Now I've never had a girlfriend in my entire 22 years on earth, plus I attended an all boy high school (NO, I'M NOT GAY), so this could be apart of the reason why I have such poor or dull social skills with girls.
And before High School, when I was in a co-ed environment, I've had negative experiences with girls(nasty attitudes), which I carried into High School. I don't harbor them now. I'm actually trying to break out of this thinking and learn to trust and not concieve every girl to be a complete snob. I mean, they were only youngsters so their behavior was understandable.
But now, despite the saying, "there's someone for everyone", I still have a hard time believing this. Is it possible that some people are seriously meant to be single?
2007-01-14 18:39:20 · 3 answers · asked by Enigma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus, I am attracted to women taller than me (5'8''). I question if this will ever be a reaelity, because it seems like tall women are not drawn to shorter guys due to insecurities.
2007-01-14 18:45:03 · update #1
Sorry, but it sounds like you have a lot of work to do.
2007-01-14 18:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me ask u a question....are u actually trying? Have you approached other girls or are u just expecting to magically have a girl approach you. from experience I know that usually the girls that approach me are the ugly ones...it's probably because they're not used to being approached and don't understand. So you're expected to approach I know it sucks. But just do it and keep doing it to every girl you see...just say hi or say a compliment or something....just keep doing this and eventually you'll naturally do it when you see a girl you like. Kinda like how people always say thank you. And don't act like a puss...what I mean is instead of acting like a "nice boy kiss your butt do everything you want" instead...instead don't act at all. Be yourself and treat her the way you'd treat someone you've known forever. It'll be hard but trust me...it's a lot better than being the "i'll do anything for you" kind of guy you're probably not.
2007-01-15 02:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient.... its all about time...
just be ur self...
we got same situaation before... it will works with pray.. trust me...
2007-01-15 02:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by pencinta wanita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋