoy sex with you. You could still give her some pleasure if you were hitting the g-spot but a worthless chickenshit bastard like yourself wouldn't care if she was enjoying it anyway. Were I you then I would get the hell away from your family and cut off all contact with them. Then you could try profusely apologizing to your wife and spend the rest of your life treating her as nicely and lovingly as you possibly can while praying that she will one day forgive you. You will never be able to compensate her for the atrocity that you stood by and allowed to happen to her but you can try.
2007-01-14 20:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Frank Edwards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There needs to be an end put to circumcising women. It is called genital mutilation because you are mutilating a woman and putting her at risk for many different kinds of infections, miscarriages, or death. There are so many groups that are trying to educate communities about the dangers of female mutilation and put a stop to it. I had a friend from Egypt who was sickened that he knew people that this happens to and said he would never allow this to be done to his own children. Really if I were your wife I would run from you because you knew she was going to be hurt, but you let it happen anyway.
2007-01-14 18:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You took away you're wife's only pleasure. For her sake, I hope she never forgives you. Basically, if you flipped the situation around, it would have been a swarm of guys cutting your d*ck off. How would you feel if she let that happen to you? Not so hot i suppose. Just be there for her and treat her right. Thats all you can do now.
2007-01-14 18:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I at first was thinking this question was some sick loser's idea of a joke. Either way you are messed in the head.
2007-01-14 18:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and i thought my country was screwed up why oh why why why why that is the best part of a women when having sex now you can not perfom your duties as a man sexually do you know what's an orgasm oh my your like a song i heard before you've lost that loving feeling and it's gone gone gone..............
2007-01-14 18:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by reinamndz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to jail together with your mother and those 15 whore who held her down. You and your mother forced her to something that she may not want and you let them abuse your wife. I pity your wife for she is in for a nightmare being married to you.
2007-01-14 18:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by say_what!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG you deseve to have your penis yanked off your body for not telling this grown women she was about to be mutilated. You are sick and your mother is nuts!!
2007-01-14 18:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kim D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people do this? what about HUMAN RIGHTS???? H U M A N
R I G H T S!!!! you are human, you have rights. there are ANIMAL RIGHTS! who is to choose that fate for another?? you are to protect and love your wife!! now what
2007-01-14 18:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By getting as far away from her as you can, getting a divorce....and cutting off the umbilical cord you sissy!
2007-01-14 18:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by I MISS YOU! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋