Perhaps a stupid headline but what I mean is...well...I'm not very buff at all...in fact I'm VERY ******* skinny...you know...small arms, thin legs, majorly bony rear, etc.
I was thinking of working out some more really...and I realize a lot of girls DO think that "buff, perfect butt" and so on are hot, but is it bad if I'm so small?
I've been called cute a lot, and even hot on occasions, but my appearance is something I stress over a lot (like how I worry if my new girlfriend might perhaps think "ew" or something).
Some people say I'm really sweet and all that, so I guess I have everything else but a hot body.
P.S. If you are that idiot by the name of "l" who keeps replying to things with 1-2 words...don't even bother. Kthxbye
2007-01-14 18:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually i go for the well built guys, but if your really skinny and you can make it work i am sure that it will be okay and you will find a girl who will like you for the inside. and skinny guys can be cute to. it all is determined by the way you present yourself. girls like it when guys are confident. just dont be too cocky with it. thats not good. actually its a turn off. anyways thats all i got. hope this helps.
2007-01-14 18:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's true that there is much more to love than good looks or the perect body. I personally like guys who are a little thin to average sized, and muscular but i hate big bulky muscles. So it depends on the girl. But if you're bony than maybe you should eat more, try some protein or supplements like creatine (which my friend who is a personal trainer used) but make sure any supplemnt you get it safe. And if you dont exercise now, do that, especially weight lifting/training. Can't hurt to bulk up just a little and put on a few lbs. People are most attracted to a healthy looking body, and boniness may be a sign that you arent eating enough or the right foods.
2007-01-14 18:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can sympathize where you are coming from. Its hard not fitting society's mold of what makes a person "perfect". Being too skinny, too fat, too loud, too anything other than normal is social suicide. I can't say in general that girls don't like skinny guys. There are some that don't. But you have to realize that people come in all shapes and sizes, and more than likely, you have a "type" of girl you like, just like there is some girl out there that likes skinny guys.
If you are really considering "buffing up" remember that you have to consume a large amount of calories to gain weight in the first place, and building muscle burns those calories. Eat healthy, eat more often, and lift a few wieghts. You'll see improvements.
2007-01-14 18:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess the natural tendency is towards tall boys, because healthy, tall, strong men mean unconscious that they are good gene pools (like that girl said) and the instinct of women (and men) is to look for good gene pools. I dislike short guys personally because they always get frustrated if the girl is taller, get very annoyed by people teasing them and stop their girlfriends wearing heals. It's the same attitude you have. You are short and have low confidence. You complain about it (no girl likes a complainer), instead of emphasizing your good point and saying „I don't care about my height because I have more to offer”.
2016-05-24 04:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am attracted to skinny guys. If a guy is okay with my body, I am okay with his body. If you are extremely skinny, you might be smaller than most women. If they love you, they won't care about your size; and if you are kind, responsible, and protective, they will respect your masculinity. Most girls I know don't like huge, muscle bound guys. They would rather see a man who is in good shape from walking, running, cycling, or playing sports.
2007-01-14 18:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is gonna sound really weird but i actually prefer skinny guys, they tend to be less macho and easy going then buff guys... don't stress about your body cos there'll be someone out there who'll like you for who you are...
2007-01-14 19:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why Is it socially acceptable for overweight females to tell a guy to his face he is too skinny when if he was refer to a female that she was OVERweight he could kill a conversation, Lose his job and start a fight all in one sentence? (TRUE STORY) ...... Its not P.C 2use the word "FAT" anymore UNLESS you ARE Fat so skinny people unite, this is OUR word. now only WE can use it.
P.S why not go to the gym? Life`s too short for shallow vanity... If she thinks your too skinny she could well be too fat (Not that theres anything wrong with that sort of thing)
2007-01-17 16:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally like a guy a bit meaty. Like...for a 6'0 tall guy..he should weigh between 185 and 210. But that's just my personal preference. My friend prefers guys much thinner.
2007-01-14 18:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by ms_upsidedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like your body, change it. Work out. Don't do it for the shallow women you see today. You feel too skinny, buff up, and workout. What do you want to do?
2007-01-14 18:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone looks better with a little meat on the bones, but you are what you are...And if you are cute and a good personality someone would be interested...so don't stress...love will come you way...good luck
2007-01-14 18:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋